TTCAL January BFP wannabees Thread!!! **3 BFPS's!!***

[ami1985]

yeahy on all the pos opk's..im NTNP so im not using opks but ill be using them next month just waiting for the witch to show now...im feeling her on way so wont be long xxx

 

[Nitengale]

Hey dreaming. How are you doing?

 

[Nitengale]

Hey ladies. How are you guys doing?

 

[ami1985]

all good here hows u doing xx

 

[dreaminghopin]

Hi everyone hope your all busy bd
Well the brown spotting is continuing for me so just waiting for af. It's funny how you fool yourself into believing that you are going to be one of the lucky ones that fall pregnant straight away. On a positive note my doctor had referred me to a gynaecologist as I told him I was really concerned about my spotting.
Hope your all well and still holding out for some January bfp xxx

 

[ami1985]

bless ya hun, Im just waiting for my AF to start then I can start TTC properly again he refered me to gynae specialist if im not preggo again in 6 months so FX i AM BY THEN XXX

 

[Nitengale]

Well AF is officially here. Exactly 28 days post m/c. I'm really happy that it is here and I can start counting with this cycle.

Glad you girls are gonna have appointments to address your questions.

 

[Lovebotlass17]

Nitengale, so you got AF 28 days from the first day of bleeding? It's been 29 days since the first day of bleeding and 34 days since my surgery to remove the ectopic pregnancy. My cycle is usually 27 days, so I'm wondering where she is. I know that it can be normal to have an abnormal cycle after a miscarriage, but I'm hoping it's delayed because I'm pregnant. I'll test this Friday I guess. Yay for AF showing, since now you're back on track!

 

[Nitengale]

Nitengale, so you got AF 28 days from the first day of bleeding? It's been 29 days since the first day of bleeding and 34 days since my surgery to remove the ectopic pregnancy. My cycle is usually 27 days, so I'm wondering where she is. I know that it can be normal to have an abnormal cycle after a miscarriage, but I'm hoping it's delayed because I'm pregnant. I'll test this Friday I guess. Yay for AF showing, since now you're back on track!

Hi Lovebotlass! Yes 28 days since first day of bleeding. The cycle before I got pregnant I had an abnormally short cycle of 27 days. It normally was around 31 days. So far AF is pretty normal and no cramping which is awesome.

Oh I hope that AF does not come for you and you get your much deserved bfp. FX'd for you sweetie.

 

[Buzzymomma]

Hello ladies, I haven't posted here in a while.
I'm expecting AF on Saturday and I'm pretty much terrified of either result... Anyone else scared?

 

[kmwilletts]

Hey ladies, it feels like forever since I posted in here. I'm still waiting to see if AF is going to get me. Not sure if we caught the egg or not, as last time we DTD before DH went to work was Monday the 2nd, and I had a positive OPK first thing on the 3rd. So still waiting here. My FertilityFriend chart had a forecasted AF start date of the 9th, but with a MC you never know I guess. So still waiting to see what happens. Fingers crossed for everyone here & tons and TONS of sticky to everyone!!!!

 

[Nitengale]

Buzzymomma: I totally hear ya. I was surprised though that I was happy when AF got here. I guess this way I can start a clean month you know.

Kmwilletts: I am hoping that you did catch that lil' eggy.

 

[snowflakes120]

Nit- Hooray for AF!!

FX for all those awaiting AF that she doesn't show!!

AFM, my OPK's are super negative - not sure what to think - I was expecting OV Sat or Sun - I guess if my line doesn't darken by today then Sat is pretty much out of the picture. We're following the SMEP this month so FX that it works - it worked last time - just hope that we get a sticky bean! My chart is a super hot mess as well this month. I am getting higher than usual temps and they are raising but not to a point to indicate OV yet. Very odd cycle for me!!

 

[lomelly]

I hope everyone is getting on okay.... to all the witch showed her face to. We will all get our BFPs soon
AFM, my chart is staying pretty stable pre-O which is good. Hopefully I'll O sometime over the weekend.. I had a pretty bad experience the other day at the OBGYN. My drs office called and told me I had an appt with the Gyno, I thought great, they're going to try to figure out my messed up cycles after my MMC. Nope.. I get there and they ask if I brought any papers with me, I said no. So long story short, they were under the impression I was still pregnant and that would have been my 5 month check up... My drs office never informed them I miscarried. I felt like screaming "thanks for kicking me while I'm down", but I just nodded and walked out of there trying not to cry.
to anyone that is also having a rough week

 

[ReadynWaiting]

I hope everyone is getting on okay.... to all the witch showed her face to. We will all get our BFPs soon
AFM, my chart is staying pretty stable pre-O which is good. Hopefully I'll O sometime over the weekend.. I had a pretty bad experience the other day at the OBGYN. My drs office called and told me I had an appt with the Gyno, I thought great, they're going to try to figure out my messed up cycles after my MMC. Nope.. I get there and they ask if I brought any papers with me, I said no. So long story short, they were under the impression I was still pregnant and that would have been my 5 month check up... My drs office never informed them I miscarried. I felt like screaming "thanks for kicking me while I'm down", but I just nodded and walked out of there trying not to cry.
to anyone that is also having a rough week

Sorry to hear you had to go through that. I had a similar experience after my Ectopic. It brings all of those emotions back to the surface. The good news is we are all on our path to get our BFP's and forever
AFM-I'm in the lull post AF and pre Ov. I had to wish my life away but sometimes I wish I could just fast forward a week and get this show on the road. For now is just "for fun" BD which isn't so bad at all. LOL

 

[ReadynWaiting]

Edit *I hate to wish my life away"

 

[lomelly]

readynwaiting--Oh no, I'm sorry you had the same thing done I don't know about you but I fell to pieces afterwards. Let's hope your new cycle is the lucky one!!! I've got no idea when my cycle is going to end, usually I have 26 day ones and I'm on CD10.. FX'd for all of us

 

[ReadynWaiting]

lomelly-I definitely came home and had a good cry after my appt, it was only a month after my Ectopic. Now I'm trying to stay super positive but that takes a lot of work on my part. I don't really talk to anyone (not even DH) about the sadness or pain of it because I want to focus on getting pregnant again with a sticky bean and keeping it a happy event. I know worry will set in when it happens but I'm hoping I can "override" that in my brain and be excited.
After my methotrexate shot my body kicked right back in to a normal cycle so I'm pretty sure I will ov cd15 and AF or BFP will happen cd30. FX'd for us all for sure!!

 

[MrsMauri]

hi

I hope no one minds if I add onto this post - everyone seems so nice and understanding because we are going through the same thing (although, I wish none of us had to be in this position). I know exactly what it feels like to wish your life away and how staying positive can be so difficult!

I had my ERCP on weds 21 Dec - I thought I was 10-11 weeks along but there was no heartbeat at the scan and I was told the baby died at 7-8 weeks.

I had a positive OPK on Sunday 8th Jan - so Im now just waiting to see what happens in the next few weeks...

I wish everyone luck for jan/feb and hope we can get the BFPs we want so bad!

 

[ReadynWaiting]

Hi MrsMauri, welcome to the group! Sorry to hear of your loss. I hope you have caught that egg and get your BFP soon.