As a social worker, I get asked this a lot. As someone else has stated, there is technically no law on this. However, we class leaving a young child unattended as neglect and that itself has serious consequences (sometimes with social services, and sometimes with the police).
We work on the general rule that at 13, a mature child could be left alone for a few hours after school (a short walk to and from school alone at 10-11 is also acceptable). Any younger than that and we would investigate (and I have done, numerous times).I'm sure this won't go down well with some people who think that 7 year olds are fit to look after themselves but I think it is very justified.
I am well aware that different countries have different guidance and laws etc, but guidance and laws aside, what parent in their right mind would leave a 6 or 7 year old alone for any length of time???? How hard is it to put them in the car and take them with you? It's not teaching them independence, it's irresponsible.
My children and their safety and well-being are my number one priority, not ensuring I can get to work and 'popping to the shops for 5 mins'.
I am truly horrified by some if the responses I have read on the his thread. Shame on some of you.
Then shame to the thousands upon thousands of parents in this country. I hear more child abductions from the uk which is smaller, less populated than Germany. To be quite honest in the last 4 years I've been living here I haven't heard anything of the sort and I watch and listen to the news regularly, but I've heard of quite a few that's happened in the UK in that same period. If I called social services at every time I've seen kids walking home alone who look no older than 8 I'd probably get laughed at - it's the norm here, different country, different cultures and certainly no ones place to say that's shameful.
I agree, shame on thousands upon thousands of parents who are so irresponsible when it comes to their children's safety.
This argument comes up a lot in my profession, ie different culture, different country etc. Just because it's a different culture doesn't mean that I, as a parent, or as a professional have to agree with it.
For example, in my profession, we have found a huge number of families who have settled the UK from Eastern European countries are requiring services and advices when it comes to Domestic Violence. Obviously we deal with a tiny minority of these families, but in a lot of our cases, their attitude or tolerance towards domestic violence is very different to ours. Just because they have different values, cultures etc does not mean that we accept it. They must abide by our laws and policies when they move here as we do not accept them breaking the law just because it goes against their culture or is accepted in their country (this is not meant to open another debate, it is just my professional experience. I have worked with many responsible and loving Eastern European families!!)
I am well aware that my opinion is not popular, but your justifications of your irresponsible parenting does not change my mind. I work with parents everyday who excuse leaving young children alone with 'I had to work', 'my babysitter let me down', 'I just went to the local shop for a pizza' etc etc etc. My opinion comes from years of
training on child development, health and safety training, professional experience of exactly this and of course my experience of parenting myself. Shame on me all you want.
I only have a job because of parents with perspectives like this.
I am so horrified by some of the responses on here, I will be unsubscribing so justify your poor parenting all you like without any further input from me.