2013 losses- rainbow baby making thread...

[LucyLake]

Welcome NurseH and WelshGirl. I'm so sorry to hear about your losses . Why do our precious babes have to leave us?

We have a great group of ladies here TTC

Nimyra: still thinking about you . Everything is okay here, hope you're doing well

 

[wbee]

I suppose I'll join.

I'd been trying 22 months when I conceived in March/April. Found out I lost the baby just after Mother's Day and had the D&C a couple weeks later. I'm currently on CD 13 (first cycle after the MC) and have been "trying" since CD 10 and will continue to do so until my period.

I'm really really thinking that this will be my month. Last month we tried, but I think I ovulated too late for implantation to happen and ended up with a period. I just have a strong feeling that July is it and I'm destined to have an April baby

 

[karenh]

I am so sorry for the new losses out there. It is so hard. Try to take care of yourself. This group is really helpful. I hope you all get your rainbows soon.

 

[Kasey84]

Welcome to the group wbee. Very sorry for your loss I love your positive attitude and I hope you get your April baby!!

How is everyone??

I'm on cd 32 and waiting until cd 35 to see if AF arrives before testing. I almost had myself convinced that I was pregnant- sore breasts, twinges in my uterus, some nausea and dizziness, and increased appetite! Today though I think AF might be on her way, as I had what looked like pinkish cm last night and today. Who knows....I was really hoping this was it!

 

[crysshae]

Could I please join?

I am so sorry for everyone's losses. I had a natural miscarriage beginning 6/17/13 at 5 weeks. I am now waiting on AF so we can start trying again next month. Fingers crossed all of us get our rainbow babies very very soon!

 

[Kasey84]

Welcome crysshea and sorry for your loss

 

[EarthMama]

Welcome new arrivals. I am in the two week wait. I'm 2,000 miles from home so I was very relaxed about TTC this cycle. We only did the deed 3 times. To be honest I hardly care, no more stressing over TTC for me. If it happens awesome! If not, oh well.

 

[Nimyra]

I've been quiet here because my laptop charger broke so its not so tempting to be on BnB on my phone... Should get a new one in the mail soon. I interviewed for a new job this week and have been busy stressing about that instead on ttc. In many ways a nice distraction.

This month won't be a proper attempt anyway since my mini vacation will interfere. I'll make an attempt but can't go overboard.

I'm still having random pains and concerned about cysts. I'm taking a break from soy to let that settle down.

Also I have a consultation set up for late July with a fertility clinic just to discuss options.

Babydust and healing prayers to you all.

 

[Kasey84]

So AF came today. I'm feeling so discouraged! Not sure how long I can keep this up without going mad I'm starting to get concerned that something may be wrong. Thinking maybe a visit to my doctor is in order!

Earthmama- good luck in the tww! So glad your feeling more relaxed about ttc.

Nimyra- hope you get the new job! Have you talked to your doctor about the pain?

 

[crysshae]

I'm sorry AF got you, Kasey. Fingers crossed this is your month.

 

[LucyLake]

Welcome crysshae and wbee! I'm so sorry for your losses.

EarthMama: I love your plan!! I have also been more relaxed this month, I just needed to know how my charts look and get used to the OPK's. I hope you have a great vacay!!

Nimyra: ohhhh sorry to hear about your computer!! . Awesome news about your interview, I love it 333333. I also love your more relaxed approach this month huge hugs

Kasey84: I'm so sorry AF got you, 33333. I know it's annoying, but I wonder if you could try temping next month just to give you peace of mind that you ovulate regularly. I wanted to take a more relaxed approach and quit charting, but my OB said do it in case 1 yr passes so they know where to start if something is wrong. It's helped me so much to know I'm o'ing in these long days of waiting because I feel like a failure if that makes any sense!! Huge hugs and hope you get your BFP very soon.

I'm waiting to test currently and will hold on until day 28 this time if I can make it!! Hugs everyone!

 

[Kasey84]

Welcome crysshae and wbee! I'm so sorry for your losses.

EarthMama: I love your plan!! I have also been more relaxed this month, I just needed to know how my charts look and get used to the OPK's. I hope you have a great vacay!!

Nimyra: ohhhh sorry to hear about your computer!! . Awesome news about your interview, I love it 333333. I also love your more relaxed approach this month huge hugs

Kasey84: I'm so sorry AF got you, 33333. I know it's annoying, but I wonder if you could try temping next month just to give you peace of mind that you ovulate regularly. I wanted to take a more relaxed approach and quit charting, but my OB said do it in case 1 yr passes so they know where to start if something is wrong. It's helped me so much to know I'm o'ing in these long days of waiting because I feel like a failure if that makes any sense!! Huge hugs and hope you get your BFP very soon.

I'm waiting to test currently and will hold on until day 28 this time if I can make it!! Hugs everyone!

