I would love to know what the general consensus nationally would be, I imagine babyandbump users are more likely to state an older age, or if in fact the consensus here is nationally similar what has changed generationally. I was left on my own in the holidays from a young age, I can't remember how young, I never had to cook for myself, but I remember not being allowed to open the door, answer the phone or tell my friends I was on my own, I know it was something my parents didn't like doing but they struggled with childcare. I asked hubby and he said 13/14 which surprised me as I thought he would be more chilled, his mum left him and his 3 siblings alone for a WEEKEND when he was primary aged.....!!! Apparently the neighbours "checked in"....! My own answer is I genuinely don't know, I don't have dealings with children/young teenagers so can't remember what the general capability is, I would have thought by high school though I would be happy for them to let themselves in from school but I'm from a very rural area, perhaps if we stayed in London I might not feel like that?
The woman on tv this morning said she left her 4 year old (with older siblings mind but not much older I dont think?) she's a well know journalist!!