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[momwannabe81]

Well he might since u had. Hope not to bad of a bleeding although they say not to worry I can immagine its not easy not to. They will probably to bw that day and will demand another SA. I just want to check one more time before iui cause if he has even just one they might be able to use it iykwim. I'm ok with donor but still wishing for biological.
Had a mental breakdown and had to talk to my boss about it and of course she said to relax and it will happen after I told her that dh cannot so I can try as much as I want to but without sperm I can't and I doubt I can be the next virgin Mary lol. Some ppl just don't get it. She has 2 LO and never had issues. Why is it so easy for them to give out suggestions when they obviously are clueless of how hard.

 

[cckarting]

i know, people can be so dense sometimes. If they do find sperm that day are they going to freeze it and keep it or just see what he has? If you go through with the iui can you donate eggs or something to offset the costs?

 

[momwannabe81]

I probably can if they use the attain program. And I'm willing to donate.idk if they will freeze them but doubt that they will find any. Due to Ovulate 2-3 days later so doubt anything will be done this month as far as iui so will still get donations the 4th then Saturday.

 

[cckarting]

hoping that the 4th will be it for the both of us! hopefully i'll get the answers that i need that day from my drs and you finally make your baby that day! what a wonderful day it would be

 

[momwannabe81]

How Ur appointment go? Sorry been away it showed i was the last one posting so didn't bother to check. afm went to Dr and we talked a lot about different options and there lots of things i have to handle before we can start. Need to update my insurance so it will cover 70-80% but i have to increase the premium. If we decide to use the same donor they have to freeze the sperm for 6 months nd get tested before and after plust a bunch of test per law..... So we are either doing IUI with frozen or IVF. And of course i have to quit smoking and dh is willing to quit too So we have 3 packs left and then it's it. It is the only thing that I haven't tried.....I am ovulating from the right and the follicle measured 15 so it's almost ready and i should O tomorrow if not later then Saturday but i got donation today so fx won't have to go thru ivf

 

[cckarting]

Sounds like you have some great news going on! Praying you won't have to go through anymore and you get your bfp this month dr appt was.......ok i didn't have to do a pap WOOHOO but he did a pelvic which i dunno if thats any better. Dr couldn't find the baby's hb but said he could hear it kicking around and thought he heard the hb a few times, but never really good. He booked me for a scan on the 15th just to see how baby is doing and check on the pocket i have, so hoping for more good news.

 

[Stelly]

Hope this is it for you too! Would be awesome to not even have to stress about IUI/IVF and just get a BFP this cycle Sounds promising - good sized folli and donations lined up!

Cc- thats awesome you got to avoid the pap! Normally I dont have a problem with them at ALL, but I found it painful when preggo I swear babies just like to keep us on our toes hiding from those dopplers! Glad it went well, and will be exciting to see your scan photo! I have a scan this monday because I'm measuring even larger and the gap is increasing (measured 27 weeks at 18 weeks, yikes!) so they are really going in depth to see if a) twins or b) possible congenital issue or c) just a hell of alot of amniotic fluid in there

 

[momwannabe81]

OH Cc bet it's scary but don't worry ur baby is fine, can't wait to see the scan on the 15th.
Stelly hope u have twins it be awesome if u did. Been wondering about u lol
Afm i will try but cannot guarantee ti get another donation tomorrow but if not today's it's fine. Do u think that the follicle can got from 15 to 20+ by tomorrow?? Oh and the Dr said that i have a retroverted uterus but not cause for infertility.

 

[Stelly]

I think it could personally. I have a retroverted uterus too! Doctor recommended when TTC to lay on stomach with hips propped to help things along. May be worth a shot?

Ha- I wouldnt mind at all if there were 2, I just want a for sure answer on what the heck is going on!

 

[cckarting]

I had a lot of fluid with both mine, but never measured that far ahead! Oh I know baby is ok we found the hb on our Doppler when we went up so I could try and sleep excited to get another scan out of it though haha. Baby only likes to be found when daddy's around, I can't ever find it if he's not with me, maybe a daddy's girl? We can hope! Im not sure about the egg thing, did you try and look up how fast they grow, I thought I heard once 1-2 mm a day? Could be wrong? Gl sending positive thoughts and baby dust your way!

 

[momwannabe81]

Well hopefully everything works out for all of us. AF will be due the 20th so will just have to go thru the dreaded tww.

 

[cckarting]

let us know if you get another donation! My ds's birthday is the 24th of this month, hopefully we'll see a bfp by then!

 

[Stelly]

Fx'd!

 

[momwannabe81]

Ty I hope so too. 1 dpo and 13 more to go ugh!!!! Already impatient lol

 

[cckarting]

Did you feel O? Did you get another donation? FX so tight for you that this is your month and you get your bfp and don't need to do iui or ivf!

 

[momwannabe81]

Wow again been waiting for a answer and didn't show u did. Ugh its annoying on the phone ......didn't get another donation just that one and hopefully it works. Iui and ivf are long ways to go so until then will keep using donor so hopefully it works soon

 

[cckarting]

I was wondering where you went?!? How are things going for you michelle? Feeling anything yet? Glad to hear you have things set up to keep getting donations until its iui/ivf time. still just waiting for monday until my scan!

 

[momwannabe81]

Hope time flies for u. How have u been feeling? I'm only 4 dpo so nothing yet. But the new prescription is working and my mood been alot better. Trying to quit smoking but not very good at it. If this time it doesn't work might try chantix before I O next cycle

 

[cckarting]

i've been feeling pretty good! I think some of my energy is starting to come back, but i feel really sick in the afternoons, and still really gaggy. i guess on the bright side i haven't thrown up yet.....Glad to hear your medicine is making you feel better, chantix works really well but it's pretty expensive if you have to pay full price!

 

[momwannabe81]

I believe my insurance pays for it as a quit smoking program. But will have to check into it before i decide. I'm glad u are feeling better and hope the afternoon gets better.