Thanks Lucylake
I did try temping last cycle, but to be honest I wasn't as committed to it as I should have been. I'm taking it more seriously this month and making sure I do it every morning at the exact same time! I'm debating buying more opks to use as well. Like you I wish I could take a more relaxed approach, but at the same time I feel like I need to have the information from charting in case we need medical help. We've been 14 months ttc with just one BFP that ended in mc

What cd are you on now? Hope you get your BFP this month!

 

[LucyLake]

Welcome crysshae and wbee! I'm so sorry for your losses.

EarthMama: I love your plan!! I have also been more relaxed this month, I just needed to know how my charts look and get used to the OPK's. I hope you have a great vacay!!

Nimyra: ohhhh sorry to hear about your computer!! . Awesome news about your interview, I love it 333333. I also love your more relaxed approach this month huge hugs

Kasey84: I'm so sorry AF got you, 33333. I know it's annoying, but I wonder if you could try temping next month just to give you peace of mind that you ovulate regularly. I wanted to take a more relaxed approach and quit charting, but my OB said do it in case 1 yr passes so they know where to start if something is wrong. It's helped me so much to know I'm o'ing in these long days of waiting because I feel like a failure if that makes any sense!! Huge hugs and hope you get your BFP very soon.

I'm waiting to test currently and will hold on until day 28 this time if I can make it!! Hugs everyone!

Thanks Lucylake
I did try temping last cycle, but to be honest I wasn't as committed to it as I should have been. I'm taking it more seriously this month and making sure I do it every morning at the exact same time! I'm debating buying more opks to use as well. Like you I wish I could take a more relaxed approach, but at the same time I feel like I need to have the information from charting in case we need medical help. We've been 14 months ttc with just one BFP that ended in mc

What cd are you on now? Hope you get your BFP this month!

I'm on cycle day 7, day 20. . Trying to wait for day 28 if I can...

That is so awesome!! I'm glad you're temping, I know it's annoying though! My chart this month was a little all over the place especially early in the month. I would take it when I woke up and if that was 4:00 am and I needed to pee, I'd temp anyway. But, you'll still get an idea of when the ovulation pattern happens either which way...there were some days I temped at 5 or 6 am too. Big hugs and really hoping you get your BFP

 

[karenh]

I've been quiet here because my laptop charger broke so its not so tempting to be on BnB on my phone... Should get a new one in the mail soon. I interviewed for a new job this week and have been busy stressing about that instead on ttc. In many ways a nice distraction.

This month won't be a proper attempt anyway since my mini vacation will interfere. I'll make an attempt but can't go overboard.

I'm still having random pains and concerned about cysts. I'm taking a break from soy to let that settle down.

Also I have a consultation set up for late July with a fertility clinic just to discuss options.

Babydust and healing prayers to you all.

Good luck with your appointment! I hope they can help you.

 

[karenh]

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[george83]

Welcome new arrivals. I am in the two week wait. I'm 2,000 miles from home so I was very relaxed about TTC this cycle. We only did the deed 3 times. To be honest I hardly care, no more stressing over TTC for me. If it happens awesome! If not, oh well.

Maybe this cycle will surprise you earth and and it will be your lucky one! The amount of times I've heard people say that they'd been trying and then when they stopped trying it happened, keeping my fingers crossed for you x x

 

[george83]

So AF came today. I'm feeling so discouraged! Not sure how long I can keep this up without going mad I'm starting to get concerned that something may be wrong. Thinking maybe a visit to my doctor is in order!

Sorry af got you sweetie I was feeling pretty hopefully for you this cycle, I know it's way easier said than done but keep thinking positive it will happen off you I know x x

 

[george83]

I've been quiet here because my laptop charger broke so its not so tempting to be on BnB on my phone... Should get a new one in the mail soon. I interviewed for a new job this week and have been busy stressing about that instead on ttc. In many ways a nice distraction.

This month won't be a proper attempt anyway since my mini vacation will interfere. I'll make an attempt but can't go overboard.

I'm still having random pains and concerned about cysts. I'm taking a break from soy to let that settle down.

Also I have a consultation set up for late July with a fertility clinic just to discuss options.

Babydust and healing prayers to you all.

His did you get on with the new job? I'm glad you had some distraction for a while ttc is so full on it takes over everything.

I've just been told I have a cyst on one if my ovaries but the doctor was so laid back about it I didn't think to question it and now I've read nightmare stories thanks to dr google, if your worried I'd make an appointment to get checked out x x

 

[george83]

Hello everybody that I've missed I hope your all doing ok, Karen you still sound so amazingly positive even though your coping with so much I don't know how you do it, Lucy I'm really hoping this is your month has you had any signs yet?

To all the new members I'm so sorry you have to join this group but these ladies are amazing they got me through my darkest days

Baby dust to all of you x x x x x

 

[Kezmama]

I've been very quiet for awhile but still reading up on everyone..
In my TWW going to start testing in 2 days I'm currently 7 DPO!!! Feeling abit deflated at the moment it's now been 19 months and 4 miscarriages since we started trying for number 2 (((