Waiting to start IVF in January anyone else?

[Ilovetomatoes]

Amore, I hope....no...I know you'll be able to get through this. Like Mrs W said, it's not easy but you'll get there. Time heals all wounds.

Mrs. W, how are you? Thank you for reading my journal .

Thank you Ladies! I appreciate the support. Thankfully, the red spotting now turn into brownspotting. My MIL & DH are spoiling me right now. so Yyaayy. I guess I am learning to be not so tough all the time . I bounce back pretty fast. Bracing myself for the next hurdle coming my way. For now, it's the crazy morning sickness, which weirdly enough giving me comfort knowing that hopefully the babies are growing. Hope everyone is doing well!

 

[Aurora CHK]

FFs just wrote massive post and lost it and don't have the strength to re-type it (on top of my grief I picked up a bout of good poisoning on Friday - life just keeps throwing crud at me this month!!)

Amore - I'm so sorry, I've had similar experiences and should have shared. Drs have said I might be mistaken but I know how it seemed to me (I won't say more now as trying to add spoiler before is what caused me to lose post). I hope you're ok and getting some proper support.

BMW, I'm desperately hoping for you but also know the agony you're in all too well. All my prayers are with you.

ILT - you're so courageous. You will be an amazing mum.

 

[Aurora CHK]

Libby, benefits of scratch should last for a couple of months. For my last cycle, I had the scratch done on 19 December and ET on 17 Feb (2m apart) and my lining was much thicker than in my previous cycle when I had the scratch done on day 21 of the previous menstrual cycle which had been four weeks previous xxx

 

[Aurora CHK]

Mrs W - thanks I'll join that section later - I'm still very wobbly but I do need to start looking forward. I really have been hit so hard by this loss I don't really know what to do!

 

[Ilovetomatoes]

Aurora, you ladies are much stronger than me! I'm sorry to hear that this Month has been crappy for you. Btw, I'm just wondering if you have considered doing PGD for the embies?

Ladies, I just want to say that we are all strong women! Not every women can go through all of the injections, hormones fluctuations, and emotional roller coaster. Just remember that we are given this challenge because we can handle it. Yes....it's crap and we can't see the reward right now. But a few months/years from now, we will find out why we are given this challenge. Sorry for the preaching. It's just what went through my mind while I prepared myself for the worse news a couple of days ago. massive group

 

[lizzie78]

Sorry ladies i'm a bit caught up in myself at the moment and found it difficult to keep reading this thread so havent been around much.

Amore i just wanted to say I read your story and i'm so sorry that you have had to go through this, I agree with the suggestion that you think about some counselling. It sounds like you desperately need someone you can talk to whose feelings you dont need to worry about

ILT i'm sorry things have been difficult over the last few days, I havent read your journal but really hope everything is settling down and the worry is passing

for everyone else xxxx

 

[Mrs W 11]

Aurora, whenever you feel ready come and join us sweetie.

Amore you are welcome to come and join us on the same thread, lots of ladies there for hugs and support. How are you doing? Look after yourself xx

Ilt, I'm glad to read spotting has lessens to brown today, hopefully that's the end of it all. Hope you've had lots of rest. I'm ok, thanks for asking! Saw a house we loved on Friday and planning to make an offer tomorrow, it's £30k below asking price so feeling nervous!!

Lizzie

BMW how are you doing sweet, when do you next get news? Praying all is ok for you.

Bump and star, hope you are both ok! I've decided to go to another clinic next time, but I'm happy complete worked out for you both xx

 

[beneathmywing]

Aurora, whenever you feel ready come and join us sweetie.

Amore you are welcome to come and join us on the same thread, lots of ladies there for hugs and support. How are you doing? Look after yourself xx

Ilt, I'm glad to read spotting has lessens to brown today, hopefully that's the end of it all. Hope you've had lots of rest. I'm ok, thanks for asking! Saw a house we loved on Friday and planning to make an offer tomorrow, it's £30k below asking price so feeling nervous!!

Lizzie

BMW how are you doing sweet, when do you next get news? Praying all is ok for you.

Bump and star, hope you are both ok! I've decided to go to another clinic next time, but I'm happy complete worked out for you both xx

Hi, hunny I'm okay. Hanging in there. I have an ultrasound on the 30th. Seems like forever from now.

 

[boobear2872]

What? Nobody wants to climb through computer to where I am, five minutes from beach in florida. So we can have beach day lol. I know it cant happen but it would be cool.

 

[beneathmywing]

What? Nobody wants to climb through computer to where I am, five minutes from beach in florida. So we can have beach day lol. I know it cant happen but it would be cool.

If only it was that easy!

 

[star25]

Thank you Mrs w, I hope the new clinic works better for you, when is your first appointment? How is the new house move developing?

Amore, lizzie, aurora, I'm sorry for your losses, I know you will be there for each other as you always have been xxx

 

[MoBaby]

ILT fx everything is good with the babies today! What time is your scan?

 

[Ilovetomatoes]

Mrs W, good luck with the house! Hope you won the bid!! Let me know how it goes .

Mo, appt today is at 1:45pm. Spotting stopped yesterday and started a bit this morning. Hopefully we'll figure out what's wrong today. I have a feeling it Subchorionic Hemorrage. Isn't your transfer today??

 

[MoBaby]

Yep in one hour. I'll update soon

 

[beneathmywing]

good luck on your scan, ILT and on your transfer, Mo!

 

[Ilovetomatoes]

Thanks BMW!! How are you doing girlie?

Mo...Wohhooo!!!! Super excited for you .

 

[beneathmywing]

Thanks BMW!! How are you doing girlie?

Mo...Wohhooo!!!! Super excited for you .

Im doing okay. Feeling a little yucky today. Like i had one too many to drink? Hoping its my bean thriving in there.

 

[Mrs W 11]

BMW, fingers crossed! That's how I always feel in first trimester so it could well be your hcg rising!

Mo good luck!! Hopefully you are pupo now!

Ilt I hope the scan went well today and babies are still doing well. Hope you get some answers on the bleed.

Thanks star! I'm having 3 months off to take dhea and coq10 to try and improve my egg quality. I'm to call them when my June af starts and start the pill and they will then chedule a scan for me.

We offered on a house today! The agent left a message for the seller but they never came back to me so i guess they either didn't call back or are thinking our offer over. I'm so impatient I hate waiting!! Maybe we will hear tomorrow. We've gone in quite low so it might be rejected, we will see.

Hope everyone else is ok. Xx

 

[MoBaby]

2 beautiful blasts on board! 3 frosties left. Otd April 1st. Transfer was easy and went very well!

 

[beneathmywing]

2 beautiful blasts on board! 3 frosties left. Otd April 1st. Transfer was easy and went very well!

Yay!! Congrats!