TWW Support group to help get you through the nitty gritty...and beyond

[Mommy_DK]

We are between Zara (Dhs favorite) Sydney and Kalani but we will decide between the 3 when we see her. Opinions on names ?

 

[ab75]

I'm obviously biased as my dd2 is Zara xx

 

[ab75]

And lovely bump xx

 

[Mommy_DK]

Thanks Ab! And oh my goodness I just realized you have a Zoe and a Zara!! We loved Zoe/Zoey too. I really love Zara but it doesn't have the Y ending sound like my other dds Trinity and Hailey, but I might consider breaking the ys lol

 

[ReadynWaiting]

Ren-I'm so happy that you are still doing so well. What a relief it must be to feel good after feeling so poorly for so long. By Aug your body will be good to go!
Mrs-kidney stones suck! I am prone to them in pregnancy and had them with ds and dd. Terrible, horrible pain! Close to being in labour (maybe a 7 where labour is a 10). I can't believe how close u r to seeing Bristol! I can't wait to hear all about her when she comes. But like Ren said we will understand if u disappear for a while.
Mommy-you look great and I love Kalani! So pretty.
Babb-graveyard shifts suck but hopefully they dont last forever. My dh went through a period of time where he was ok making crap money and me making the majority. It didn't last long!
Ab-i love it when they get excited over the simplest of things. It's so heartwarming.
Afm-we missed ov this month cuz dh was being a jackass and pissed me off. I'm not really sure what is going on with us but we r on different pages at the moment. I told him ttc needed to be a priority as my clock is ticking and soon I will stop trying. Ill be 38 next year and dont want to spend the remainder of my 30s stressing over ttc or being pg at 40. We will see what happens.

 

[Mommy_DK]

Thanks ready!

I know how you feel , DH and I go through these periods of being on the same page , agreeing with each other and then periods of not seeing eye to eye and completely irritated with one another. Hopefully you get a chance to talk or spend time enjoying each other this weekend , have you guys had date nights or alone time lately? Oh and I agree , you deserve to enjoy your 30's

 

[ReadynWaiting]

We were away for our anniversary a few weeks back. The issue is he digs his heels in when I ask him to do things differently (eg. Drink less or quit smoking). It's just frustrating!

 

[BABTTC123]

As of today I am late :S
Well, that is assuming I will have a 28 day cycle..
I hope that if I am going to get a period that it will come SOON! I hate waiting and getting my hopes up. Like right now xD I am trying to keep myself from testing.. I have one cheap test left and I really don't need a negative test ruining my happy high this week!

Anyways...
how is everyone doing?

Mrs- is Bristol still baking? Or has she decided to arrive early??

Ab- whats been going on in your life?

Ren- how is kitties surgery owee doing?

Mommy- Beautiful bump!! How far along are you??
I like the name Sydney!! ^_^
I hope that she was just excited that day you seen her moving a lot.

Ready- I hope your hubs pulls his head out of this ass :/
I wonder if he is depressed?
Maybe you should just sit back and observe a little and see if there is anyway you can cheer him up without it being forced. My husband will be a dick some times when he is upset. He tries not to be but it will show and just piss me off. >_<
I hope that you will get your rainbow so that you won't have to stress or worry about any of this anymore!

 

[ab75]

Thanks Bab. Eeeeekkkk test test test !!!
All good here. Had a busy weekend as my little princess was 4 on Saturday so we went to soft play,lunch,ten pin bowling then went out again yesterday,shattered today lol but we had a brilliant weekend

 

[BABTTC123]

Ohhh what is soft play?

