We're all in this together!

[Excalibur]

Laura - You're welcome hunni It is strange isn't it? I had an extra AF than you and we are now back to being similar Thank you chick, I expected her to arrive to be honest as we haven't really been DTD, to be quite honest, I just have no sex drive at the moment

It is a problem that I have suffered with for as long as I can remember hun, only mentioned it to my Doctor yesterday though as I couldn't because of confidence issues, Karl had to mention it for me, otherwise it would never get sorted out, I don't really want to mention it on here though chick, it's embarrassing xx

 

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Laura - You're welcome hunni It is strange isn't it? I had an extra AF than you and we are now back to being similar Thank you chick, I expected her to arrive to be honest as we haven't really been DTD, to be quite honest, I just have no sex drive at the moment

It is a problem that I have suffered with for as long as I can remember hun, only mentioned it to my Doctor yesterday though as I couldn't because of confidence issues, Karl had to mention it for me, otherwise it would never get sorted out, I don't really want to mention it on here though chick, it's embarrassing xx

Aww I know its easier said then done, but don't be embarrassed. This is very very common. (40% of woman) - oh and this is prior to children and without taking any form of depression into consideration.

I am not sure if your doctor recommended anything for you, but next time your in maybe ask him about this.

https://www.tong-kat-ali.com/tongkatali-woman.html

the only thing it did say on another report is that if you are breast feeding do not take.

Sorry honey If im a little forward or blunt I just really hope you find your answers.

 

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Chasta - Aww thank you very much for that hun, I have just always been embarrassed about this problem and it stops me from doing a lot of things that I would like to do

He hasn't recommended anything for me yet apart from have some blood tests taken and take things from there, I guess it's down to the results as to what happens next.

Thank you for that link hunni and no I'm not breastfeeding, only manage 2 weeks as Tyler was born with a tongue tie so we struggled with breastfeeding

You are not at all forward or blunt chick, I appreciate all your help and advice, thank you xxx

 

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oh my word ladies, so when it rains it pours!!! I drove for 1.5hours picked up my youngest daughter to do the registry for her BB shower, we were at Sears for 2 hours doing the registry when we came out a crowed of people were around my car.........

this guy tells me that his wife backed into my car, my whole bloody front bumper was hanging on by a thread. *sigh* However, it was wonderful of him to have stayed to make sure that I received all of his info. Kind of creepy but he even followed me to drop DD off to make sure that the car didn't die. He then followed me to the accident reporting centre. I also found out that if I didn't get their info, I would have been screwed. Everything is going through their insurance....YAY

My car is older and not worth much, I took collision off as well as comprehensive. :O

I tell you, no BBT for me this morning, stayed at a friends we were up till 3:30am LMAO, then the insurance company calls first thing. Oh well done now.
xx

 

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Hmm yeah I can see your point Chasta about the living situation. Definitely a difficult one I wish I had some amazing advice but Matt and I werent seperated under such difficult situations. Big hugs chick x

I know sugar, I wish you did too. This is life, it is what you make of it. I appreciate all the chat though, wow. I really and truly have no one else to talk to about this stuff. I pick my friends carefully and in turn I do not have many, lol only 2 and one acquaintance (who is my daughters boyfriends mother)

None of them know or understand, the one never wanted any children had an abt then got pg again and now only has her 1DD(who is 17 with a 3mth old)

The next had 2 kids, then an abt and her and her DF were still together she ended up getting Pg again 4 months later and had a DD. she then said to me (when I found out I was pg and then told her I had a mc) sorry but all I kept thinking was what the fuck are you doing! -- I was so hurt, she was suppose to be my closest.

Then number 3 LOL - when I told her I was pg, and then lost it all she said was well - I just wasn't meant to be. again, she had an abt with her last one, she never wanted any either had her fist young, married yrs later her DH had no children so she gave him one.

I am the only person(as in friends wise) who never ever did that.

Im rambling I know. Anyhow, I guess I just need to find my own peace.

ttyl, I am still so tired today, and I just woke up at 9:30.

im a firm believer that rambling is a good thing...its like self therapy...theres always sence in there!

