2013 losses- rainbow baby making thread...

[Kasey84]

Good luck awesome sauce!

I tested yesterday, 9dpo and BFN. Glaringly so. Oh well.

So sorry Karen

 

[Peacenik]

Awesome: EEEEEEEEEK!

Karen: Hang in there and give it a few more days. Good luck!

 

[EarthMama]

I am confused. I took two tests, one was bfn, and one had a faint bfp. I was so crushed when I saw the bfn. had a good cry. ) I was so sure I was. That's when I took the second test and got the faint line.

I don't know what to do now except wait for my period. Or not. It should be here in 4 days.

 

[Peacenik]

I am confused. I took two tests, one was bfn, and one had a faint bfp. I was so crushed when I saw the bfn. had a good cry. ) I was so sure I was. That's when I took the second test and got the faint line.

I don't know what to do now except wait for my period. Or not. It should be here in 4 days.

Ugggg that sucks. Hang in there - I'm sending good vibes your way.

 

[karenh]

I am confused. I took two tests, one was bfn, and one had a faint bfp. I was so crushed when I saw the bfn. had a good cry. ) I was so sure I was. That's when I took the second test and got the faint line.

I don't know what to do now except wait for my period. Or not. It should be here in 4 days.

That is so frustrating. Were they the same brand? If not it is possible that they have different minimum levels of HCG that the detect. Also, it could depend on the concentration in your urine. Hang in there, you are not out yet. This could be it!

 

[george83]

I am confused. I took two tests, one was bfn, and one had a faint bfp. I was so crushed when I saw the bfn. had a good cry. ) I was so sure I was. That's when I took the second test and got the faint line.

I don't know what to do now except wait for my period. Or not. It should be here in 4 days.

Was the line within the time limit and on a decent test? If so you know that it's almost certain to be a real positive, 4 days early is also pretty early so maybe that's why it was so faint, can you hold out for another couple of days and retest? Fingers crossed for you though! x x

 

[george83]

Good luck awesome sauce!

I tested yesterday, 9dpo and BFN. Glaringly so. Oh well.

Karen keep positive 9dpo is still early I wouldn't say your out yet, can you wait another couple of days to test again? x x

 

[karenh]

I am going to try an wait until wednesday to test again. I have my beta that day. I just tested becuase it would have been awesome to get a BFP on my birthday/ mother's day.

 

[george83]

I am going to try an wait until wednesday to test again. I have my beta that day. I just tested becuase it would have been awesome to get a BFP on my birthday/ mother's day.

Happy birthday!!!

 

[mowat]

Wow Awesome, really hoping this is it for you!

Sorry Karen---still hoping for you.

Temperature is starting to drop so I'm really hoping AF arrives soon. Never thought I'd say that!

 

[AwesomeSauce]

Well, my uterus is empty. Completely empty. I didn't know false positives were possible, but I guess they are. Maybe this has just been an insane and emotional couple of days because of a weird hormonal fluke. Maybe I really did have a period twelve days ago and the bfp's were all false. I will know more tomorrow.

 

[Peacenik]

Well, my uterus is empty. Completely empty. I didn't know false positives were possible, but I guess they are. Maybe this has just been an insane and emotional couple of days because of a weird hormonal fluke. Maybe I really did have a period twelve days ago and the bfp's were all false. I will know more tomorrow.

I'm so sorry Awesome. Did they check your levels?

 

[LucyLake]

I am going to try an wait until wednesday to test again. I have my beta that day. I just tested becuase it would have been awesome to get a BFP on my birthday/ mother's day.

Hope you had a great birthday Karen and that you get your this week

 

[twinmummy06]

So sorry Awesome - I hope you find out more tomorrow

Karen - your not out yet - hang in there hun. Hope you had a great birthday though

EarthMama - sorry your getting different tests. But I hope they give you more accurate results soon if you still have 4 days before AF is due

AFM: I'm about 7dpo and BFN. Surprise surprise. Just couldn't help myself lol.

