sharonfruit
Cooking my rainbow xx
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What lovely words from your OH amore, you are lucky to have each other to lean on during this difficult time 

amore93, don't listen to those insensitive people, whoever is capable of saying such bullshit has never experienced this and no credit should be given to their words!! it's like hearing a virgin talk about penetrative orgasms and weather it's easier to achieve one doing it doggy style or a missionary...
I have experienced many of these comments from friends, family, co-workers. They just don't know what to say. I especially hate the "You're young. You have plenty of time... you will get pregnant again soon." Yes, I am young, but they don't know what is up with my body!! They don't know that it took me TWO years to conceive!
The worst that I experience though was when I told a friend what had happened and she did not say anything! She was silent and changed the subject. OUCH! I would rather people say something and possibly offend me, than not say anything at all. So we should at least be glad that the people in our lives care enough to say something even if it's not the right thing to say.
I've had most of these comments today.....
I feel like I've been robbed of my baby,
I've been told others have it much worse than me as they lost later. Yes that must be awful, but so is this!
Here are two things not to say:
"I'm surprised you even got pregnant in the first place with how stressed you are"
"Its not the end of the world"
I have to call my boss and tell her tomorrow cupcake and I'm filled with dread.
She is the sort of woman who says the wrong thing without fail. For example when my nan died she said 'at least it wasn't close family' and when my sister was diagnosed with cervical cancer her first words were 'now you should prepare yourself that she might die'!!! (thankfully she made a full recovery)
I hate to think what she'll say about thisx