Starry Night
4 angels, 2 rainbows
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At least save the announcement until 1) LATER! and 2) you're actually sure! If you're going to upset your grieving friend at least have it be over something real. She can't honestly expect you to support her and make her feel hopeful that she is pregnant. Ignorant!
I'm getting really tired of all the "are you healing emotionally yet?" from people. I know they're trying to make sure I'm OK but I'm not even done bleeding yet! I haven't had a single chance to process things as I'm still on survival mode. I want to make sure everything is all right medically before I can really focus on the loss I've gone through. Doing both at once is too much. But no! I have to be all happy and perfect like nothing has ever happened so they can go on their merry lives without having to worry about me.
I'm getting really tired of all the "are you healing emotionally yet?" from people. I know they're trying to make sure I'm OK but I'm not even done bleeding yet! I haven't had a single chance to process things as I'm still on survival mode. I want to make sure everything is all right medically before I can really focus on the loss I've gone through. Doing both at once is too much. But no! I have to be all happy and perfect like nothing has ever happened so they can go on their merry lives without having to worry about me.