 

[LucyLake]

Just wanted to reach across the miles and offer best wishes to everyone. I was feeling pretty good about things and even had some very slight spotting Friday, but my breasts are flat as pancakes!! Fertility Friend was being friendly and my temperature even rose to 98.6 yesterday, possible triphasic shift and everything is nicely and safely above my cover line. But, it's indicating that I Ovulated on Day 15 now, it's concerned that some of my temps are off but is sure I did O, my OPK was never truly positive and I didn't retest like a fool (I have a Biology Degree from Texas, but the lightbulb failed to go off on this one!) and I made the dreadful mistake of not doing the baby dance on day 14 and 15 because my husband literally worked a 48 hour shift with our limo biz for prom and was recovering. So there you have it...only time will tell. It's still early days.

But, I'm a bit of a Debbie Downer today.

A lot of thoughts have crossed my mind....A mom from my son's school is pregnant now with #3 at 275 pounds...she was told not to, but didn't heed doctor advice. She's doing well. It crossed my mind today that I worked so hard to go down from 194-120 pounds in 2011 on an insane regimen and even went vegetarian...but here I am. Maybe my hormones haven't recovered from the MC. Maybe the MC was less the morning after pill and more the fact that I had amenorrhea for 3 months in 2011 as a result of running 4 miles a day and doing Weight Watchers as well.

I've also gone up to 132 and can't lose it for anything because I don't dare to risk losing weight while TTC.

I'm being bratty today, sorry It's still too early for me to even test and my period which was 25 days last month isn't due until May 17. We'll see.

Raggydoll: How are you doing? Glad to hear from you and hope the two week wait is going well.

Nimyra: Always thinking of you

EarthMama: That sounds like a to me. When you know you know. I had NO symptoms with Jack, not even full breasts and only knew because I missed AF and cramps were so slight I didn't need my usual Advil. The fact that you are having a positive and it's tough to breast-feed sounds good. With Logan, I had sore breasts and tested Jan 18, exactly when AF was late. We'll see, but your situation sounds hopeful.

AwesomeSauce: So sorry to hear this news. Hope you are doing okay.

George83: How are you, how are the early days? Huge hugs

KarenH: It's SO early. I wish I had listened to you by the way!! Hindsight is 20-20. My husband and I baby danced day 8, 10, 11, 12, 13, but NOT on the critical day 14, 15. We'll see. I hope you get your this week

TwinMummy06: Awesome!! I also got a this morning Hope you get your soon.

Anyone I've missed, thinking of you.

 

[AwesomeSauce]

They took my blood to test levels today. I should know more tomorrow afternoon.
I thought I was doing ok, bit I am not. I hate having a ray of hope to have it stripped over and over and over and over again. I wish I could curl up on my bed and ignor the world, but I have responsibilities. Every hour or two though I have collapsed in a corner to feel sad and I finally allowed myself to cry.

 

[karenh]

Awesome sauce: could it be ectopic? There really isn’t a false positive. If you got a positive something is going on. I hope you get some answers soon. Take all the time to cry that you need. This is hard, and I am sorry you have to go through it. We are here for you if you need anything.

Twinmummy: Sorry for your bfn. I know it is still early and you aren’t out yet, but it is still hard to see the BFN.

LucyLake: Sorry you are having a hard time. It is really hard to see people just get pregnant without having to try especially when the doctor said she shouldn’t. Don’t feel bad about ranting here; that is what we are here for. I hope that you were able to catch you egg even though the timing might have been a little off. Miracles do happen!

AFM: Thanks everyone for being so positive for me. I am pretty sure AF is on the way. I have my beta tomorrow to check. DH isn’t sure if he wants to try this next cycle or not. We will see.

 

[LucyLake]

KarenH: Thank you so much . Just wanted to offer prayers and support...and mention that with my son Jack, I had AF cramps (no bleeding). I didn't require Advil and kept praying I'd get my BFP. Hoping that the same happens for you, never count yourself out. .

About your husband-hugs and prayers that he comes around...I'm sure he will. That was one of the hardest parts of TTC for me-getting husband onboard.

 

[karenh]

Thank you! We have been texting all day, we have been at work for 3 hours now. I think he is coming around. I think right now he can only think about one cycle at a time.

 

[ticklemonster]

Hey guys, why is it everywhere you look everyone is pregnant? It makes me so sad but also makes me want to start trying again, ASAP. When is it safe to start trying after a d and c? Xx