TTC peanut where are you!?

[PeanutWhereRU]

Quick update on the work situation. The girl is back from sick leave and is spreading her poison about me through the whole work place. Sad thing is no one has took time out to hear my side of the events. Frustrated so badly! I'm trying so hard to kick it under the rug but I am a sensitive character and I hate lies being spread and can not bare to see others members of my team feel like crap because of one voice. Blah #rantover lol

 

[Kallie3000]

Workplace drama is the WORST. I hate it, I hate it, I hate it!

I feel your pain, sending you good vibes!

 

[MegNE922]

If you her superior pull her aside and tell her in kinder words than i would put it....act your age. This is a non issue and you're here to work not gossip so kick rocks and get at it!
Oye I can't stand that crap.

He's agreed! Friday him an I will go drop it off lol.
Kallie have your hub go to a urologist. They should have him do the test there or get an rx OR I think you may even beable to just go to call your local hospital and see if they do it in the lab. Not even sure if you'll need an rx. Things obv are different in Canada.

I feel like I had my heart set this month it was going to happen an it didn't I had some symptoms and tried to remember it could just be my body or PMS. It is what it is wine tomorrow! Lol!!

 

[Kallie3000]

:'( The witch got me! Today is back to CD1, and I am cramping and bloating up a storm. BLAGH

At least I have my detox tea to help with that part; includes juniper berries and green tea, dandelion root and a bunch of other things that you probably shouldn't take if you are pregnant, but sure help when you are on AF days. Small comforts, eh?

 

[Kallie3000]

He's agreed! Friday him an I will go drop it off lol.
Kallie have your hub go to a urologist. They should have him do the test there or get an rx OR I think you may even beable to just go to call your local hospital and see if they do it in the lab. Not even sure if you'll need an rx. Things obv are different in Canada.

I will look into this - I am assuming that I could only do this if I paid for it myself. Being that I'm used to NOT paying for medical care, I probably will end up waiting.... But doesn't hurt for me to do the research, right?

 

[MolGold]

Sorry AF got you Kallie ..
Meg, I hope for you it isnt PMS FX!

Peanut, Can't you report the lady at work since it is just unnecessary stress while being pregnant!! At this time you HAVE to be +ve and have happy thoughts for the baby's sake..

 

[PeanutWhereRU]

Mol you are right so I am trying to hold my composure as much as I can but oh my today I was ready to explode!!!! She came back early off her sick and one of her terms was she wants no meetings with people she doesn't like. Im like wtf I should be taking action against her with all the grief she has caused me! She asks other people to talk to me on her behalf its like a frickin playground. Im so wound up aaarrrggghhhh lol

 

[PeanutWhereRU]

Kallie sorry about af I know it's hard but let's keep trying.

Meg has af shown? Maybe you o'd late?

Mol fx for you this month! The 2015 generation is in the making!

 

[MegNE922]

AF just came! Day 28 on the dot. So cycle day 5 I'll be trying Clomid. Also yoga. Lots of yoga! MAY HERE WE COME!

 

[MegNE922]

Ok. Sooo hub an I went to get his SA done today results should be in tonight.
I called my OBGYN bc they'll be getting a copy and my MD answered the phone...I guess my 2nd progesterone lab was about the same as my previous which is LOW.
I don't even know...he told me to try the Clomid call and make an apt in four weeks. He said if this doesn't work I'll refer you to a IVF specialist...But in the same sentence said we can do Clomid for up to 4 months.
Last apt he told me I was far from going to an IVF specialist and is now saying in June I could be going? I'm a ball of emotions.
AF is MIA. I was spotting & last night I had cramps but it just disappeared? Idk!!
Ugh. I honestly don't know what I'll do if we find he's low or sterile. I think I'll give up & just cry.

 

[MolGold]

Hey meg, could that be implantation bleed? look it up - you're not out till AF shows!

 

[PeanutWhereRU]

I agree with mol meg don't give up yet! I feel it in my heart for all you ladies to be pregnant soon so just keep thinking that way. Its so hard and emotionally draining but there is always a way and hey ivf could mean multiple babies! Yay

 

[MegNE922]

My fingers are crossed but I'm just not getting my hopes up. Got great news a good friend is expecting after trying for quite some time! So excited for her.

 

[MegNE922]

Update on myself.
It's cycle day 31 and AF is still not here. I had the slightest spotting only 1x yesterday nothing at all Friday. Been a bit crampy but it's not like my reg PMS cramps it's not even close to as painful. This morning I was slightly nauseous but once I ate breakfast I was fine & that happen to me yesterday too but again I think I was just hungry. I POAS sat morning and BFN. What do I do? Should I just wait to see if it shows this week? I have to talk to my OB tomorrow any way should I bring it up? I just don't want to sound dramatic and silly. This is just sooooo not normal for me.

 

[PeanutWhereRU]

Omg test please! Sometimes implantation does not come up with a pos straight away. Eeekkk!!

 

[Phoenix82]

Update on myself.
It's cycle day 31 and AF is still not here. I had the slightest spotting only 1x yesterday nothing at all Friday. Been a bit crampy but it's not like my reg PMS cramps it's not even close to as painful. This morning I was slightly nauseous but once I ate breakfast I was fine & that happen to me yesterday too but again I think I was just hungry. I POAS sat morning and BFN. What do I do? Should I just wait to see if it shows this week? I have to talk to my OB tomorrow any way should I bring it up? I just don't want to sound dramatic and silly. This is just sooooo not normal for me.

Keep positive but remember our cycles have a habit of messing with us. When did you ovulate? Was it later then normal?
Defo speak to the ob tomorrow to get their opinion maybe it's too early to get a BFP xxx

 

[MegNE922]

I'm going to wait until the morning to test. I just get a feeling AF is just around the corner. I don't know when I ovulated bc I didn't test I just kinda guessed my reg day was the 10th but my FF says the 13th. So if it was the 13th then that would mean I'm 14dpo today.

 

[Phoenix82]

Do you know how long your lp is? I only ask as this doesn't change so that would give you an idea if AF is late or not coming.

What's your temp like? Xx

 

[MegNE922]

I don't know how long the LP is. An I meant to temp this morning but I forgot.

 

[Phoenix82]

I don't know how long the LP is. An I meant to temp this morning but I forgot.

Ok so lp is always the same. I'd suggest you count the last cycle you knew when you ovulated then count until the last day of your cycle.

That will give you the lp number of days so you can gauge this cycle.

Temp tomorrow and if your temp stays high it could be good news xx