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[AbbynChloe]

I still think you are really brave and I am so envious Lemontree.......

Dickybird i don't think its fussy to dismiss a clingy man?? Chloe's dad used to tell me that I had "High expectations" adn before that used to really bother me - was i being too fussy and demanding?? then I though NO why should I lower my standards for anyone?? is that something i'd wanna teach Chloe?? that i'd settle for less?? errr no!

anyways to him my standards were too high, but to me they are just right so what if I come across as fussy!

 

[AbbynChloe]

Hi Redlilly join in the fun!!

 

[lemontree12]

i dont no, we are still texting, mayb im being paranoid, i hate my body as it is, not overly long after having her, and xmas being a few days ago, i managed to eat heather trott, by the looks of things. mayb im being paranoid...
not sure f anyone beleives in things like this, but seen a meduim person last month, and was just reading back everything she said, and she has pretty much described him to a t and described me going negetive on him which is what im doing now i guess..

i dont no, but one thing i do no is, if nothin comes from this then i am completely scrapping dating and concentrating on my little girl, i feel like i neglected her yesterday, with tidying then getting ready, then she went to my friends, it has made me realise that im happy just being in love with her.

 

[lemontree12]

ooh and another things she said was and i quote...

' i feel he needs to be given a chance before you go all negative on him, how you see him out isnt how he is on one-one like two personalities.'

this is totally my issue now, in texts we text like 20per min banter witty stuff, but on our date he was so quiet, he watched telly, i actually asked about the weather, and mentioned that it was raining, ooh look it really raining now, loook the rains stopped. get my jist lol

but that lady has pointed it out. theres loads of stuff she says, so should i listen to her or actually think mayb he isnt interested?

 

[AbbynChloe]

Please please don't give up!! not so quickly anyways??

i don't believe in mediums etc.. but he could have just been having an off night?? and I am not a blunt person, but there is no harm in asking if he has an issue??

I love my baby and i know exactly what you mean, but put it in context, it was 1 night?? there are 365 days in a year you did not neglect her at all, you had a night off, and i thionk it was more than deserved.

Ok maybe being a little paranoid, every1 gains at winter (although if I ate heather trott no one would notice!!)

please please please don't give up on the dating!!!! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[moomin_troll]

Dickybird I met my lad in a pub

Omg ladies it sounds like the start of a dodgy porn film but I pulled my window cleaner hahaha
I was in a club tonight, wasnt supposed to be out but got invited and jumped at the chance lol
Well abit tipsy n over he comes lol I actually owed on my bill haha we got talking n I confessed I only "employed "him cuz he was cute lol and he said he gives me a discount cuz he thought I was fit haha and I ended up kissing him omg I'm terrible! No idea what's got into me! He offered to walk me home but I said nah I'm getting a taxi! I think he was after comin in my house lol but he knows where I live anyway haha

But omg turns out he's actually mates with the lad I was supposed to go on a date with when I first started this thread!!! Small world lol

 

[lemontree12]

haha i love it lol
you hould feel so flatered, how did the convo come up of that other bloke. when i first reaad it, i thought you were sayng he was friends with raf bloke lol

 

[moomin_troll]

haha i love it lol
you hould feel so flatered, how did the convo come up of that other bloke. when i first reaad it, i thought you were sayng he was friends with raf bloke lol

He was with the lad that date 1 was with when I met him hahaha
So u was like hello josh! We got talking n then I told him to tell date 1 Ben that he really missed out lol
He then was trying it on haha but no I had my eyes on window cleaner
I'm flattered because I looked horrible the day he quoted me so get in hahah

 

[AbbynChloe]

Moomin seriously!!!! boys are all over you like a rash!! jealous much!!!!!!!!!

 

[moomin_troll]

I've got a 19 yr old texting me, RAF lad who really likes me and now window cleaner has just text me hahaha
I'm in way over my head here! Hahaha

 

[lemontree12]

haha love it kim
you go girl, its a great boost

im still texting date boy, he texted me at 2am drunk so i guess thats a good sign

 

[moomin_troll]

haha love it kim
you go girl, its a great boost

im still texting date boy, he texted me at 2am drunk so i guess thats a good sign

It's so exciting when u first start texting someone. Usually for me after 3 weeks it goes down hill but so far things aren't slowing down between me and RAF lad lol

Window cleaner was textin me earlier, think he's building up to asking me out. RAF lads away week after this so ile go then so I don't get caught lol

 

[lemontree12]

it takes alot for me to be interested enough to even text, im usually bored after the second lol

 

[moomin_troll]

it takes alot for me to be interested enough to even text, im usually bored after the second lol

I get so addicted to texting hahaha it's abit sad lol

Think I need a night away from lads tonight! Very hot shower, pjs and straight into bed! Ile even treat myself to clean sheets haha and sleep

 

[lemontree12]

sounds bliss
my little brother hasnt decided to move to my area, hes got a job here, and is moving in with me for a while.
so guess the up side is i finally have someone to look after my little lady for me to actually go out
bonus

 

[~RedLily~]

Moomin I'm jealous, sounds like the lads are all over you

I've got to make more of an effort tomorrow night because the last couple of times I've got out I must just not seem very approachable. Shame I'm driving or I could have just had a couple of drinks to boost my confidence

 

[moomin_troll]

Wow the window cleaner has gone in for the kill haha we are going on a date Wednesday to a really nice restaurant and he's picking me up seen as he knows where I live hahaha
Then I'm seeing RAF guy Thursday and Friday!

 

[moomin_troll]

Well I was actually wearing a moustache again last night haha lads love it!!

But the window cleaner has seen me at my worst already. Messy hair, pjs at 10am with a screaming baby on me lol oh and also breastfeeding.....forgot about that one lol

 

[~RedLily~]

Well maybe I should get myself a window cleaner

I'm hoping I'll at least get a new years kiss tomorrow lol

 

[moomin_troll]

I'm spending my night in with a mate. Eating pizza and drinking lol I hate new yrs