1 day DPO and in need of buddies :)

[MrsMoo72]

Sorry for butting in here guys but just wanted to send hugs to fili, been waiting all day for your update darling and im so sorry. Hope you're doing as ok as you can and im thinking of you lots xxx

 

[filipenko32]

Aww thanks mrs moo, x x x sorry I didn't update earlier but I couldn't keep my eyes open!! I've been sleeping for the last few hours on the sofa. How are you doing? X x x

 

[korink26]

I feel like the worst friend because I did not realize you had an appt today! I'm sorry your're going through this, AGAIN. What's your next part of treatment?
hun! My heart is hurting for you...

 

[confusedprego]

Jess - I have my first trimester screening.on Thursday...those scan pics were just my SIL having fun while I was in the office. I'll be really excited to have that behind me too but she said everything looks fine to her!

Mel - I'm so sorry hun! I also had a fully functional corpus luteum last time. This time it ruptured at 5 weeks but it still kept pumping for me thankfully! It's gone now. But atleast you ruled that out as a problem!

Kelsey - I have a good feeling about this cycle for you!

Pop in any time you like Emma! How you doing?

 

[confusedprego]

So, I told my boss that I was pregnant yesterday because I wanted to get it out of the way and before she started suspecting as I'm getting bigger and in a very nice way (with a smile on her face, blahblah) she says "you look it". That was the first thing she said!! I wonder if she had a clue before, everyone else I tell is like shocked!! Maybe they're just better at pretending lol. I know I've rounded a bit but I didn't think it was that much haha.

 

[filipenko32]

Kelsey, you're not the worst friend ever!!! I didn't even mention it on here, you're not a mind reader lol!!!! Odd reaction from your boss lindsay! Cmgratualtions might have been more appropriate!! It's good that youre showing tho how exciting! X x x

 

[BeachChica]

Lindsay - that is a strange reaction from your boss!! Gosh!! Well you will need to start posting bump photos soon!!!

Mel- I looked through all of my paperwork last night and didn't see anything about day 3 hormones. What would they be checking for here? Do you have to have a D&C this time with the stage that you're at or will they let things pass naturally?

 

[filipenko32]

Hiya Jessie, I'm having tablets to induce the mc so no operation. Should be ok. I think day 3 hormones test the health of your ovaries, whether your body is ovulating with ease because you have plenty of eggs left. I think the reason we haven't been tested for it is because we obviously can get pregnant. It's just one test I haven't had done so I want it, but maybe it's unnecessary?? Another poster called neversaynever who has had 3 recurrent losses just posted her successful scan on her 4th attempt. So pleased for her!! We just have to keep trying jess!!

 

[BeachChica]

Mel - I hope the MC happens quickly and is not too painful for you!!! So will you be collecting tissue for testing?

Ahhh yes, I know NSN!! Is that in the TTC and more that one loss thread?

I saw some notes on my hysterosalpingogram I think last night about my ovaries. I am going to look at it again tonight to see what it said. I think that test had to be done on a certain day (before OV I think) but I don't think it would have been done during AF. Have you had this test done?

I'm not sure that checking if we have plenty of eggs left would really help in our situtation since we've been PG so many times but I think something to check the quality of eggs might be helpful. If my MC was due to another chromosome problem this time then I don't know what should be checked because all the chromosome testing DH and I have done does not show anything that was cause this to happen. I did see one note on my files something about the MTHFR that I will post later too to see what you girls think. My doctor didn't seem to think it would cause any issues but its always good to check.

Also, not sure I mentioned this or not but I went back to my regular OB office for my D&C last week because my specialist no longer performs surgeries (and they had performed the others). A new doctor there actually met with me for the D&C and performed the procedure. She is fairly young but was very interested in my genetic testing and said that she had done quite a few studies in genetics. She was going to look over everything but I thought it might be helpful to have a fresh set of eyes looking over all of my labs. My follow-up appt is next week on Wednesday so if anyone has any questions I should ask let me know and I will make a list

Kelsey - I am going to ask about the Clomid too when I go. I really hope those sperm have no problem finding that egg this month. It figures that like men those little guys have problems with directions though huh!!!?? LOL

 

[filipenko32]

I know the chromosome thing is two separate issues. So me and dh are clear for any chromo issues ourselves with normal karyotypes but it doesn't mean to say we cant have a bad egg, sperm combo causing an abnormal embryo. We had our third loss tested and it was a normal karyotype so I think I remember a doc saying I haven't got bad quality eggs issues and I don't think my age is an issue so... But then I think 4 losses!! Something must be going on!! I've had a follicle count and on each ovary there's 10 and the doc said that was good. I don't know, it's so confusing the more I think about it!

 

[BeachChica]

We had normal karotypes too. Will this loss for you also be tested? I can't remember but loss 1 and 2 were not tested for you either right? This is all so frustrating.

 

[babydust818]

Lindsay - awwwh so happy you got it off your chest! I imagine what your boss told you made you smile! So happy for you and your little bean! What do you think it is? Did you pick any names out yet?!?! How many weeks are you now?

