hopefulmama2b
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Heard a new one today- "Were you taking your prenatals?" Holy shit that was it! Thank god you're here to save my next baby from it's lack of nutrients.

Heard a new one today- "Were you taking your prenatals?" Holy shit that was it! Thank god you're here to save my next baby from it's lack of nutrients.![]()
Oh my gosh I got that too and guess who it was, a nurse at Planned Parenthood when I was in the midst of painful contractions. They wouldn't even help me and sent me to the emergency room but I got an earful of how it was irresponsible of me to not have seen a doctor. Pre-natals wouldn't have saved our babies. The ignorance of people! Not only that but the nurse continued on after I answered that I had been taking pre-natals and said, "Well they might not have been the right ones." I could have punched her if I weren't profusely bleeding at the time and in pain. Planned Parenthood are no longer a business I support at all...they treated me like an idiot and wouldn't even help me.
Heard a new one today- "Were you taking your prenatals?" Holy shit that was it! Thank god you're here to save my next baby from it's lack of nutrients.![]()
Heard a new one today- "Were you taking your prenatals?" Holy shit that was it! Thank god you're here to save my next baby from it's lack of nutrients.![]()
Your humour made me laugh there! If you don;t laugh you'll either cry...or knock someone's lights out I think.
I was at the docs today after having spotting, mild cramping and backache and she told me
- "there's no reason why I won't go on to have children."
Whoa slow down a minute - I've had 1 mc, I'm possibly (but hopefully not) on a second mc, slow down a bit please. That thought hadn't even crossed my mind until she mentioned it! Talk about insensitive.
'These things happen for a reason' Please god damn tell me what reason there could be?
"You do realize that even if you get pregnant... well... it could happen again."
REALLY? I thought after 3 MC's that there was no way I could ever have another. That isn't actually a rule? Darn!
I have had countless people tell me "God was only doing you a favor; The baby probably had something wrong with it" or "You are not the only one that goes through this, so stop crying & be happy."
Words cannot even describe how I feel when I hear stuff like that... I always reply "Even if there was something wrong with my baby, I would still love her or him the same." or "I know that I'm not the only one going through this, but does that mean I cannot grieve?"
The first fewtwo miscarriages I had, Keith (my fiance) was not totally understanding.. He told me I should be happy & that it just was not meant to be.. Thank goodness he has finally started to understand more, but I cannot be as lucky with others......