TTC After A Loss... Race for the BFP! - 211 BFP's!!!

[Lucy1973]

Amos I am so upset for you, I was so sure this one would stick! I also can't imagine seeing a heartbeat and then not, I never saw a heartbeat yet. I am gutted as you have been through too much already and it just ain't fair!

 

[padbrat]

Thanks everyone...it's amazing how much love and support I have from you ladies. I am just numb...I really thought this was my forever baby. I feel like someone has pulled my heart out and ripped it into pieces. It's amazing how different it feels losing a baby when you've heard the heartbeat. Not that I didn't grieve over the ones I lost early, but it just feels so much worse now. I can't even describe it, but you ladies know exactly how I feel.

Amy sweetheart.... even though I am still not online I have been thinking of you and trying to see how you have been doing...

I cannpt express how sad I am for you.... I am in tears right now... I so wish I could give you a massive hug, but a cyber one will have to do

Hunni... My Sassy Golden Whiner... I am sooooo sorry

 

[padbrat]

Meggy Moo.... we love you too!!!

 

[foxforce]

CJSG & Amos so so sorry

I have been off here a week as busy working, so trying to catch up today on first day off and devastated to see the recent posts here Hang in there girlies, everyone seems to have posted some lovely messages to you. Thinking of you both

 

[debgreasby]

Just popping in to let you know that my NT scan went brilliantly! No signs of Edward's Syndrome

and babydust to you all xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[cla]

That's fantastic news deb have you got a pic

 

[puppymom32]

Awesome news Debs!!!

 

[debgreasby]

There ya go ladies

 

[Megg33k]

Amy txt me this morning around 4 hours ago that she was in recovery!

Great news, Deb!

Finally adding people now! Sorry it took so long!

 

[foxforce]

wow superb picture Deb, great news too

 

[debgreasby]

Give Amy love from us all, wishing her a speedy recovery

 

[Megg33k]

Will do!

 

[animalcracker]

Just popping in to let you know that my NT scan went brilliantly! No signs of Edward's Syndrome

and babydust to you all xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

That is wonderful news!!!

 

[animalcracker]

So I am catching up with the news online and what do I see? A 47 year old pregnant Kelly Preston! I am thrilled that she got pregnant after she had such an awful loss. I wonder if she got pregnant naturally at 47. What do you gals think?

Here I am, 38 with no children and so jealous I am green !

 

[Megg33k]

Hmm... That's great news for her! But, I get why you're jealous! I'm jealous too! LOL

 

[svetayasofiya]

Great news Deb!!!!

As for Kelly Preston, I read online that it is highly unlikely that she conceived naturally or that it's even her egg... BUT let me just say this- my grandma had her last child at age 47 back in the 60's and it was all natural. Guess we can never give up hope.

 

[Amos2009]

Selina- thanks for that beautiful poem- it made me

Vickie- I am not sure about the higher dose- let me ask a question- would I have even carried to 8 weeks if it was a clotting issue? Since the heart stopped, but baby was correct size for my dates, wouldn't that mean it was something chromosonal? What do you think?

Deb- wonderful news hunni and what a great picture of little man!!!!!

I just woke up from being pretty much zonked out all day. Not any physical pain, but I am taking the pain pills to take away the pain in my heart.

 

[Vickieh1981]

Selina- thanks for that beautiful poem- it made me

Vickie- I am not sure about the higher dose- let me ask a question- would I have even carried to 8 weeks if it was a clotting issue? Since the heart stopped, but baby was correct size for my dates, wouldn't that mean it was something chromosonal? What do you think?

Deb- wonderful news hunni and what a great picture of little man!!!!!

I just woke up from being pretty much zonked out all day. Not any physical pain, but I am taking the pain pills to take away the pain in my heart.

I don't know for sure. They suspect Isabella died due to a clotting issue. Her heart stopped if it was that because the blood clotted in the placenta.

Early on the placenta is not what is keeping the baby alive so it tends to become a problem later once the placenta is a factor. HTH

ETA: My friend who I referred to earlier lost due to clotting problems at 15, 16 and 17 weeks so it woudln't necessarily be early. xx

 

[groovygrl]

CJ -wishing you sunny days ahead (and loads of baby dust)

deb - fantastic joyful news, really great pic, thanks!

megg - wishing you happy blastie's in sticky tummy days ahead. let amy know I'm sending kiwi love accross the pond. I appreciate people like you who have such a generous spirit, everything you're sharing with her is so compassionate

selina - that poem was lovely - tears driping off my chin, thanks for posting it here.

animal cracker- glad your feeling suppported here. ya, I agree! really great news for kelly preston. Also jealous but stems more from an envy of their privilidged position of being able to throw A LOT of $$$$ at reproductive technology. i don't pretend to know what kind of financial position anyone here is in but...speaking for myself, at 41 I strongly believe I would be on baby #2 if DH and I had multiple thousands to invest in baby dreams. Wow! imagine...putting aside a year to just IVF, IVF, IVF until one sticks. you just need enough cash to pay the salaries of the best fertility specialist and his/her team for a year. wish I could do that but...we do the best we can.

AFM - AF today, BOO! good tho 'cus means the timing for my surgery on wed. is really good. starting to get a little anxious about that. wish me luck?

 

[Amos2009]

Selina- thanks for that beautiful poem- it made me

Vickie- I am not sure about the higher dose- let me ask a question- would I have even carried to 8 weeks if it was a clotting issue? Since the heart stopped, but baby was correct size for my dates, wouldn't that mean it was something chromosonal? What do you think?

Deb- wonderful news hunni and what a great picture of little man!!!!!

I just woke up from being pretty much zonked out all day. Not any physical pain, but I am taking the pain pills to take away the pain in my heart.

I don't know for sure. They suspect Isabella died due to a clotting issue. Her heart stopped if it was that because the blood clotted in the placenta.

Early on the placenta is not what is keeping the baby alive so it tends to become a problem later once the placenta is a factor. HTH

ETA: My friend who I referred to earlier lost due to clotting problems at 15, 16 and 17 weeks so it woudln't necessarily be early. xx

Thanks...I didn't even think about that. Well, I will be pushing for heparin injections the next time.