TTC After A Loss... Race for the BFP! - 211 BFP's!!!

[groovygrl]

CJ - last post I sent you sounded kinda 'know it all.' I know you have gone through this more than any women ought to babe. Just want you to know that I'm sure it's right to talk yourself out of going to that panic place. think everything you see and feel is about last month. so sorry it's yucky

 

[Whitbit22]

CJ--so sorry to hear about your losses. I am sure you're just having leftovers, try not to worry. Easier said than done, I know. I just had my first af post mc a couple of weeks ago, and I thought I was going to bleed to death. Hang in there honey

 

[Tulip]

Lawa! Congratulations, I am so hopeful that this little one will stick for you xxxxx

Hugs and love to all those feeling low at the moment - no words can make you feel any better, just know that we are all here for you, wishing for your forever babies xxx

 

[Megg33k]

hullo everyone

megg, I am happy your poo flake day is almost over. sleep well kitten. Good thing you don't drink really 'cus I find it really hard to cut back for TTC reasons. DH and I really love our vino and he brews a deeee lightfull stout beer that is Y.U.M. Since I've been trying to brew up a baby I have really had to discipline myself to three glasses (of whatever) a week. When I get a BFN or get exceptionally frustrated with the whole thing, I feel like I'm really showing someone (spaghetti monster?) who's boss by drinking more than 3 or 6. just wind up with a head ache

animal cracker - glad you like my kiwi dude, I'll keep him 'cus I think he's ace too! thanks! glad he cheered you up. sorry about your crap day

CJ - oh lovely so sorry about that nasty post MC AF yup, I think it's really normal that this particular AF is soooo awful. 1st AF is hard 'cus it brings up so much stuff...emotionally and physically. Be gentle with yourself sweet. breath and don't panic. clots and extended bleeding was my experience for first AF after my D&C (anxiety too) and from what I've read here many other women's experience. If you are very concerned you can have your doc. or local clinic run a quantitative HcG to determine and document a poss. chemical? Honestly though, just breathe it is also entirely possible your body is doing exactly what it's supposed to right now.

@ showing the spaghetti monster! He should rather like you drinking... after all, his noodly appendages are very much like straws!

 

[Megg33k]

Just wanted to add that I'm transitioning to IVF. I'll post more after speaking with the coordinator as far as schedule and whatnot!

 

[sequeena]

Poor OH... he still had hope that I would be pregnant and asked me to test when I stopped bleeding. Well today is that day and I got the whitest ever

I've also had the shortest af ever... heavy, but short.

Good luck Megg xx

 

[Megg33k]

 

[KittyKatBabe]

Hey Girls,

I have lurked again for a few months as depsite being here when it first started I lost touch as I was having my own lil TTC hang ups and had to have a break from it all.

Just want you all to know I think you are all pretty special and amazing ladies, starting a family is one of the biggest decisions to make in life and then to have unfortunate rollercoaster journeys which some of us do experience, but to then pick yourself up and continue on is very inspiring. Whatever journey we all have, it only makes us stronger and shows how special you all are. x x x

Hope that comes across right to you all, but big and lots of which is mega sticky by the way to us all x x x x

 

[Megg33k]

That's sweet, honey! I've missed you!

 

[BizyBee]

Thanks kittykat, same for you hun! Good luck. xx

Megg, keep us posted. I obviously am happy with ivf!

Groovy, I love your avatar too. He's so cute!

CJSG,

 

[Megg33k]

Obviously! I'd be pretty happy with it too, Jen! I hope to join you sooner than later!

 

[Lucy1973]

Good luck on the next leg of your journey Megg. I am gonna stalk you until I see that BFP!!!

 

[sequeena]

Ok this months plan is;

- grapefruit juice, lots of it
- Evening primrose oil up until I ovulate
- more b vitamins
- SMEP plan
- put OH on a multi vit
- continue taking my usual vits

I hope this works!!

 

[CJSG1977]

Sequeena Sounds like a great plan hun. Just take care of yourself, going back trying the month following was alot harder than I expected and has taken its toll when I got a bfn. But I hope you get the BIGGEST FATTEST STICKIEST BFP ever!!!! Just be good to yourself too.

Grvygrl you have no idea how much you reassured me. I dont want to get bloods done cause I really dont think I could cope with finding out I had a chemical the month following a mc. But your words were so supportive, so thank you

Megg I too am going to stalk you like a crazy patient to you get your BFP!!!! You deserve this sooooo much and with how much you are like a mother to us all on here with you warm and supportive words, I know that you will be a mother heaven sent to your little one when it comes

Whitbit Thank you hunni! Its tough on us all and thats why this thread means so much to me. I hope you get your sticky BFP soon darlin!!!!

AFM I am a little excited cause I had the letter this morning about booking an appointment for the Fertility Specialist. So I called and got a date for the 26th October

The crazy bit is for the last 2 nights I have dreamt of BFP's and being pregnant. And this morning and kept getting two dates in my head, the 16th October and the 12th January. Now if I ov on the 6th October then the first date will be 10DPO.....would I test then???? And the January date would make me 14 weeks when you usually get your first scan here...... I know I sound like I am going crazy....but how mad would it be if I was already pregnant when I got to the specialist! At least I'd be in the right place to try and keep this one! The dreams really are driving me crazy though...seeing so many positive tests!!!!!!

 

[Megg33k]

Thanks, Lucy!

Sounds good, Sequeena!

You could totally test then, CJ! Thank you, btw!

 

[roonsma]

Hi Girls!

Megg IVF sounds like a super plan hun, glad you're sounding more upbeat today, i felt so down for you yesterday, i can't imagine how you were feeling x

Hi Busy!! not seen many updates from you since your hcg rocketed! hows it going hun? x

Hi sequeena, SMEP worked for me hun! x

CJS sounds like you've had a good "clearout" this month hun, all ready to try again now x

Hi to all the others xx

 

[sequeena]

Wow roonsma, hope it works for me

 

[Razcox]

Hello all how are the TTCAL girls doing??

After a couple of months off and a bit of a melt down i am sticking my toe back into the TTC waters again.

So big wave to those that know me and a sorry for your loss to the people which have joined since i left.

 

[selina3127]

sorry for all the losses

boooooo to your news megg thats a shame for you hunni

congrats to fergie and all the other bfp's

i don't know whether i'll be in or out this cycle i've gone and broke my ankle this weekend so sex is the last thing on my mind, and ov is nearing lol will just have to see how i feel xxxxxxxx

 

[dawny690]

Meggles whats going on with you have I missed something? I wish you luck babe I had a nice dream last night then I woke up xxxx