Best thing said to me so far: It's sad that these things happen but you just need to remember that little miracle and comfort yourself with the fact that you got to experience that babys amazing presence inside you! I know this baby will try again when your ready [] keep your chin up beautiful
A chat between my friend and i todayBare in mind she hasn't had a miscarriage.
Me: Im terribleLast night i got out of hospital after being in there the night before. I found out that im having a miscarriage or possibly an ectopic pregnancy
so life is very hard for me right now
Linn: awwww hunnyIm in the hospital right now
birth went good but im so tired
Me:thats goodglad your well
Linn: Aimee
Everything will be ok
Me: i wanted this baby so bad
Linn: I know how you feel, Im a mother now and it feels so good to be one
Don't worry you can get pregnant again Im sure the doctor talked to you about this
but what was the reason?
Did you stress too much lately?
Don't worry you can get pregnant again Im sure the doctor talked to you about this
and why do people insist on giving you information at this time?
why is SHE telling you not to worry?
why is SHE talking about your doctor?
Send me her address. I'm going round..................... ;-)
A chat between my friend and i todayBare in mind she hasn't had a miscarriage.
Me: Im terribleLast night i got out of hospital after being in there the night before. I found out that im having a miscarriage or possibly an ectopic pregnancy
so life is very hard for me right now
Linn: awwww hunnyIm in the hospital right now
birth went good but im so tired
Me:thats goodglad your well
Linn: Aimee
Everything will be ok
Me: i wanted this baby so bad
Linn: I know how you feel, Im a mother now and it feels so good to be one
Don't worry you can get pregnant again Im sure the doctor talked to you about this
but what was the reason?
Did you stress too much lately?
I don't know who Linn is but sounds like maybe she had a sensitivity BYPASS at some point. OMG. this is the worst thing I've ever read
"Did you STRESS too much?" wtf? like it might be your fault??? oh she i suppose had the perfect pregnancy which is why she's 'a mother now'.
i just feel all angry again now about what my 'best friend' said to me when she found out. and it feels so painful because you just think, seriously, you are so unempathetic, i would be a MUCH better mother than you, but I'm the one who's had the mc![]()
there is ignorance out there, but i'm not sure this is an excuse for insensitivity. is it? because there are so many other people in my life who have been amazing, and sensitive and warm and understanding: this was a baby. ok it wasn't born yet, but it still had all the potential joy and life of an actual baby! how dare your friend be so flippant about your pain when she's just been blessed by a baby and should of all people understand this??!!!
am i over-reacting? i feel like i might be but aaargghhhh this sort of thing just make me SO MAD!!!!!!!!!
hi ladies, just learned that I lost our baby today at 7 weeks. My poor husb doesnt know what to say because I just can;t stop crying. He said 'well at least it wasn't 14 weeks' which is true it would be more painful at that point but just because i wasnt that far along doesnt meant that i dont want to shove my head in a ditch. it was our first and i wanted it so bad. my heart is so broken.