2013 losses- rainbow baby making thread...

[tlk71411]

My hpt is still showing positive from my mc so I guess that's why the opk was positive

 

[mumofone25]

All this hcg talk got me curious as to how mine was going. Faint positive with cheapie, but easily seen. Feels odd actually wanting to see that line fade, rather than obssessing over the opposite.

i know right... ive got to take a hpt on monday to just confirm it is neg, tempted to do it now though as we are going away monday and would rather put it all behind us before we go iykwim?? xxx

 

[LucyLake]

Hey ladies. I hope everyone else is having a good night. I woke up this am with the witch. . All over me and the bed (sorry tmi). I'm happy she finally came! And i suppose we're not waiting. . Hubby hasn't pulled out our last two times and when i asked him he said whatever will happen will happen.

Damn it, not the witch!! UGH, I'm sorry Cryssie. I just have the feeling we're going in for April though. I'm having AF as we speak. It finaaaaaaaally started today 31 days post-MC. So My thoughts are I'll ovulate (hoping like hell!!!) around April 10-16 or so. I'm praying like hell that my hubby is ready to go

 

[LucyLake]

Hi girls,
How is everyone?
So I'm 30 DPMC and around 12-13DPO, ( I only checked CP and CM for ovulation, no OPKs ) so I don't know if I actually o'ed or not. AF should arrive either tomorrow or the next day if not ill be testing to see if I get BFP.
Only symptoms I've had are peeing lots at night for the last two days.

I hope you're the first to see a in our group sweetie! Dropping baby dust virtually for you I just got my AF and it sounds like you could VERY well be pregnant as we miscarried around the same time (I'm 31 DPMC) and I apparently DID ovulate

 

[mumofone25]

Lucylake, good look for april, my fave month as its my birthday lol!! hopefully its a lucky one too! xxx

 

[LucyLake]

Took a hpt of course the control line didn't come up did a cervix check for blood there wasn't any went to the bathroom about an hour later and I was spotting pink since so I out a tampon in thinking af came no cramps!! Boobs are still hurting and tingly of course not all the time sound gross but want to change my tampon soon to see what happening. Either way its been 17 days since I stopped bleeding and ten since I ovualted. Stupid horoscope said tomorrow is a lucky day.... only thing good happening tomorrow is OH has the day off and the new season of doctor who starts!!! Excited to try in april!

Man, I'm stumped about your situation Neverending. When is the first day of bleeding/placenta breaking off wall in your case? Feb 17? I spotted pink, cried my eyes out thinking another 30 days of waiting for no blood to see AF and then 2 hours later, AF is here with a vengeance. I hope you're pregnant!!

 

[LucyLake]

Lucylake, good look for april, my fave month as its my birthday lol!! hopefully its a lucky one too! xxx

I hope you get a nice negative sweetie and back to 0 swiftly hun I just read your first tri post, it sounds like you're MC official date was March 24? I'd love to see you here with us for April, praying like hell, April is a lucky month with lots of in our group. May is like Custer's Last Stand for me so I'm anxious to get started and terrified that it won't work/miscarriage again/the works. (My work is such that a March-June due date would mean us being hobbled significantly financially because of our business)

Huge hugs and sorry for your loss

 

[Neverending]

Well I think my period is coming been spotting brown with pink and the occaional red so o have a tampon in horibble back ache that literally woke me up for the day and uterine cramping. Really really light start but non the less happy I can try very soon. My boobs stopped hurting every once and a while ill get the pain on the side I'm only 11dpo today. I passed most of placenta and the baby feb 17 but I was still bleeding and had to have d&c on the 6th I was bleeing for a month thought last night this could be implantation since I was 10dpo but think its definanitly a period usually before mc I didn't feel my periods but my goodness I definatly feel this!!!

 

[Neverending]

Lucy I'm so glad you got af!!! I was thinking about you this morning!!! Are you going to try this month then? What a relief!

 

[mumofone25]

its so strange hoping to see a neg lol my bleeding started the 23rd and passed tissue the 24th but the mw i spoke to said to count the day after i passed the tissue as CD1, but i dont have regular cycles since having my implant removed. im hoping that being away for the week nice and relaxed might do the trick we were originally going to wait until my first AF but im just going to go with the flow i think fingers crossed for lots of aprils

 

[LucyLake]

Well I think my period is coming been spotting brown with pink and the occaional red so o have a tampon in horibble back ache that literally woke me up for the day and uterine cramping. Really really light start but non the less happy I can try very soon. My boobs stopped hurting every once and a while ill get the pain on the side I'm only 11dpo today. I passed most of placenta and the baby feb 17 but I was still bleeding and had to have d&c on the 6th I was bleeing for a month thought last night this could be implantation since I was 10dpo but think its definanitly a period usually before mc I didn't feel my periods but my goodness I definatly feel this!!!