And I'm holding out! I want to wait until I am past cd 32 just in case...
I keep imagining symptoms though lol

Every now and then I will think my boobs are a bit twingy but when I grab them they feel fine. They do seem full but that could just be pms. I do have a random cold sore that appeared. I honestly have no clue how/why it popped up!
I read that it could mean either pms or pregnant so of course my mind jumps to pregnant haha
tonight I kept feeling a pinching/tugging on my left side.
Could be all in my head though.
Nothing has been like my symptoms with my first two pregnancies so I doubt I am pregnant especially considering the lack of bd on or near OV days this cycle.
But who knows... all I can do I wait and see :S

 

[ReadynWaiting]

Bab-I get the not wanting to test. It is so disheartening after losses and months of disappointment. I so hope this is ur rainbow! You have waited a looong time. As for dh I asked him if he was unhappy and he said he didn't think so. He has a cycle he goes through and right now he is stuck at this sucky part which is doing nothing for us. He becomes like a petulant child and can't see the harm he is doing.

 

[ab75]

Soft play is an indoor padded play area on different levels with climbing nets and slides etc xx

 

[Smommy013]

hey ladies just checking in on yall. I hope everyone is doing well.

I hope this is your raindbow bab!!

Mrs.- i cant wait to see pics!

AFM- im studying for the bar exam, and trying to get on when I can. Scarlett is doing great. I tried dream feeding and it worked well! hoping it continues tonight! love you guys and so glad yall are apart of my TTC and baby experiences1

 

[Mrs. Burch]

Hey gals!!! Sorry I've been away! So tomorrow is the big day!! Going in at 5am! Only dilated to a 1 so it'll prob take all day the dr said. Bp is still high 150's over 120's. I'll have an epidural for sure, may labor for a little bit but my bp is too high to labor too long. The pain will cause it to get too high. I'll update asap.

Hope you are all doing well. Bab hope this is it for you, fx!!

 

[ab75]

Good luck MrsB xx

 

[BABTTC123]

Ab- we have a couple places like that around here the bigger one is Charlies safari and the other is Jumping jacks. They are fun places even for parents to chase their kids around lol the Charlies safari has Lazer tag as well!

Smommy- what is dream feeding?
And when do you take your exam???
glad to hear that Scarlet and everything is doing great!!

Mrs- Good luck today!!! I am praying that everything goes by smooth and that we will be getting updates with pictures very soon

Afm- tested yesterday and of course it was
no surprise there. I'll wait until Saturday and if nothing happens I will test again.

 

[ab75]

I love soft play. Great for getting energy used up.

Dream feeding is feeding them while they are asleep. Meant to keep them fuller so they shouldn't wake up. Doesn't work here lol xx

Sorry for bfn xx

 

[ReadynWaiting]

Mrs-I can't wait to hear about little B! I hope all went well and u r both doing fabulously.
Bab-sorry for the bfn.

 

[Renaendel]

Sorry about the bfn babbs.

MrsBurch. I hope you are holding your beautiful little girl right now. I can't wait to hear all about her.

Smommy- so busy with baby and studying for the bar. The dream feeding sounds like a fab idea.

Ab-that does sound like a really fun weekend. I always loved those kind of family outings.

My first IVF appointments is Monday! I have been called for jury duty this Friday. Cross your fingers they settle or I don't get picked for the trial.

 

[BABTTC123]

Ren- get your boss to write a note saying that they cannot afford to have you gone from work for the says and times that you will be needed for jury duty
Most bosses are happy to comply.
Otherwise you can say that you cannot financially afford to take the days off from work to attend Jury duty, which considering that you are having to pay butt loads in medical bills (which you can use as part of your reasoning) they should consider it.
Or, if you do some research about any possible cases that they will be having in your area then you can say that you have too much info already and have a biased opinion about the defendant, or it helps if you know anyone involved in the case.
I got called once and was lucky enough to know the judges husband so I got to leave :3

Ab- that sounds pretty hard to accomplish to keep them asleep while they feed xD

Ready- are things a little better for you now or still about the same?

Afm- it dawned on me that my foster kittens will be leaving soon... it could very well be this Sunday :'(
They will be 6 weeks old and at that point the rescue will be worming them, giving them vaccines and then just waiting until they are big enough to be spayed or neutered.
I am sort of hoping that they can stay until they are big enough to be spayed/neutered since they can't get adopted until after that anyways