Kels - i got my fx's clomid does the trick this month. not only that but it's a sticky bean. i hate it that it's taking forever for us to get pregnant again. I've been so grumpy lately and honestly i'm not thinking about TTC as much. Which is weird. I imagine it's going to click in, in about a week when O should come. GAH, stupid CBFM! Better give me a peak this month!

Mel, i'm glad you can now move forward in this miscarriage. I just wish you didn't have to do it. You're a tough cookie. Hang in there. We're all here for you!

Jessie, how have you been feeling? you been doing okay?

I don't want you ladies to think i've disappeared. Usually i'm on here ALL the time, but for some reason i've just lost interest in TTC right in this moment. I guess because my dog has been on my mind this week. I haven't even turned on my CBFM to see if it's asking for a stick! Gahhh. i'm CD8 today. Not really suppose to O until 8-10 more days BUT who knows if i even will. If not, then i'm going to have to go see a doctor. I put in a job app at this place that i'd like to work at. Not something i want to make a career out of but sure beats what the heck i'm doing now. I got my fingers crossed so damn tightly. Drives me insane dude. Patience is always the story of my life. Everything takes SO much time! Oh well, i'll get there!

 

[filipenko32]

Yeah jess only no 3 was tested. Don't worry we will get there!! X x x

 

[Maddysmum]

Hey girls, Good luck on your job app Rach i hope you get it. And im so glad Sadie is doing good thats great.
Mel im sorry the hb had stopped but im glad you now know whats going on. I hope the mc isnt too bad for you i feel stupid saying that but i mean i hope its fast and not too painful. Sending big hugs your way.
Lindsay thats a weird reaction from your boss, Is she of childbearing years i was thinkin maybe she is trying too and she is a bit envious. sometimes ppl say weird things when there envious.
AFM im 5dpo today, going to buy some tests and try hang out till atleast 10dpo to do the first one. I have been have loads of white creamy cm which is weird cause im usually fairly dry in the tww. Yesterday i was having a argument with OH which was really not that bad but i was so emotional cryed so much yesterday. Then when i was getting out of the shower i had to lay down cause i felt like i was gonna pass out or be sick. so much for not symptom spotting.

 

[babydust818]

Eliza i totally understand the whole symptom spotting! lol. I'm bad for that. I'm very proud of myself though because i didn't last month. Only headaches is all i talked about because it drove me CRAZY! I hope and pray you get your beautiful baby! FX'd for you sweetheart! Try to hold off until at least 8dpo hahaha i know, YEAH RIGHT!

 

[BeachChica]

Mel - I just realized that I too have had 4 MC in 13 months!! Ugh! Ridiculous! I was just changing my profile details.

Rach - I have everything crossed for you on the job. Maybe some change for you will be good.

Eliza - ooooh I don't know I think your symptoms sound good!! you can't chance the outcome so I would hold off a bit on testing too. Have DH hide the tests!!! LOL

 

[korink26]

Omg Eliza!!! Sounds like somebody might be pregnant?!?!?!?! If only we could speed up the next 5 days for you!!! REALLY EXCITED!!!!
Lindsay, I think it's awesome that you're starting to "look" pregnant!!! Feeling better? Did the B6 ever make any difference or not really?
Rachael I hear you on having no patience. I'm the type of person that wants immediate results---when I'd have a college exam I'd want the results immediately and hated to wait. This TTC thing has been torture for somebody like me!
Took my first clomid today, so far no effects. Jess if you've gotten pregnant so easily I'd really think you have good quality eggs, but I don't know. I don't think clomid can hurt, because from what I've read people will take Clomid even when they don't need it just because they want to boost their chance of having twins. So, I suppose why not try it?
Oh and Rach did you watch Biggest Loser last night? Was the guy that went home one of the guys from your hometown?
Mel I hope you're not in any physical pain....thinking of you.Also, does anybody watch Teen Mom? I see that Leah, the one who had twins, is PG again and enaged. REALLY!?!?
P.S---Supposed to get 9 inches of snow tomorrow....FINALLy some snow...

 

[korink26]

Eliza i totally understand the whole symptom spotting! lol. I'm bad for that. I'm very proud of myself though because i didn't last month. Only headaches is all i talked about because it drove me CRAZY! I hope and pray you get your beautiful baby! FX'd for you sweetheart! Try to hold off until at least 8dpo hahaha i know, YEAH RIGHT!

Hey how have you been feeling?!!?!? Still having odd symptoms like you were last week?

 

[Maddysmum]

Thanks girls i have my fingers crossed. Jess Im not telling him im buying them today cause he thinks im crazy cause im obsessed with testing lol im sure ill cave and tell him and he will just smile and shake his head and give me that look LOL
Kels woohoo for the snow i would love to experience that. We r in a heat wave atm.
Rach i hope u have better luck this month maybe not stressing and thinkin about it so much will help. Thats what everone keeps telling me but im too obsessed.

 

[Maddysmum]

I cant watch thoes teen mum or 16 and preg shows they piss me off to much to see these kids having babys. I hope we get your the biggest looser here we usually do at some stage.