I hate that you may not be preggers, I really want you and Misscalais to be first up to bat

Awww....Neverending, I actually am crying happy tears for you. It stinks, but yeah it really sounds like an AF and it makes sense to me with your Feb 17 and then extra D&C issue. And since it is, OMG I'm really relieved for you!!! You have been through so much, but this is proof that your body is bouncing back and so is mine very nicely. Neverending, I never thought I'd be this happy to see the witch I had SO many of those symptoms this week as well. Back pain at work, just achey, crampy, bratty, and generally blah. I literally wanted to bleed with every fiber of my being. The good news is you ovulated, you know that now and we could both get pregnant now in two weeks, GOD I can't believe that. I'll be trying and I will probably buy some tests even though I'm expecting it April 10-15. No huge arrangements, I think I'm going with the every other day plan? Are you going to buy indicators, because OMG I wish I could say when you ovulated, but now you know you did, you probably know and could feel it though?

 

[LucyLake]

its so strange hoping to see a neg lol my bleeding started the 23rd and passed tissue the 24th but the mw i spoke to said to count the day after i passed the tissue as CD1, but i dont have regular cycles since having my implant removed. im hoping that being away for the week nice and relaxed might do the trick we were originally going to wait until my first AF but im just going to go with the flow i think fingers crossed for lots of aprils

Sounds like a great plan sweetie. I waited for my AF, but I have to say it was the hardest wait EVER and honestly I felt like I might be missing my most fertile window. Hope you get a this month as well.

 

[Neverending]

Maybe we will be bump buddies!!! I always know when I ovulate because my boobs get tender and I have the unmistakable pain for a quick minute. This month I spotted with it. We have sex everyday eitherway so kinda just sperm meets egg. My grandpa found out he has a genetic blood clotting disorder and my mom so I probally have the gene can't figure out if it affects my pregnancies. Ill get back on in a minute!!!! I have no wifi!!

 

[LucyLake]

I hope we can be bump buddies. This has made me the happiest I've been since the MC today Like you, I am aware of ovulation and don't really feel like I need the predictors if I bd every other day. We'll see. I was sure I had in the middle of March, but then when AF didn't show herself I'm so glad I can trust my body after all! Call your OB and see if they recommend Baby Aspirin, I would totally do it just in case as long as they agree. Aww....so April then, this is exciting And the fact that you bd everyday, god I wish, just for this month lol. Not sure if I can get hubby to agree. Also, I had a boy last time I did that, this time I don't mind another, in fact I want a boy more...since I felt I lost a son? But, it was much easier to bd everyday at 24 than 34

Huge hugs and SO excited for you Neverending

 

[Neverending]

Lol I don't know what it is I would bd right after even though I'm completly satisfied in the morning afternoon and night!!! Lol but then I have days where I don't want it but then it happens lol I'm glad he can keep up with at least the daily part. I have a need for it and I feel very weird when its been a couple days. O have to go in for a blood test to confirm I have the gene. I just love how excited he is. Baby would of been our first. I'm so glad our bodies are back and so so glad you didn't have wait that 8 weeks!!!

 

[LucyLake]

Me too Neverending, Thank God!!! Aww...I love it, so cute!! I'm a once a week kind of girl and worried about the opposite--not Bd'ing enough You guys are in love so much, I love it

 

[Neverending]

Still worried about him falling out of love with me I've been having some mood swings mc then pms now period

 

[LucyLake]

Awwww....sweetie, this is really normal, but he won't fall out of love with you. I think it's a normal feeling if you don't already have kids together. But, don't worry because in time things will get back to how they were. Your body has strength that's just amazing considering how recent all this was

 

[Peacenik]

A bit of good news - AF arrived today - just one day later than I expected. I hope this means my cycle is well on it's way to normal.

 

[george83]

A bit of good news - AF arrived today - just one day later than I expected. I hope this means my cycle is well on it's way to normal.

I'm glad you got af, although it still feels weird to think of af starting as a happy thing! I hope your cycle is pretty normal, are you trying after this af or waiting longer? x x