2013 losses- rainbow baby making thread...

[sedgeez]

Sedgeez have you been to the dr about lack of AF?

no but i have an appointment monday. my mc was over a month now and i thought i would have had AF by now

hopefully its a rainbow

no harm in wishing!!

 

[Misscalais]

AF arrived three days ago ( 34 days post 1st day of MC ) and in full force! My goodness.
It's very heavy with lots and lots of clots, I'm glad it came and I didn't get preg this time because I'm thinking I didn't expel all the extra lining from the pregnancy ( I had hardly and clots or blood with my MC it was just like a normal period apart from passing tissue and the sac of course ) this AF is what I would have expected the MC to be like, it's awful.

 

[tlk71411]

Well husband left today. I had pains like o pains yesterday so fx we got lucky =)
Misscalais sorry AF got you but glad your body is getting rid of everything.
Sedgeez fx for you!!!

 

[twinmummy06]

i have alot to go through on here so if your one of the new ladies who arent on the list could you reply to this and let me know what month to put you down for

Me please. We have already started TTC, we've chosen not to wait for the first cycle or 3 like one doctor suggested. So I guess April/May as not sure when my body will O

 

[Kasey84]

sorry for not being on here. me and OH went away for the week and had no internet

i have alot to go through on here so if your one of the new ladies who arent on the list could you reply to this and let me know what month to put you down for

im sorry for all of your losses and i hope we get some soon

i want to take a test when i can because ive started getting some familiar symptoms but im not sure if its just my mind playing tricks on me

still no AF since MC either.

im going to go through all of the posts now. wish me luck!

Glad to see you back!! Hope you and OH had a wonderful trip together

 

[Sheffie]

Hi ladies, can I join you? I had a D&C 2 weeks ago - had a missed miscarriage at about 10 weeks. I'm hoping to start trying as soon as I get the all clear from my doctor. I finally stopped bleeding from the D&C about 4 days ago and FINALLY got to DTD today (I swear, I felt like it'd been forever).
I know we aren't suppose to try until I get my first AF post D&C but I figured I wouldn't be O'ing by now anyway so we just enjoyed getting to at least do it again. I am the most impatient person on the planet and waiting another month might just kill me...I hope we get lucky fast again this time! It took us two tries both time I got pregnant (once in Nov. and then again in Feb.) But I'm really hoping third times a charm!
Ok, so that is me - now I'm going to try to catch up on this thread!

 

[tlk71411]

Sorry for your loss Sheffie! My Dr said we could TTC as soon I stopped bleeding so I wouldn't stress over it.

 

[AwesomeSauce]

I keep having women, mostly older women liked mother in law, tell me that I keep losing babies because I haven't waited long enough to conceive after miscarriage. I don't believe it, and words like that aren't helpful. It makes me feel like it is my fault that I lost the second two.

 

[george83]

Sedgeez have you been to the dr about lack of AF?

no but i have an appointment monday. my mc was over a month now and i thought i would have had AF by now

hopefully its a rainbow

no harm in wishing!!

Fingers crossed its a rainbow! my af showed up yesterday and I feel like I've gone right back to when I lost my baby both physically and emotionally, why can't we all just be given our rainbows right now like surprise packages in the post x x

 

[Miniegg27]

Sedgeez have you been to the dr about lack of AF?

no but i have an appointment monday. my mc was over a month now and i thought i would have had AF by now

hopefully its a rainbow

no harm in wishing!!

Fingers firmly crossed for you!

 

[Sheffie]

I keep having women, mostly older women liked mother in law, tell me that I keep losing babies because I haven't waited long enough to conceive after miscarriage. I don't believe it, and words like that aren't helpful. It makes me feel like it is my fault that I lost the second two.

I'm sure they are just saying that to try to reassure you that you will be able to have a successful pregnancy with the right conditions... but really it sounds horrible! It would make me feel like they were blaming me. Some people just don't even think about what they are saying sometimes. Your body wouldn't get pregnant if it wasn't ready. These things happen. It is most definitely NOT your fault!

I've had two so far and all my mother keeps saying is "just don't even think about it for the next 6 months - give your body time to rest." I want to just that "not thinking about it" is not an option. Its not a choice.

And also, waiting 6 months sounds like absolute torture. I thrive on planning and temping and tracking and all that stuff. I like to be informed. I guess maybe that stresses some people out, but it gives me piece of mind even if we aren't successful.

 

[Sheffie]

Sedgeez have you been to the dr about lack of AF?

no but i have an appointment monday. my mc was over a month now and i thought i would have had AF by now

hopefully its a rainbow

no harm in wishing!!

Good luck!

 

[AwesomeSauce]

I keep having women, mostly older women liked mother in law, tell me that I keep losing babies because I haven't waited long enough to conceive after miscarriage. I don't believe it, and words like that aren't helpful. It makes me feel like it is my fault that I lost the second two.

I'm sure they are just saying that to try to reassure you that you will be able to have a successful pregnancy with the right conditions... but really it sounds horrible! It would make me feel like they were blaming me. Some people just don't even think about what they are saying sometimes. Your body wouldn't get pregnant if it wasn't ready. These things happen. It is most definitely NOT your fault!

I've had two so far and all my mother keeps saying is "just don't even think about it for the next 6 months - give your body time to rest." I want to just that "not thinking about it" is not an option. Its not a choice.

And also, waiting 6 months sounds like absolute torture. I thrive on planning and temping and tracking and all that stuff. I like to be informed. I guess maybe that stresses some people out, but it gives me piece of mind even if we aren't successful.

EXACTLY! It is nice to have someone who "gets" it. I don't know how to shut off my brain to TTC. I am not willing to torture myself by preventing pregnancy and trying to "relax" for six months. That would not be relaxing in the least to me. I want to know if my body is ovulating and that there is a chance for a healthy baby at some point.

 

[Miniegg27]

I'm very nervous but over the moon as I got a this morning. Fingers crossed this one stays with me.

I'm sending you all tons of

 

[Peacenik]

I'm very nervous but over the moon as I got a this morning. Fingers crossed this one stays with me.

I'm sending you all tons of

Congrats!!!!!!

 

[Sheffie]

I'm very nervous but over the moon as I got a this morning. Fingers crossed this one stays with me.

I'm sending you all tons of

Congrats!

 

[george83]

I'm very nervous but over the moon as I got a this morning. Fingers crossed this one stays with me.

I'm sending you all tons of

Wow!!!! Congratulations!!! I really hope this is a sticky little one, make sure you take extra special care of yourself, so exciting - and very jealous of course!!! x x

 

[shouse]

I'm very nervous but over the moon as I got a this morning. Fingers crossed this one stays with me.

I'm sending you all tons of

So excited for you!! A tad jealous though lol

 

[george83]

I'm very nervous but over the moon as I got a this morning. Fingers crossed this one stays with me.

I'm sending you all tons of

So excited for you!! A tad jealous though lol

A tad jealous sounds very modest - I'm full out jealous!!!

 

[Kasey84]

I'm very nervous but over the moon as I got a this morning. Fingers crossed this one stays with me.

I'm sending you all tons of

Congrats!! I love to see positive news, as it gives me hope All the best to you!