Wishing for a Christmas baby

[reedsgirl1138]

Well didn't manage to "finish" the bd last night so going to seduce my dh before work and use a softcup to keep the swimmers up there!! LOL Wish me luck girls he has been in a foul mood!!

 

[caro103]

Sorry to hear you've been down kissy, hope the witch has turned up now and you can move on to a fresh cycle! and re-find your PMA
Reedsgirl, hope you got lucky this morning!
I'm in trouble with my OH as let slip to some girlfiends that we're trying (he didn't want anyone to know)
Not due to Ov until CD19, not really keeping track this month as not offically trying, but no doubt will symptom spot during the 2ww!

 

[reedsgirl1138]

Hey Caro...well no bd for me. And there will not be any for the rest of the month I am sure. I have moved out. I can't deal with the stress and no communication between us. He says I obsess because I use opks and want to have sex on the days I get a positive. So needless to say I am done. I need sometime to figure this all out and all I have done to have a baby with him and now he acts like this. He says he wants a baby but his actions say otherwise and I am at my end. I wish you ladies all the luck and I will be by to check on everyone. FX for some BFP

 

[kissyfacelala]

so sorry to hear this reedsgirl!!! that is really sad...will keep you in my prayers so that you can figure this all out...surround yourself with great friends and keep a support system going!!

hey caro! that is too bad OH is upset that people know you are trying...we didn't want anyone to know either but then my cousin read me like a book and then my mom found out because she wondered why we couldn't go on a trip later this year and I just can't lie to my mom

sometimes it just can't be helped that people know....and it can be a good thing since they can be a great support system

as for me...no witch yet!! temp is still low...if I did not know better I would think I am pregnant...can't bring myself to test because I know it will be a ...there is no way with my temp low that I am pregnant

 

[caro103]

Reedsgirl, I am so sorry to here that . Men can be very infuriating at times, especially when TTC, they simply do not understand how smaller chance you have each month and how heartbreaking it is for it not to happen. I really hope you manage to work out what is best for you both. I've only done mild explanations to DH about what is involved and have kept things like temping a secret just so he doesn't know how much I am thinking about it, but this is not right for everyone.

Cheeky and hippy hows things? haven't heard from you in a while? xx

Kissy...it is weird AF hasn't arrived, maybe give it a bit longer and if no show pop and see the Dr?

I agree it's good to have some people know, I need to chat to girl friends about it. DH doesn't seem so grumpy about it today, so thats good. Also I've found when AF arrives I've been quite low and work is difficult to manage as I work with children so having just one person there who knows helps.

 

[cheekybint]

Hey all

I'm still around, just a busy weekend! Didn't ovulate as I hoped yesterday, so hoping i did today. Will see if I have a temperature rise in the morning.

OH still doing his part, although his back does seem to be getting worse! If I haven't ovulate by Tuesday we'll have to stop for this month because he just can't take anymore! I've had EGCM since Monday, so that's a whole week of it - although on an check a bit ago it seems to have dried up some, hopefully that means i've ovulated earlier today!

 

[reedsgirl1138]

Thank you for being supportive ladies. I really don't who I would talk to if I didn't have you girls on this site. I am hanging in there still sad and we are still fighting but I am praying we can fix it.

Mel I hope you did O and you caught that egg!! FX God bless ladies

 

[cheekybint]

Good luck ReedsG, you're in my thoughts

 

[cheekybint]

Temp shot up this morning, I'm officially 1DPO!

Let's see if i stay sane through the next 2 weeks!

Staying positive at the moment, we BDed 5 times during my fertility window, so definitely covered our bets lol

Going to try and not symptom spot but it's very hard to do when there's a ticklist on FF!

Hope everyone's doing okay, anyone now past ovulation?

 

[kissyfacelala]

woohoo for Mel!!!

lets hope for that



still waiting for that awful witch! this is getting ridiculous!

you are right Caro...if it doesn't show up this week I am going to my family doctor!

keep having patches of EWCM (sorry if TMI)...totally useless CM since no egg!

good luck reedsgirl! keeping you in my thoughts!

 

[cheekybint]

How's your chart looking Kissy?

 

[kissyfacelala]

my chart is ridiculous!!!! i have attached another picture. CD41 and counting

and my poor mom keeps asking me if I am still late....which I say yes but I just do not have the heart to say that is not possible this month for a BFP.

don't know who wants the baby more me or her

 

[cheekybint]

I know it's all probably daft but..

How long was your previous AF?
Was it the usual length?

Also, have you done a pregnancy test just to check?

 

[caro103]

Hey Cheeky, yay for Ov! I'm due to O later this week but it'll be pointless this month as DH has decided def not trying I was in agreement earlier in the month but now feels like its wasting a precious egg

Kissy, who knows whats happening with your cycle! I'd def go to the Dr's if I were you tho. How long are your cycles normally?

Reedsgirl, hope today is a little better for you huni xxx

 

[kissyfacelala]

my last three cycles were like this...i have attached photos...normal...31 days, 32 days, 36 days...1st cycle I did not attach has it is only half a month since I only started charting halfway through but all three cycles my luteal phase was 15 days

thanks ladies for any insight....on closer look my 36 day cycle was not as biphasic as the 32 day cycle...

 

[kissyfacelala]

Hey Mel just read your post again...my cycle length can be anywhere between 30 -35 days...but I only have 3 cycles to go by since I was on BCPs since Oct 2007 to Oct 2009 and before that I did not track but I know I was a bit irregular...

and I have not done a pregnancy test because with my temp being low I do not think I am pregnant...

 

[caro103]

Hi kissy, it might be worth doing a test just to rule it out.
My other thought is it is quite recent you came off BCP, lots of people say that it can take some months to get them out of your system so it could be that causing problems? xx

 

[kissyfacelala]

hello ladies! how is everybody doing?

Mel are you symptom spotting and going crazy with your two week wait?

Caro, I hear you on the wasting of an egg!! when I first came off BCPs i knew exactly when i was ovulating but did not want to TTC since I did not want any interference and now I had no egg this month...

Hey reedsgirl! still thinking about you...any resolution???

as for me...CD43!!! if nothing by this weekend gonna call my doctor Monday morning....but I did hear parsley tea can induce

what do you ladies think? Works for a lot of women while others no effect...

 

[caro103]

I'd say it can't hurt then kissy! sounds yucky though to me
but then if it does the trick

 

[cheekybint]

Hey all

Kissy, I can't believe you've not tempted to take a test, I'd have done hundreds by now lol

As for me, i'm doing good. Not fussing too much about my 2ww right now, ask me again next week lol Still full of PMA though

Parsley tea sounds vile! Good luck with that lol

How's your month going Caro? Any sign of ov yet?

Anyone seen/heard from HippyMamma this month?