TTC Bonfire babies

[jaytee]

Ok so today is cd28 (the end of an normal women's cycle) but of course I'm not normal

I tested because I just couldn't take the fact out of my head that a test was laying in my room un-used but it was BFN.

I'm having a little cramps here and there but not like AF. My darling husband told me not to test for another two weeks if the witch hasn't shown up by then.... SO.... I will comply, in fact I won't buy another test until exatly two weeks from now

I'm just praying and hoping that I get a BFP by Christmas, that would be awesome to share the news around the holidays.

 

[wannabubba#4]

Hi Ladies
Well, I really shouldn't be on here just now lol - Total addict lol
I have just come off of night shift, slept for only 2 hours and then had a hospital appointment to have a 24 hour tape put on (to monitor my heart.)

I should have come straight back home and jumped back in bed but I couldn't resist a little peak in here. Hahaha -I am working again tonight aswell, and then back to hospital tomorrow to return my heart monitor. I really should have re-scheduled lol. Oh well, at least its nearly the weekend, my visitors are away home, as from this morning (i can get my bed back yeah) and I am off Saturday night so me and hubby can snuggle up on the couch and watch X-Factor. I cant wait, for all I have loved having my guests -it will be lovely to have just the fam again.

Gossipgirl -still really early days, dont lose hope yet. Keep that PMA -that little bean could be in there still!!! Stay away from her, you witch!!

I'm out, I know I'm out, not enough BD at the right time, he was too tired after getting home from work late, our first TTC cycle was a disaster I too get like you (was it you wannabubba?) when you say you think they don't fancy you anymore or want to TTC when they don't want to BD

Zoe x

Yep Zoe - had quite a few days like that, this month -he assures me otherwise though. He just believes that we dont have to time BD, ovulation etc and that it will happen. So I am going to follow his example. PMA PMA We will get our BFP 's before Christmas
-I know its not over til its over,but for any-one not lucky enough to get their BFP's this cycle we'll need to come up with a new name and siggy for December lol

Take care everyone xxx

 

[GossipGirly]

how about tinsle tot or bauble baby! haha and thanks hunny im holding on to a little bit of hope xx

 

[charmed]

Isn't it all so annoying?? - that signs of ovualtion, signs of impending AF and signs of early pregnancy all seem to be rather alike lol.

charmed -have you spoken about marriage, is it something you both want at sometime? How long have you been together? Why dont you ask him??

xx

hey yeah we talk about it alot. i know it something he belives in and really want, i when jokey asked he sadi would say yes if i asked him. i think what it is he would not like a long engage ment and since no money for wedding he stalling it... also my hinting, my friends hints and both sets parents prob adding pressure!!! xxx 1 1/2 now been together xxx

 

[charmed]

afternoon ladies, wooo i had a long sleep took temp half 6, then back to sleep to 12.30 hehehe
well good news temp is up again.. 36.3 now, n it is 3 higher than drip monday but no ovulation hairs, i know i ov tuesday so im please it no put them one, fingers crossed for higher one tomorro then i can relax knowing ov defo happened. my poor nipples so senstive and sore... rest of boob is ok... everything else feels fine... wooopp, 11days to go.... some on sticky baby... xxxx
how is everyone else to day.... dont ever give up girlies is feel negative then you going to bring bad things to you, if happy then happiness get more so xxx

 

[KittyKatBabe]

Well ladies I have 4 - 7 days left before official testing - have to say done 2 already which both are BFN! The last one this morning has done my head in and feeling like I am out this month. MUST STAY POSITIVE

The witch is not here yet, and I am having the following symptoms but getting confused between pms and looking for them to be pregnancy.

Very tired past few days - could fall asleep now
Frequent trips to loo - on the hour at least
bloated
hunger - but not sure i can class that as I am always hungry
some sickly feeling - but again can get that when due on anyway
Feeling weepy - not usually my thing - keep getting upset at all kinds of things.

I am hoping not to test again til after my expected date - but knowing me I probably will.....

 

[nb1984]

Well done Kittykat - keep up the positive attitude! Thats what we like to hear!!

So ladies...what would you all do in my situation?

On Saturday we have been invited to a Halloween party when I will be on CD 22 and 10 dpo.

My cycles are usually 24 or 25 days so that would be 25 days on Tues and why I was going to test on Wed 4th.

