- It was for the best
- At least you know you can get pregnant
- Something was probably wrong with it
- Maybe God knows you are not ready to have children
- You're trying too hard. Just relax, and it will happen.
- Take my kids for an afternoon, and I promise you won't be so sad about losing the baby.
- Be glad. Having a baby changes your life; think of all the fun things you wouldn't have been able to do anymore.
- You should just be happy you have one/two/three children already. You don't need anymore.
- it was just a blob of cells. It wasn't a real baby.
- You're young. You'll get pregnant again
- It happens all the time; it's nothing to worry about
- At least you weren't very far along
- It wasn't meant to be
- It probably happened because ______________.
all these words never helped me an the ones said all this to me made me not want to bother in trying to explain.
people said to me well least you can have children in the future i was like i wanted the baby id always wanted on that pregnancy now im pregnant again thinking i couldnt be pregnant again its just not the same.
the hospital never told me i was miscarriaging so that made it worse but for them to say say 1 in 8 pregnant women miscarry an then shove a piece of paper in my face to say where i wanted the baby to go its like

wtf
if someone has miscarried ive learnt that they deal with it in there own way of grieving just say your there to listen when they need you.
i never thought id get over the one ive lost i still remember it and always will do but i cant let it bother me although sometimes it does cos im preg again so its harder.
some come on Lord and give all the people on here some hope so cos thats what we need
