we were sticking together till we all got our bfp and guess what we have done it :)

[youngwife20]

awwww im so sorry tryng,when did you get a bfp with your dd as could it still be early for you ,
youngwife ive heard drinking and smoking actually effects the male more as it does weaken their sperm,my oh didnt stop drinking either but cut down to once a month like me,i just think the odd night out doesnt hurt as it does relax you and helps get the positive feelings back that it will happen but even a meal out with oh or friends will do the same trick,i only took folic acid too but there are some ladies on pregnancy vitamins which includes everything you need even folic acid but they arnt cheap,it is also great ur oh is so up for doing anything he can to help you as my oh didnt want do any of that as he did say he thought it was too much but obviously i didnt think so,
just checking you ladies dont mind me being on here still as i know it must be hard seeing me talking about how im feeling and you all want it so much,i just dont want you feel like your having it rubbed in your face,so please be honest with me,i try not talk about my pregnacy too much for this reason but dont want be making things harder for you guys big to you all x x x

omg you should talk ab0ut pregnancy as much as you want!!! this thread is for people to be honest and open about whatever you started your journy as ttc and now you achieved it1 WHICH is inspiration!!!!!! talk about it as much as you like!! its great!! and i thnk my dh thought it was too much to start with but alo of a sudden hes getting more onbsessed than i am! first thing this morning about 6am hes like i want you to have my babyyssssss!! HE WASNT like that to start with lol i love it!!

 

[youngwife20]

sorry about your bfn! i agree that seen af didnt show up your still in the game! ehehe fingers crossed for u

 

[tryng4another]

Thats so gd ur oh is like that mine has been getting more into it this cycle. Instead of me saying we need to bd its him lol for a soldier he barely drinks too all his mates drink each weekend and he choses not to join them lol sounds like we all have nice husbands or partners we all so lucky xxx

 

[Rachael1981]

Sorry for the BFN tryng, but you could just be a late shower!

Wishing - you know we don't mind you being here with us! The whole point of the thread is to stick together until we ALL get our BFP So no going anywhere and talk about your baby as much as you like!

 

[wishing4baby3]

thankyou to you all but if i ever do get on your nerves tell me to shut the hell up ,
it certainly is going to be loverly staying and seeing you all get ur bfp ,
i have a very achy belly ache today though really does feel like af is on its way even though i know its not but it would have been due this wkend so wondering if it could be that or just stretching pains,what do you all think x x

 

[tryng4another]

Could well be stretching. I know its a pain i will never forget lol i think i would love to stick around too. Were all very good at helpibg each other through the hard times and going onto the good times. Every1 in here is so supportive, i know i always have a laugh on here and im sure everyone is the same. This ttc os a difficult process for us all and even more for those ltttc. I kust hope we all get there soon and can be bump buddies no matter what the gap is. Then finally share how were all getting on. I love having u girls i just wish we all lived near by would be awesome lol xx

 

[Rachael1981]

I agree, I think we definitely need to stick together as buddies even after our BFP's and keep up to date with how we get on with pregnancy, birth and motherhood xxx

 

[wishing4baby3]

thankyou trying,you would think id remember from my other 2 but i honestly cant,all i remember is how achy the last 10 weeks are lol,your defo right too,i talk to you lot more than i do my close friends and some of them dont know im even pregnant yet because i cant trust them staying quiet till me n oh are ready to tell everyone x x

 

[youngwife20]

Thats so gd ur oh is like that mine has been getting more into it this cycle. Instead of me saying we need to bd its him lol for a soldier he barely drinks too all his mates drink each weekend and he choses not to join them lol sounds like we all have nice husbands or partners we all so lucky xxx

i agree with u!! we are soo lucky! i feel positive this month but for some reason think il get a bfn but im okay with it because next month were really gonna go for it!! like weve been doing the whole legs inthe airafter bd but not all the time so next month wel do it more often and maybe better after i get an ovulation kit thingy

 

[youngwife20]

thankyou to you all but if i ever do get on your nerves tell me to shut the hell up ,
it certainly is going to be loverly staying and seeing you all get ur bfp ,
i have a very achy belly ache today though really does feel like af is on its way even though i know its not but it would have been due this wkend so wondering if it could be that or just stretching pains,what do you all think x x

may i ask how far you are? when my friend was around 6-8weeks she had realy bad belly aches , i wonder what it is but its normal though did you get these pains with your first baby?

 

[wishing4baby3]

we defo do rachael,ill just be getting over morning sickness and hopefully you will all have it x

 

[youngwife20]

even though im a newbie and dont pop on here often enough hehe i love coming on here to see how you guys are progressing and saying what im feeling at the time so thanks

 

[wishing4baby3]

thankyou to you all but if i ever do get on your nerves tell me to shut the hell up ,
it certainly is going to be loverly staying and seeing you all get ur bfp ,
i have a very achy belly ache today though really does feel like af is on its way even though i know its not but it would have been due this wkend so wondering if it could be that or just stretching pains,what do you all think x x

may i ask how far you are? when my friend was around 6-8weeks she had realy bad belly aches , i wonder what it is but its normal though did you get these pains with your first baby?

by my lmp i was 7wks 5 days but by my scan around 6 wks 5 days but will hopefully get a proper date when i have my follow up scan on wednesday,i cant remember my pregnancys with my kids apart from feeling sick at the beginning and the really bad aching and sleepless nights in the last ten weeks but i have heard you do get stretching pains just not sure how they would feel x x

 

[Rachael1981]

Hopefully wishing! I'd give anything to have morning sickness right now!

 

[wishing4baby3]

i know you would but like uv said your less stressed now ur living with oh and you will be enjoying christening it while ttc so should hopefully help too x x

 

[Rachael1981]

Definitely!

I'm going to try for every other day once AF has left the building, preferably every day, but we'll see how that goes!!!

 

[wishing4baby3]

well at least you know your covered then hun and try do it till cd 20 just incase,look at me with my last scan they say i ovulated later than i thought and with not using anything to defo pin point the day im lucky im pregnant at all because im 80% sure we didnt do it the wk after cd15 so looks like ohs swimmers were strong or beanie was slow growing to start with lol x x

 

[Rachael1981]

I'll be doing it way past CD20 lol, last cycle I didn't ovulate until CD24

 

[wishing4baby3]

well you should defo cover the whole month then but my god you will be shattered by the end of it good luck hun as you have got more energy ive had all the way through ttc x x x

 

[Rachael1981]

Not sure about that, but we'll see! I do have the added bonus of not having kids already xxx