TTC after miscarriage 2020

Discussion in 'TTC After A Loss' started by salamander91, Feb 11, 2020.

  1. LuvallmyH

    LuvallmyH The 1 whom many call Mom

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    I wish you all tons and tons of :dust:
    I’m leaving this thread. I’m headed for another loss and I’m fairly sure I’m all done. I can’t go through this again.
     
  2. Suggerhoney

    Suggerhoney 40 And TTC'Praying for our last little miracle❤

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    Im having another Misscarige. Had positive tests a few days ago that got darker but the following day were lighter.
    Did another test later that day and got a positive again then decided to stop testing and leave it a day or two and re test.

    But i woke up this morning pouring with blood.
    I had lines on every test I peed on and on different brands so definitely was pregnant.
    Im not sure why this keeps happening but im absolutely heart broken.
     
  3. Bevziibubble

    Bevziibubble Well-Known Member
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    I'm so sorry :hugs:
     
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  4. Rebaby

    Rebaby Mama to 2 boys

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    I'm so sorry for both of you. I know there's nothing I can say but sending love and hugs :hugs2:
     
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  5. MrsKatie

    MrsKatie Well-Known Member

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    @LuvallmyH and @Suggerhoney i can’t even put into words how sorry I am. My loss destroyed me and I remember thinking how I could not fathom how so many women had losses so often when it was THIS devastating. It’s cruel beyond words, and I wish so much this weren’t happening to you.

    Sometimes with all the testing angst I wish that HPTs couldn’t even pick up pregnancy hormone before like 5 weeks... because I always tell myself I won’t test early and then of course I do. At least I’m out of town with no tests right now and won’t be home until 12ish dpo (but not sure on ovulation either as I didn’t bring OPKs either! Going by ewcm and overall feeling)... I just have to force myself not to Amazon prime any tests to my parents’ house. Pray for strength for me.
     
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  6. salamander91

    salamander91 Well-Known Member

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    Luv and sugger :hugs: I'm so sorry you're both going through a loss again.
     
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  7. Stargirl1993

    Stargirl1993 Well-Known Member

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    I’m so sorry both of you xx :-( life is cruel sometimes x
     
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  8. Suggerhoney

    Suggerhoney 40 And TTC'Praying for our last little miracle❤

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    Thanks ladies.
    Im in absolute bits and just feel so empty and so sad.
    Thanks for all ure kind words. It means alot.
     
  9. Bevziibubble

    Bevziibubble Well-Known Member
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    I'm heartbroken for you I really am :hugs:
     
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  10. Rebaby

    Rebaby Mama to 2 boys

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    AF got me so no miracle :bfp: for our half-cycle TTC but feeling hopeful for this month. I'd love to be pregnant again by our original due date of 3rd September...
     
  11. salamander91

    salamander91 Well-Known Member

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    Sorry AF got you rebaby. Fx for next cycle x
     
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  12. salamander91

    salamander91 Well-Known Member

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    CD78 today and don't think I've ovulated yet. I really wanted to be pregnant by my due date (22nd august) but unless I ovulate in the next week that won't happen. I'm really struggling atm :sad2:
     
  13. Bevziibubble

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  14. babybears25

    babybears25 TTC #4

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    Hi ladies, I hope you don’t mind if I join you? I’ve just read through this whole thread and I’m so sorry for all of your losses :hugs:
    I’ve not been active on here for almost 10 years :shock: as my third pregnancy was so straightforward and we were NTNP when we conceived her and she’s 6 now.
    It’s so very sad to see you in here @topazicatzbet but also a comfort to know somebody.
    So I was 9 weeks last Monday and I started spotting, which is not normal for me in pregnancy. MW reassured me it’s common but told me to go to EPU for a scan. The scan confirmed baby had stopped growing at 6 weeks :cry:
    So I’ve been heavily bleeding and cramping on and off for 7 days now and they are going to scan me again on Friday to confirm that I’ve lost everything naturally. If not I’m assuming I’ll be given medication? I just had no idea how tough miscarriages were xx
     
  15. topazicatzbet

    topazicatzbet mummy to 3 boys

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    Babybear25 So sorry to see you here hun. Although it will be fab if we can get number 4 together and go through pregnancy together again.

    I hope it goes smoothly for you, mine has been a nightmare as I'm sure you read but its finally over and af looks like she is about to arrive so I can get back to ttc.

    Bug hugs
     
  16. salamander91

    salamander91 Well-Known Member

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    Sorry for your loss babybear25 :hugs: I hope it all goes smoothly for you and your scan is clear on friday xx
     
  17. Bevziibubble

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  18. babybears25

    babybears25 TTC #4

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    Thank you ladies, I’m so glad there are people I can talk to who can relate to my situation and truly sympathise. My family and friends have been amazing though but they just don’t understand.
    So sorry it’s been a long tough journey for you @topazicatzbet, let’s hope AF shows up soon! Yes it would be lovely to go through our 4th pregnancies together
     
  19. topazicatzbet

    topazicatzbet mummy to 3 boys

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    She arrived this morning which is great as we go on hol sat so I can get the worst out of the way before. Fingers crossed ov goes back to my normal cd11-14 and not 19-21 although I should be amazed I even ov'd while still testing positive.
     
  20. Bevziibubble

    Bevziibubble Well-Known Member
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    That's great news. Fingers crossed for you :)
     

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