I am not quite sure where to be right now. I am just posting it here to get it out though. My SIL (Nick's sister) just found out she is pregnant. She and I aren't exactly on the best terms after her December wedding shenanigans and other random thoughless acts over the past couple of years. I don't know why she would confide in me with this. Anyway, here is the text exchange from the past couple of days:
Thursday:
SIL: "Just a heads up, I won't be at [FSIL]'s shower on Saturday. Oh, and the doctor confirmed my due date as October 6"
Me: no reply
Today:
SIL: "I have found a new doctor. They are just starting the practice if you want the number"
Me: no reply
SIL: "so far they have been helpful and gave me all the info to book pre-natal classes and such. Just a heads up."
Me: no reply
SIL: "oh, and I forgot. The clinic is at ......"
At this point, I called Nick almost in tears. He told me to tell her to fuck off.
Me (to SIL): "Please stop."
SIL: "Are you ok?"
Me: "no"
SIL: "Do you want to talk about it?"
Me: "nope"
SIL: "I'm here if you need to talk"
I refuse to talk to her about this. I think me saying "Please stop" should suffice. I didn't even tell the bitch that I was pregnant, why would she assume that I would want a new doctor? And even still, I was fully capable of finding my own. My intake was booked for next week.
Nick sent me a text shortly after saying "[SIL] called me and I yelled at her...." There was more to the text, but it was more of an inside joke than anything. It made me smile for a second.
Edited to add: Work is fine. Everyone is so wonderful. My SIL can go jump off a bridge. She is the only one who has effected me so far today.
I was talking to Sam and I said "if you read about my SIL being found dead, it wasn't me" She smiled at me and said "I will be your alibi, don't worry"
Lea... what a complete bitch!!! Doesn't she understand!!!! I'll fly over and smack her!
