TWW Support group to help get you through the nitty gritty...and beyond

[persephone13]

I'm so tired, Mrs!!! The exhaustion is killing me and I'm still nauseous. Plus everything is very heavy now, lots of pulling on either side.

I'm still trying to book my ultrasound but I can't get a hold of anyone. It's so frustrating. I don't know what's going on with that clinic.

 

[Mommy_DK]

Hey !

I'm doing ok , still tired a lot but it's really only after I've had a long day of shopping with the kids or doing laundry/running errands that sort of thing but not as tired and exhausted as I was in the first 11 weeks. I am trying to decide still if c section is safest and best choice for us..... Hopefully after my first appointment with this new dr I'll feel a little more secure and less nervous.

Mrs- I did read up on aleeve.... You're right , not safe. So I'll def bring it up at my appointment . How's miss Bristols room coming along ? Have you had your shower yet ?

Bab- How are you feeling Hun ?

Ren- So great that you can mentally release your pain , another one of those things that takes real strength . I try but my mind won't let me lol I hope you're feeling ok

Ready- Hows it going ??

I don't know if I've admit it already or not but I'm honestly freaking out about doing another csection }: !!!!!! Got to shake this off !

 

[Mrs. Burch]

Perse-Sorry you are so tired, that stinks. I hope it passes soon, it did for me! At about 13-14 weeks I felt much better! I am sure you will be the same!!

Mommy-Tylenol is safe and you can take it! I hope you get peace with whatever you do, I am sure you will make the right decision for you! Bristol's room is at a stand still right now, my dad has been sick and hubby has been super busy with work. DH says he will work on it this weekend! FX he does! I won't have a shower until like June prob or late May! I need Little Miss' room done first so we have a place to put everything!

Ready-So glad she is doing well! Hope you are doing ok and feeling better!

Ren-so exciting on your apts! Keep us posted!

 

[BABTTC123]

It's a blighted Ovum. No embryo still and no growth at all.

 

[ReadynWaiting]

Oh Bab I am so sorry! If you need to talk I am here for you. Im sending u massive hugs.

 

[Mrs. Burch]

Bab, I'm so sorry. There are no words to make this better. I have read that this usually only happens once to a person so I truly believe this will be it for you. I hope you're ok, vent talk whatever you need. Hugs

 

[ReadynWaiting]

I would say the majority of what I have read people go on to have healthy pregnancies after. This does nothing for you now but it does get easier.
I had to have a plan for myself which was balancing my body and getting my body prepared. I also had a little ceremony in my head saying good bye to my spirit baby telling him/her to go to the light or if they were waiting for a better that I would be ready. It may sound strange to some but it did give me peace of mind. I really empathize and hurt for you.

 

[Renaendel]

Yes, what ready said; she put it perfectly. This is just so freeking unfair.

 

[Mommy_DK]

Bab- I am so sorry like mrs said there are no words that will completely make this better , BUT, the two friends I had that went through blighted ovum got pregnant for the 4th and 5th time right after blighted ovum and we're both successful pregnancies. Maybe it's the body trying to prepare for the pregnancy making the blighted ovum event the grand opening. But no matter what you decide to do from here we are all here for you **Hugs**

 

[Mrs. Burch]

So I didn't feel like I was really showing.....until I took these pics!! Yikes wide load coming through 😂😂😂😂

 

[ReadynWaiting]

Mrs-being pregnant is a time that you are more beautiful the bigger that belly grows. Enjoy it and embrace it. ..You're a mama!

 

[Renaendel]

A beautiful beautiful mamma.

 

[Mrs. Burch]

I am very lucky!!! My husband is so supportive and loves my bump!!! I just didn't realize I was as big as I am until I compared the pics today. Hope you guys have a great weekend.

 

[Mommy_DK]

I'm back in the gym and it feels great! I'm taking my lifts slowly but going crazy with the cardio! Im bigger than I would like to be with this baby too and although I cant "diet" or minimize too many cals I can still eat healthy and exercise so that when its time to get back to 120 it won't be such a long hard journey (again)

My belly gets big mid day/night and shrinks in the morn ..... Should I be worried ? I don't remember this happening before.


Mrs- you look awesome! I'm glad dh is being supportive , we are lucky gals to have such sweetie pie hubs !

Hi Ren , hi ready!

Babs I hope you're doing ok !

Pers how's baby doing ? Has the exhaustion died down any ?

Here's the bump

 

[Mrs. Burch]

Mommy-that is so great, good for you! I started a prenatal dvd and am walking 3 times a week. It feels so great. Weather is turning around here, this weekend it was 70!! So pretty. Spring is here!

 

[Mommy_DK]

Mrs- Thanks! Im excited , I love fitness and training. And it'll keep my mind off of the c section and yes same here in MD the weather is finally feeling like spring I'm loving it! Walking is so good for Labour and delivery day, that's good you're getting that walking in and it really helped me with getting in shape after I had them so that's always a plus

 

[ReadynWaiting]

Mommy-totally normal to feel bigger and bloat subside later in the day. Until u r mostly baby the fluid increases and decreases through out the day.

 

[Mrs. Burch]

Happy St. Patty's Day from me and Baby B! Hope you gals have a wonderful day!

Happy Butt day Ren!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[ReadynWaiting]

Hi ladies!
How is everyone doing?
Pg mamas-how r u all feeling? Ms subsiding? 2nd tri for you all!
Bab-how r u?
Ren-how did butt day go?
Afm-i am 4 wks post d & c and wondering when af will show. Dh and I have been dtd but lord k ows if I have ov'd but I have no pg sx. I'm ok with that but I hate the limbo state.

 

[Renaendel]

Ready, cycles post mc are always so wacky for me. How long before you try to test even if you aren't feeling pregnant? It would be great if it could happen right away or at least in a few months. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you.

Mrs.Burch, wow 70 it really is spring over there. I will admit I am a wee bit jealous. We had one nice day here and then the weather tricked us and it was back below 30 again. That bump of yours is really going to start getting bigger now. I can't wait to see. You just look so happy in every shot.

Mommy, you do look great. Good for you for getting back up to the gym and doing some walking too. You are going to drop that baby weight in no time flat.

Perse and babbs, thinking of you.

AF But doctor day. I love my new Gastroenterologist. She is a really good diagnostician. We ran a bunch of labs and determined my Celiac Disease is finally under control. My immune levels were low and by total nutrient absorbtion was normal. That has never ever happened. All the work and going without has finally paid off and my body is ready nutrient wise for a baby.

Now since I am still getting sick so many times a week, coupled with the prednisone and methotrexate fixing the issue temporarily she has a preliminary diagnosis. I do infact have a second autoimmune called lymphocytic colitis. This is one of several situations where immune cells attack the large intestine. I go in on April 6th at 6am for a colonoscopy with biopsy to confirm this.

So I am to stay on a gluten free, dairy free and egg free diet until diagnosis and then we will figure out what treatment will work best. So far everything is not only go for September IVF but looking like we will have increased chances. I can't tell you how happy I am that we gave proof I am finally healing.