What awful things to say to you id be so pissed!!

Hope you are feeling ok today sugar?

Do you have facebook? Im there more than i am here lol x

 

[sarahuk]

Sarah - My cycles are roughly 28 days hun. Yeah I am booked in to see the Nurse in 2 weeks time to take some bloods to check my hormone levels, no he's not referring me to a FS chick. He said it all depends on what my blood test results come back as as to wether he will refer me for a scan etc xx

Makes mucho sense! Is it specific cycle day testing? x

 

[sarahuk]

Ok hun, I'll have flick back

I'm good hunni, just glad to know where we stand and excited to start temping and TTC properly

Thanks natt hun, sorry she got you too! How strange that even with my cycles being completely out of whack we're back to me being 1day behind you!

Glad your cycles back to normal hunni, maybe try temping and do it on the days you can, to at least give you. A rough idea, might get you back into the habit and want for sex! Lol

What's making him want to check for PCOS hun? It was my worry with my stupid cycles, but doc wasn't interested!

Chasta I'm the same with friends! Apart from my TTC ladies I have two close friends and my sister in law. I have other friends but I don't see them often, I wish I saw the one more though, but it's hard for her with me having Oscar, she's had two losses, one early and one 3days before her due date, I have one from uni who I speak to again now but haven't saw her for years, and that's it, I'd sooner have few friends who I can rely on than many who aren't there. xx

Im the same...Im closer to you ladies than any other in my life to tell the truth lol.

I think u have pcos laura.

Have you noticed we are all synching our AFs? lol x

 

[sarahuk]

Laura - You're welcome hunni It is strange isn't it? I had an extra AF than you and we are now back to being similar Thank you chick, I expected her to arrive to be honest as we haven't really been DTD, to be quite honest, I just have no sex drive at the moment

It is a problem that I have suffered with for as long as I can remember hun, only mentioned it to my Doctor yesterday though as I couldn't because of confidence issues, Karl had to mention it for me, otherwise it would never get sorted out, I don't really want to mention it on here though chick, it's embarrassing xx

Bah hun u know we are a.ways here for you and that theres no need to be embaressed about anything when it comes to us! If you dont want to share tho we are fine with that. If you do you know we are here for you, whether you share it here or in the other place x

 

[sarahuk]

oh my word ladies, so when it rains it pours!!! I drove for 1.5hours picked up my youngest daughter to do the registry for her BB shower, we were at Sears for 2 hours doing the registry when we came out a crowed of people were around my car.........

this guy tells me that his wife backed into my car, my whole bloody front bumper was hanging on by a thread. *sigh* However, it was wonderful of him to have stayed to make sure that I received all of his info. Kind of creepy but he even followed me to drop DD off to make sure that the car didn't die. He then followed me to the accident reporting centre. I also found out that if I didn't get their info, I would have been screwed. Everything is going through their insurance....YAY

My car is older and not worth much, I took collision off as well as comprehensive. :O

I tell you, no BBT for me this morning, stayed at a friends we were up till 3:30am LMAO, then the insurance company calls first thing. Oh well done now.
xx

Wow that would not have happened here they would have either totally drove off or stuck around and then blamed you lol x

 

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Sarah - No it's not specific cycle day testing chick, just to check my hormone levels, that's what the Doctor said anyway. Thank you hunni, that means a lot to me xx

Chasta - Omg! I'm so sorry to hear that someone bumped into your car! I agree with Sarah though, they wouldn't have stuck around if that was over here! xx

 

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Sarah - No it's not specific cycle day testing chick, just to check my hormone levels, that's what the Doctor said anyway. Thank you hunni, that means a lot to me xx

Chasta - Omg! I'm so sorry to hear that someone bumped into your car! I agree with Sarah though, they wouldn't have stuck around if that was over here! xx

Wow, I guess I am just fortunate, I have had a few people say here too, lol. Maybe there was a few people who saw her and that's why she called her husband to come.

 

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The Bumper is 2700.00 alone - not including the noise that my mazda is making now.
The guy I was chatting with told me that there is a very large possibility that the car will be written off.


