2013 losses- rainbow baby making thread...

[Neverending]

Awe so awesome!! Congrats!!!! I wish you the best we all deserve it! Try not and stress to much and love everyday you have with the bean. Easier said than done though!! Keep us updated.

 

[tlk71411]

Congrats miniegg!!!! I'm super happy for you and super jealous too haha. : )

 

[ece77]

Sorry for those who got their af, and good luck to those trying to catch that eggies!

And a HUGE congratulations to you miniegg! Try not to stress yourself too much.

AFM - Still waiting for AF. It's almost 4 weeks post d&c. But since I had a partial molar pregnancy, it may take a little more for my HCG to hit negative. So I'm just trying to stay positive. Wow, what a rhyme I made

 

[Miniegg27]

I'm sorry you're jealous. I truly believe it won't be long for you all. Some1 had to start it now hopefully you girls won't be far behind me.

 

[Sheffie]

So, quick question - can you ovulate two weeks after a D&C??
I have been temping since the D&C just to try to watch my temp go back to pre-preg/pre-ovulation range. DH and I DTD before he left town two days ago for the first time and didn't bother with protection because I figured it wouldn't matter this early, but then I got nervous and took an ovulation test. It was super duper positive. I was assuming that was from leftover preg hormones, but then I took another one today and it wasn't positive... My temp has been low (pre-ovulation range for me) for the past 4 days or so. If it jumps tomorrow, would that indicate that I actually ovulated this quickly??? I thought it took some time for the body to like, reset? It only stresses me cause the doctor told us to wait a cycle before trying... I just don't want to screw things up or anything.
Oye! It boggles my mind that people have babies without even trying...!

 

[Miniegg27]

I ovulated 3 and a half weeks after my d&c. It was lucky I caught it as I'd run out of ovulation tests and the day I got my new batch through I tested and it was positive!

 

[tlk71411]

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I keep having women, mostly older women liked mother in law, tell me that I keep losing babies because I haven't waited long enough to conceive after miscarriage. I don't believe it, and words like that aren't helpful. It makes me feel like it is my fault that I lost the second two.

I know EXACTLY how you feel. I had one idiot tell me i miscarried because I had just stopped breastfeeding....and another say because I was too stressed. Why do people say things that seriously do not help or make you feel better? They've done enough studies on how long to wait post mc and they say as soon as you are emotionally ready and have passed everything you're fine. I'm so sorry they are so heartless and make you feel like it's your fault. It definetely isnt your fault!!!

I'm very nervous but over the moon as I got a this morning. Fingers crossed this one stays with me.

I'm sending you all tons of

Oh Im soo jealous and excited for you!!! Congrats!!!

 

[Misscalais]

Congrats on the bfp. I hope it's a very sticky one.
I too am jealous but it's not a bad thing just cause I want mine so badly lol
Hopefully you've kicked off the start of BFPs

 

[twinmummy06]

I'm very nervous but over the moon as I got a this morning. Fingers crossed this one stays with me.

I'm sending you all tons of

Congratulations!

 

[tlk71411]

So, quick question - can you ovulate two weeks after a D&C??
I have been temping since the D&C just to try to watch my temp go back to pre-preg/pre-ovulation range. DH and I DTD before he left town two days ago for the first time and didn't bother with protection because I figured it wouldn't matter this early, but then I got nervous and took an ovulation test. It was super duper positive. I was assuming that was from leftover preg hormones, but then I took another one today and it wasn't positive... My temp has been low (pre-ovulation range for me) for the past 4 days or so. If it jumps tomorrow, would that indicate that I actually ovulated this quickly??? I thought it took some time for the body to like, reset? It only stresses me cause the doctor told us to wait a cycle before trying... I just don't want to screw things up or anything.
Oye! It boggles my mind that people have babies without even trying...!

My Dr told me we could TTC as soon as I stopped bleeding but I had a natural mc. I was told you can o as soon as 10 days post mc... I'm hoping so since I only had my 1 week with hubby to try!!

 

[mumofone25]

wow lots to catch up on, just got back from a nice break with OH, ds and another couple and their son had a fab relaxing time.

huge congrats on your BFP miniegg !!!!! xxx

 

[Raggydoll]

Wow, congratulation miniegg. I'm so pleased for you.

Mumofone, glad you had a lovely break.

I'm now sure I didn't ovulate last week. I had all the signs of ovulation this week and a very definite positive ov test yesterday. So I guess I'm in the 2ww now.

How is everyone else getting on?

 

[tlk71411]

My hpt is finally negative!! so any bfp I get from here on out will be real and not from my mc!

 

[Kasey84]

My hpt is finally negative!! so any bfp I get from here on out will be real and not from my mc!

That's good news! Best of luck to you and hope you get your BFP soon

 

[Miniegg27]

My hpt is finally negative!! so any bfp I get from here on out will be real and not from my mc!

Fingers crossed for you!

 

[Neverending]

Were on cd7!!! He had a loveley idea that when I'm pregnant next we were going to do pregnancy photos next to the tree we buried our angel with and our family photos will be there. We both were there today talking and planted some lilies aswell. Just hugged and didn't cry but had some tears. It was a good thing to not be sad but incorparate how this angel will be with us always and in our photos.

 

[Miniegg27]

That's a really lovely idea!

 

[Kasey84]

Were on cd7!!! He had a loveley idea that when I'm pregnant next we were going to do pregnancy photos next to the tree we buried our angel with and our family photos will be there. We both were there today talking and planted some lilies aswell. Just hugged and didn't cry but had some tears. It was a good thing to not be sad but incorparate how this angel will be with us always and in our photos.

That's a beautiful idea Neverending

 

[Sheffie]

Anyone else tired of hearing "at least you can drink now!" ??? Cause I am... I guess I'm just not as much of an alcoholic as some of my friends and family

 

[AwesomeSauce]

I think today MIT be my last day of mc bleeding. I hope. I wonder if I will o before Af?