TTC After A Loss... Race for the BFP! - 211 BFP's!!!

[CJSG1977]

And Gueyilla your temp drop is only relevent if it drops below cover line

 

[padbrat]

Hey guys, thanks for your concerns... I so wish I had listened...

I went to work and I struggled all day. Everyone was asking how I was, did I feel better, had I got rid of the virus etc etc... It just got too much. I was in bits in the bathroom and a colleague came in and she told me she had lost her 4th baby in March. It was so lovely to know someone else understood. She said if I needed to bugger off early to just go and she would sort it all out with work.

You guys are sooooo right and wise... I should have listened. However, I am hoping that future days will be better. I have my long weekend away to look forward to.

CJ I suffered with a horrible RMC and didn't know any better. Now I have an amazing Obs who has told me she will prescribe what ever I need to keep my next baby... even steriods. That is the sort of medical help you need on your side hun.

Meggy how are you doing? When do you test?

 

[ovenbun]

bbhopes I would have been insulted as well and agree with CJSG1977 that you should say something although I proberly wouldn't because im a woose.

Padbrat Im glad for you toady is over the first day is alway the worst and thats over now it's hard to go back but normality is also good. Don't worry about crying in the loo if it helps i've done it twice and at my desk and in the coffee room

Does any one have any thoughts im going to TTC next mth after 5 mth break I'm beging it feel increasly nervous mainly over I have a short LP of only 9days the consultant says this doen't matter but i have read so much saying it does. I want to trust him and next time will be OK but I have my doubt's because of this. Also I have a light AF again apparently nothing to worry about but.......

 

[Megg33k]

Testing on Wednesday, I suppose. 10dpo. Nervous... Certain it'll be BFN.

 

[Ruskiegirl]

Think positive Megg I think your chart looks very similar too your first one , I am thinking about ya

 

[Megg33k]

Think positive Megg I think your chart looks very similar too your first one , I am thinking about ya

I know... It really does! I do worry it'll drop off though!

 

[Megg33k]

Also, CONGRATS to someone who isn't on the site anymore but got her BFP Saturday... babywanted73!

 

[jonnanne3]

That is exciting Megg! I can't wait until Wed!!!!!! Congrats babywanted73!

This damn spotting is enough to drive someone mad! It only happens once a day and it is usually in the evenings! But my cervix is high and closed. So where the hell is the spotting coming from????????? I have cut back on how much I watch Jordan so I don't have too much to do. It kills me that I can't have him here as much. Emma too. But I have to do what I have to do. So I try to rest and take it as easy as I can.
I guess the truth on whether not I need to keep it up, will be determined on Thursday. Please keep us in your thoughts and prayers! Thank you ladies!

 

[Megg33k]

Thinking of you, Anne!

 

[gueyilla1985]

SO I have no idea when is supposed to be here so i have to wait till she desideds to show. AHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Fairybabe]

Ovenbun, my lp was also short, about 9 days. Now I have no way of knowing if it had anything to do with my two losses, but when I finally convinced my doc to do a 7day post ov progesterone test, it was really low, barely near the level that would even convince docs I was ovulating, which clearly I was cos it's the same cycle as got me preggo now! Anyway, I'm on progesterone pessaries and (fingers still crossed) I've never got this far before. The important thing is to get tested 7dpo, not just day21. Stick to your guns! Hope that helps.
Fairy x

 

[ttcstill]

So this morning i got a oh well i guess im out my temp also dropped a bit not much but still

Sweetie your temps still look great and are way above your coverline.....from my experience when AF is on her way you see significant continuous drops leading up to her arrival. keeping everything crossed for you.

Megg----- cant wait to see a test result!

 

[ttcstill]

Okay so we went to my sisters yesterday and she is still in pain from surgery Friday....she had a tummy tuck. When my husband was telling my brother in law that It was harder to control his bike with my son on the back because he weighs more than me. My son asked how much I weighed and when I answered somewhere between 138-142 my SIS says Omg you weigh more than me. Wtf.....I'm pregnant and your have you excess cut away like its a walk in the park.ughhhh!

 

[ovenbun]

Ovenbun, my lp was also short, about 9 days. Now I have no way of knowing if it had anything to do with my two losses, but when I finally convinced my doc to do a 7day post ov progesterone test, it was really low, barely near the level that would even convince docs I was ovulating, which clearly I was cos it's the same cycle as got me preggo now! Anyway, I'm on progesterone pessaries and (fingers still crossed) I've never got this far before. The important thing is to get tested 7dpo, not just day21. Stick to your guns! Hope that helps.
Fairy x

Thanks fairybabe I have had my 7dpo test done like you my progestrone was low at this point my consultant referred me to St Mary's who said LP didn't matter and wouldn't give progetrone or any other treatment Im feeling nervous because it's time for us to TTC again and I worry it is a problem.
fingers crossed for you

 

[padbrat]

So..... have you tested Megg???????

 

[Megg33k]

Yeah... Nothing exciting. 10dpo BFN. Maybe Friday will be better. I'd like to take spot 185.

 

[mrphyemma]

Everything crossed Megg x

AFM, I think I am now in the 2ww, 3rd cycle since my MC, trying to stay positive. Last night I dreamed that I got a BFP and felt on top of the world until I realised that I was looking at the back of the test and the two pink lines were actually dye that had run out of the back (wtf?) Crazy dreams.

 

[Tigerlilies]

Meggs, FX'd for that bfp on Friday!

Ovenbun, a short LP means a lot! Those ppl at St. Mary's are morons! I would request a referral to somewhere else. I had LP of 10-11 days, normal progesterone but b.c of that shorter LP the specialist said my eggs weren't maturing enough and I was given clomid to help.

 

[Megg33k]

Maybe its a good sign, Emma! I'd take even that sort of BFP right now! LOL

 

[gueyilla1985]

no i hate to say it but i think i didnt happen this month oh well maybe next. BTW IM IN HAWAII!!!