Twinkie210
Mom of 2 and an ^Angel^
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In the 5 days since I found out I miscarried, I have hear "It will be alright" from my Mom, "We can try again" from my DH, and "I know it's hard right now but God has a plan" from a close friend.
Even better, on the day we got back from my ultra sound where we found out our baby didn't survive, my DH decided to give me a baby shower invitation that came in the mail that day! Seriously he had to have know what it was, does he not think!
Then today, the day after my D&C I decided to go shopping with my Mom and she said "Let's walk through the Baby stuff and see if we can find something for your cousin" (who by the was is due 2 months before I was). Yes, that is exactly what I want to do. It took every ounce of energy not to burst out in tears in the middle of the store! I know that she doesn't understand my grief, but how can she pretend that her grandchild never existed? That part hurts almost as much as the actual miscarriage!
Even better, on the day we got back from my ultra sound where we found out our baby didn't survive, my DH decided to give me a baby shower invitation that came in the mail that day! Seriously he had to have know what it was, does he not think!
Then today, the day after my D&C I decided to go shopping with my Mom and she said "Let's walk through the Baby stuff and see if we can find something for your cousin" (who by the was is due 2 months before I was). Yes, that is exactly what I want to do. It took every ounce of energy not to burst out in tears in the middle of the store! I know that she doesn't understand my grief, but how can she pretend that her grandchild never existed? That part hurts almost as much as the actual miscarriage!