So ladies, in your experience, is there any point in me using a FRER test on Sat to double check if I am ok to have one or two glasses of wine? I read so many posts on here where people say they dont get positives until they are late, and both my pregnant friends said the same thing...so shall I just not bother testing on Sat?

What would you do?!

 

[charmed]

dont do it... u will be guited if it negative, and if drink, then u r postive really u could harm little one n no point lowering mood... go out forget about baby for one night and enjoy it... just dont drink, one glass cant hurt im sure...
sooo many people get negative it test early... or get chemical postive, which is worst than negative... so hide the test, keep postive and bring on the november!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[nb1984]

dont do it... u will be guited if it negative, and if drink, then u r postive really u could harm little one n no point lowering mood... go out forget about baby for one night and enjoy it... just dont drink, one glass cant hurt im sure...
sooo many people get negative it test early... or get chemical postive, which is worst than negative... so hide the test, keep postive and bring on the november!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

You are right, thanks hun! I just needed someone to tell me I was being silly, November it is! xxx

 

[Rogue]

Hey Girlies!!!! really sorry i have neglected you all and been MIA for the last couple of days, been really busy at work....and then....well, i crumbled! did a cheapie HPT yest and it cam back BFN!!! I was gutted, but then had to keep reminding myself that at 9dpo probably nothing would come back positive anyways...Boooo!

So how is everyone??? we must all be in 2ww mode now surely? how is everyone coping? i noticed some have been naugty like me and tested already...keep the PMA girls! as Wanna#4 said: it aint over till its over, talking about Wanna - yeah some of us MAY need a new sig....Little Elves Plz? All i want for Christmas is a baby??lol, bit long i guess!

I don't thnk that i will make it till sun or mon to test, already thnking that as soon as i finish work i'm gonna go buy 4 test and do one everyday until i see what i want! lol! But then i guess that wouldnt be at all good in the spirit of being TEAM BONFIRE BABIES would it! So can we have a mass testing day for the girls with similar cycles??? Let me know if anyone else is interested......

Keep the Faith. Lv. R -X-

 

[Rogue]

O yeah, also forgot to mention how i been keeping myself occupied aprt from work if you haven't already check out, countdowntopregnancy.com it some really cool thingie which you can compare your symptoms from each cycle and also compare yours with other succesful pregnancies - i thought fairly useful. R. -x-

 

[nb1984]

Hey Girlies!!!! really sorry i have neglected you all and been MIA for the last couple of days, been really busy at work....and then....well, i crumbled! did a cheapie HPT yest and it cam back BFN!!! I was gutted, but then had to keep reminding myself that at 9dpo probably nothing would come back positive anyways...Boooo!

So how is everyone??? we must all be in 2ww mode now surely? how is everyone coping? i noticed some have been naugty like me and tested already...keep the PMA girls! as Wanna#4 said: it aint over till its over, talking about Wanna - yeah some of us MAY need a new sig....Little Elves Plz? All i want for Christmas is a baby??lol, bit long i guess!

I don't thnk that i will make it till sun or mon to test, already thnking that as soon as i finish work i'm gonna go buy 4 test and do one everyday until i see what i want! lol! But then i guess that wouldnt be at all good in the spirit of being TEAM BONFIRE BABIES would it! So can we have a mass testing day for the girls with similar cycles??? Let me know if anyone else is interested......

Keep the Faith. Lv. R -X-

Hey hun!

Muncho and I are both testing on the 4th if you reckon you can hold out that long? What date will you be late?

Just think of all the money you will save by not buying those 4 tests! xxx

 

[Rogue]

lol!!!! i no i no! i thnk that i will have to take out a loan to cover all these tests.....

I would def love to say that i will hold out until the 4th as my ticker thingie tells me to test on 3rd. So yeah, what the heck. PMA and all that!!!! i'll do it!!! 4TH it is for us to get our BFP Whooop!!! Hey do you think that we maybe can get a sparkle thing for P.M.A???? Can anyone tell me how i create one? Wanna, Muncho, the challenge is on. 4th it is! Thanks girls. Lv. R -x-

 

[muncho]

rogue ~ yeaaaa welcome to the 4th NOv club! What time???

listen girls someone posted a really goodwebsite on a post today and i thought i would let you know. Its explains the ovulation with diagrams etc and works out your OV - but thats only good ig you have a 28 day cycle...

take a look https://www.askdramy.com/ovulationcalc.html

NB, tried to email you but hotmail keeps crashing

Hope everyone else is ok, im off tomorrow so i wont be checking in

Heres to lots and lots of PMA!!!! how exciting, Looking forward to 4th!