On a separate note my FF chart is looking rather odd.... with the low temps, at least its a temp chart and not a heart monitor HAHAHAHAHA.

 

[Excalibur]

I guess you were very fortunate to be honest and yeah probably, couldn't really run with a lot of people watching!

Eeeks, that's not good that your car might be written off!

I'm sure your temps will rise once Ovulation has occurred chick xx

 

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I guess you were very fortunate to be honest and yeah probably, couldn't really run with a lot of people watching!

Eeeks, that's not good that your car might be written off!

I'm sure your temps will rise once Ovulation has occurred chick xx

Thanks hun,

I know ive been looking on kijiji(its our new and used site) and I tell you, 5000.00 for a used car with 150 000kms and this wouldn't be so bad if it was a Honda - but crap - a Neon? Really!!!

As for the temps ya, im sure if I O this month I will see a jump again, its just weird cause they seem so low.

 

[Excalibur]

You're welcome hunni

Oh dear, I'm sorry to hear that chick, fingers crossed you manage to find a new car soon!

I'm not really experienced on temping myself so can't really give much advice, sorry chick xx

 

[sarahuk]

Hmm yeah I can see your point Chasta about the living situation. Definitely a difficult one I wish I had some amazing advice but Matt and I werent seperated under such difficult situations. Big hugs chick x

I know sugar, I wish you did too. This is life, it is what you make of it. I appreciate all the chat though, wow. I really and truly have no one else to talk to about this stuff. I pick my friends carefully and in turn I do not have many, lol only 2 and one acquaintance (who is my daughters boyfriends mother)

None of them know or understand, the one never wanted any children had an abt then got pg again and now only has her 1DD(who is 17 with a 3mth old)

The next had 2 kids, then an abt and her and her DF were still together she ended up getting Pg again 4 months later and had a DD. she then said to me (when I found out I was pg and then told her I had a mc) sorry but all I kept thinking was what the fuck are you doing! -- I was so hurt, she was suppose to be my closest.

Then number 3 LOL - when I told her I was pg, and then lost it all she said was well - I just wasn't meant to be. again, she had an abt with her last one, she never wanted any either had her fist young, married yrs later her DH had no children so she gave him one.

I am the only person(as in friends wise) who never ever did that.

Im rambling I know. Anyhow, I guess I just need to find my own peace.

ttyl, I am still so tired today, and I just woke up at 9:30.

im a firm believer that rambling is a good thing...its like self therapy...theres always sence in there!

What awful things to say to you id be so pissed!!

Hope you are feeling ok today sugar?

Do you have facebook? Im there more than i am here lol x

I do have facebook, I have my settings up very high because of the X so I am not to sure if you would be able to find me. -
(no pun LMFAO)

Cant find you! Ill pm you with a link to mine and then you can decide whether you want to add me or not chick. No offence if you want to not and keep it personal x

 

[sarahuk]

The Bumper is 2700.00 alone - not including the noise that my mazda is making now.
The guy I was chatting with told me that there is a very large possibility that the car will be written off.


On a separate note my FF chart is looking rather odd.... with the low temps, at least its a temp chart and not a heart monitor HAHAHAHAHA.

Bad news about the car! Will you be able to get another one?

I looked at your chart and it can be quite common to have a big temp decrease right when ovulation is about to happen. For some people its just an occasional thing but some women have it so frequently that they even use it as a tool as knowing when the egg is about to drop! x

 

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The Bumper is 2700.00 alone - not including the noise that my mazda is making now.
The guy I was chatting with told me that there is a very large possibility that the car will be written off.


On a separate note my FF chart is looking rather odd.... with the low temps, at least its a temp chart and not a heart monitor HAHAHAHAHA.

Bad news about the car! Will you be able to get another one?

I looked at your chart and it can be quite common to have a big temp decrease right when ovulation is about to happen. For some people its just an occasional thing but some women have it so frequently that they even use it as a tool as knowing when the egg is about to drop! x

good to know, I was starting to wonder about my thyroid. - lol