TTC after loss - over 40 - any takers? Our lucky thread - 9 rainbows and 1 BFP

[Left wonderin]

From what you said nothing she said would worry me , you don't really know when you ov so you are kinda guessing re dates and DPO ? Try be positive what have you got to looses ? Look at it this way , if this pg works out you will have spent all the early weeks in a blur of worry , if it doesn't you won't have allowed yourself enjoy even the short time you may have together . Worry or positive thinking now if its doesn't work out being positive is not going to change how you will feel. Worrying doesn't mean you will feel less right ?
So this is gonna work out , baby Becks is on the way

 

[Oasis717]

Thanks Regina but its so unlikely after 7 months of o on CD 14/15 it suddenly changed, I've been looking it up and at 5 wks 3 days the sac should be big enough too be measured (mine wasn't) and the yolk sac is visible. I can't help worrying my guts telling me some things wrong no matter how hard I'm trying too be positive xxxx thank you for your kind words though xx

 

[Left wonderin]

Is there anywhere you can go get bloods taken to see if hcg is doubling ? At least you will know one way or the other . Not knowing is the worst .

 

[Left wonderin]

Or the other option , maybe you have NOT being ov on the day you thought for the last 7 months and kept missing ov ? Maybe you ov later than you thought ?

 

[Left wonderin]

Maybe that why you were not getting pg ??

 

[tillyttc]

Hey it's not bad news like wondering said for today you are pregnant which is fantastic take each day as it comes and deal with things when and if they happen no point worring about what ifs ! Be healthy in mind and body and that little one will grow . Xxx

 

[tillyttc]

But I know that at the end of the day you will worry as it's the nature of a mummy ! Remember we're here for you Hun . Xxx

 

[Oasis717]

I was temping all that time though Regina so wouldn't it have shown up! I must admit once I got my rise we stopped bd til finding out if successful or not whereas this time we kept bd cause I didn't know cause of stopping temping. This not knowing is so hard, if its not going to be OK I wish I knew now so I could just get my head round it. Apparently your hcg has to be over 1300 to see a sac, so I don't know why the tests just stuck in one line all the time, if it wasn't for them and the lack of symptoms id be more positive but I just cant, thank you for trying to work it out with me its driving me mad not knowing xxxx
Thankyou Tilly xxxxxx

 

[Oasis717]

First pic is 4 weeks second pic is 5 plus 4 like me, yolk sac should be visable after 5 weeks, the sonographer was just trying to be nice I think, from what I've read unless I was a week out (which I know I'm not) all is not OK xxxx

 

[tillyttc]

Plz oasis try not to upset your self when I got pg with Anna I was way out with my dates no wonder I didn't get pregnant for five years ! And we think we know our bodies ! And we only got pregnant last cause we had sex twice a day for two week so we didn't miss granted I was walking like John Wayne and his plums were looking more like walnuts by the time we had finished but it turned out I was ovulating earlier than I thought by quite a lot really about 5 days so plz don't loose hope you won't do your little bean any good keep sending her positive vibes . Xxx

 

[Oasis717]

Omg just when I think i m too depressed to laugh! You are funny, thank you, we did the same this time twice a day for two weeks cause of not having any opks to go on etc, right that's it me and Google are done and I'm going to try not to be so doom and gloom. Thanks Tilly xxxxxx

 

[tillyttc]

Step away from google girl ! It ain't no good just keep thinking sticky vibes Hun ! Glad I cud help lol got loads more hehe xxx

 

[Left wonderin]

My bet is that you ov later than you thought . Like how confused you were with the cbfm !! Remember ?? Maybe your temping wasn't accurate . I'm thinking you got a very early BFP on those tests this time

 

[Oasis717]

I don't know what id do without you ladies, seriously thank you both, Regina I was always waking up too early and messing around with my temps, to be honest I can't say I could rely on them fully and you could well be right in what you said about maybe that's why I couldn't get pregnant, the more I think about it the more it makes sense, since Brooklyn I couldn't do temps properly and we'd stop bd when I got a rise! Well I'm really hoping I o later then and until the next scan when I'll know what's going on for sure I'll try to be positive, promise xxx Keep them coming Tilly I need cheering up lol xxx

 

[tillyttc]

If you want a laugh go on labour and birth and click on stories nearly wetting my self laughing hehe xxx

 

[Oasis717]

Haha will have a look! Xxx

 

[tillyttc]

My hubby got blamed for the 3rd world war we are apparently havin and the midwife and him were laughing at something don't even know what as to say they weren't by the time I had finished with them told them the only person allowed to laugh was me so shut the fcuk up and proceeded to rip my husbands chest hair out poor decker said he was scared cause he didn't recognise me lmao , mind you he was a bugger I had a black midwife and he kept calling Winnie lmao fortunatly she saw the funny side ! Xxx

 

[tillyttc]

She also got the mouth piece to the gas and air thrown at her lol cause I was shouting I
waaaannnnt toooooo push
and she said that I can't I needed to be examined so
will have to get on the bed
Fortunatly it missed . Xxx

 

[Oasis717]

Lol how funny are we when we are in labour!!!!! Chris Brown was playing as i was pushing and after taking loads gas and air i said for fcuks sake Chris shut the fcuk up im trying to push! Dh and the mw thought it was hilarious xxxXxx

 

[Serenjay]

Becks I normally ov cd 14/15 and this cycle it seems I ov CD11 our ov days are not always like clockwork.. hopefully you just ovulated later then you thought.. and all will be well with next scan xx


omg GIRLS!!!! I have just made a boobie about my boobies!!!

I thought I was sending OH a video about me home from work, just got into bed for hours kip and how much my boobs were sore and the left boob was bigger than the right boob and he was to blame for my sore boobs etc... when I got a call off my daughter crying laughing...




I had only sent the bloody video to my son in Law.. he was on the phone too we were all crying laughing so much.. hahahaha.. good job I was still dressed when I made the video.. that will teach me wanting to save time on typing and just sending a video instead!!!


Midwife rang me today I have an appt on Valentines day at 6pm at the birthing centre which is where I first met my OH (well not the birthing centre but dept next door A&E) but it's mad to have a Valentines appt there.. and I thought I would of been seen at a different hospital... Oooooo