Happy halloween

 

[wannabubba#4]

Well done Kittykat - keep up the positive attitude! Thats what we like to hear!!

So ladies...what would you all do in my situation?

On Saturday we have been invited to a Halloween party when I will be on CD 22 and 10 dpo.

My cycles are usually 24 or 25 days so that would be 25 days on Tues and why I was going to test on Wed 4th.

So ladies, in your experience, is there any point in me using a FRER test on Sat to double check if I am ok to have one or two glasses of wine? I read so many posts on here where people say they dont get positives until they are late, and both my pregnant friends said the same thing...so shall I just not bother testing on Sat?

What would you do?!

TBH -I would go out and have a drink - baby if in there will only be a ball of cells and no placenta yet -so wont be feeding off you yet. That doesn't happen until 5-6 weeks. In my experience whenever I had a drink when early preggers (and no BFP YET) I was a light weight anyways and felt really tipsy after a couple of drinks or couldn't stomach too much alcohol. AND with all 3 prev pregnancies, i had a night out planned and got tipsy and that the month that bean stuck fast and I got my BFP!!

It's up to you of course, but TTC is stressful enough, and once BFP you'll prob not drink -so last chance lol

xx

 

[muncho]

for all you SYMPTOM SPOTTERS

i found thsi website..
https://www.countdowntopregnancy.com/earlypregnancysymptoms/fulllist.php

ITS really good. i looked up stuffy nose coz i have had one since yesterday


OH GOD, someone take me off this damn laptop..im hungry

im defincately off now

 

[KittyKatBabe]

Well done Kittykat - keep up the positive attitude! Thats what we like to hear!!

So ladies...what would you all do in my situation?

On Saturday we have been invited to a Halloween party when I will be on CD 22 and 10 dpo.

My cycles are usually 24 or 25 days so that would be 25 days on Tues and why I was going to test on Wed 4th.

So ladies, in your experience, is there any point in me using a FRER test on Sat to double check if I am ok to have one or two glasses of wine? I read so many posts on here where people say they dont get positives until they are late, and both my pregnant friends said the same thing...so shall I just not bother testing on Sat?

What would you do?!

I am a very similar position to you - we have a party too - I am going to test I have already done 2 got BFN - but until the witch arrives there is still a chance. Mine is 24 day cycle and I would be due on 2nd so ready to test from then.

 

[justmarried24]

Hey hey girlies!!
Hope you are all well and not going too insane during the 2ww!
I have been christmas shopping with my mum today, so not been able to go crazy sitting on laptop like the rest of the week! It's a nightmare being off work during the 2ww!!
I am in the same position as NB and Kittykatbabe....also going to Halloween party and I will be 7dpo then....didnt know if this was a crucial time and if I should not drink??
From what I;ve read I should be ok to drink? Is that right?
Anyway.....how is the sympton spotting going? I no longer have sore bbs, but I have a headache and creamy cm (tmi - sorry!!).
Havent caved and done a test yet as I am only 5dpo....waiting til 9th Nov to test.....IF I can wait then, thats when AF is due....do I may well cave before then!
Anyway.....lovely to catch up girls! Hope everyone is superdooper good!
Make sure we all keep each other updated!

xxxx

 

[Rogue]

Sorry honey, for some reason i got your name mixed up with Wanna, was running out the office and i think the wedding piccies confused me!!! I'm totally on for testing 4th AM when i get up - about 7.45 - what do you ladies reckon???/

Also, muncho i see you have found countdown to preggers website, its ace isn't it?! Does anyone know how we can share the charts like FF??? or has anyone made their profile public on it?? I keep adding symptoms (real and imagined!!!lol!) all day, i keep thinking that eventually it will just saying something like "no need to put anymore symptoms in you are def pregnant!!" heheeee, if only!

to all!!!! Bonfire Babies! Yay!!!
R. -x-

 

[Rogue]

Hmmm, just noticed that everyone is talking about whether they shall be drinking on party night....i'm going to a halloween party too and am a little ashamed to admit that i hadn't thought that far, have cut down on caffiene and other crap and eating buckets of folic acid but forgot about the party - so what is the general consensus....t'total???