2013 losses- rainbow baby making thread...

[Nina83]

Hello lovelies,
I was told last week our little bub had no heartbeat. 8 weeks, and it had stopped growing at 7+3. D&C scheduled for Sunday, and then we plan on TTC, ASAP.
Last night we started to DTD but I burst into tears. I hope that doesn't happen again.
Baby dust for everyone!

 

[tlk71411]

Hello lovelies,
I was told last week our little bub had no heartbeat. 8 weeks, and it had stopped growing at 7+3. D&C scheduled for Sunday, and then we plan on TTC, ASAP.
Last night we started to DTD but I burst into tears. I hope that doesn't happen again.
Baby dust for everyone!

Welcome hon...I'm so sorry for your loss.

 

[Kasey84]

Can i join? i had my BFP last wednesday but everyday after that was negative and blood test on monday confirmed this, so i had a chemical pregnancy just waiting for af to arrive now.

Welcome Hun. Sorry for your loss.

 

[Kasey84]

Hello lovelies,
I was told last week our little bub had no heartbeat. 8 weeks, and it had stopped growing at 7+3. D&C scheduled for Sunday, and then we plan on TTC, ASAP.
Last night we started to DTD but I burst into tears. I hope that doesn't happen again.
Baby dust for everyone!

Welcome. So sorry for you loss Hun. I remember being pretty emotional the first time we DTD after my MC. It may take some time, but it will get easier. Wishing you a speedy recovery after your D&C and lots of luck and baby dust when you are ready to ttc again

 

[Raggydoll]

Hello everyone.

Welcome ohthejoy and Nina. Sorry for your losses.

Just popping by with some x

 

[AwesomeSauce]

That is another reasoning has been two weeks. I can't bring myself to do it. It leads to so much loss and pain.

 

[Miniegg27]

Sorry for your loss. Welcome to the gang!

 

[Neverending]

Hey just want to vent for a second I am so mad today last night I got a bill fpr the pathology. I didn't even know they did so I went to the clinic today to demand the results. Low progesterone. That is not why I am mad though on the 5th of January I had a heavy bleed but it wasn't my mc because baby was still growing I asked for a blood draw to test that specific hormone because I knew it can cause early bleeding and my sister has had 4mc because of it. Well they denied me the blood draw said there is 101 things they can test but its not going to give me an answer and be happy my baby is still growing. Well I bleed again and asked for the draw again. I was denied. Come to find out that's the reason. I am so mad!!! I'm beyond mad I'm sad.

But today I'm 1 dpo and still cramping stupidly last night I couldn't sleep because whatever side I slept on would hurt my hip or pelvic area. Dont know what's going on scared we tried to soon when something is wrong down there.

 

[tlk71411]

Hey just want to vent for a second I am so mad today last night I got a bill fpr the pathology. I didn't even know they did so I went to the clinic today to demand the results. Low progesterone. That is not why I am mad though on the 5th of January I had a heavy bleed but it wasn't my mc because baby was still growing I asked for a blood draw to test that specific hormone because I knew it can cause early bleeding and my sister has had 4mc because of it. Well they denied me the blood draw said there is 101 things they can test but its not going to give me an answer and be happy my baby is still growing. Well I bleed again and asked for the draw again. I was denied. Come to find out that's the reason. I am so mad!!! I'm beyond mad I'm sad.

But today I'm 1 dpo and still cramping stupidly last night I couldn't sleep because whatever side I slept on would hurt my hip or pelvic area. Dont know what's going on scared we tried to soon when something is wrong down there.

OMG! I would be so angry!!! You should definately write a letter to the Manager/chief of staff. And probably get a different dr. I'm so sorry hon. As for the cramping/soreness you should probably just take a break. hubby and I dtd same day i stopped bleeding and I was def sore after. But if your worried maybe call your dr...or a new dr ha. hope you feel better hon

 

[LucyLake]

Hugs Neverending and hope all is okay.

I'm in the ovulation process and bled today 4 hours after sex, we had pulled out. Not normal still and was soooooooo mad I was missing April, but we've made up and he signed a contract that we'll try May.

 

[Neverending]

Sorry lucy what was the bleeding like?
I'm worried because the cramps feel like they did when I was pregnant. Only being pregnant is impossible I had a short period spotting for one day bleeding for three and spotting another day. I was so convinced I conceived and had a period I took a test after I stopped bleeding. Sounds crazy but I'm not a symptom spotter or pee on a stick addict but I just felt pregnant obviously not and still feel pregnant obvioisly not though.

 

[Neverending]

Well we just tried dtd and just stimulation hurt and we tried just a finger and I had to make him stop hurt inside and the left side of my back and now I feel like I'm going to throw up and feel pressure and cramps so this is just frickin great.

 

[AwesomeSauce]

So sorry neverending. I would for sure go have that checked out. It doesn't sound normal at all to me. It sounds like there is something going on.

I probably jumped the gun, but I started opk's yesterday. As expected they are neg, but I need to know if/when I o kwim.

 

[tlk71411]

Well we just tried dtd and just stimulation hurt and we tried just a finger and I had to make him stop hurt inside and the left side of my back and now I feel like I'm going to throw up and feel pressure and cramps so this is just frickin great.

You definitely need to get that checked out girl!!

 

[Neverending]

I have an appoinment tomorrow I also have acne which I never have aside from a couple days before my period

 

[Raggydoll]

Sorry you're having a difficult time never ending. I hope your appointment goes well tomorrow.

 

[Kasey84]

Thinking of you Neverending and hoping you get some answers at your appointment tomorrow.

 

[Neverending]

Thanks to be honest I'm scared as hell. I feel exactly how I did when I was pregnant and the whole pregnancy wasn't good. I know I'm not pregnant its just scary feeling how I did again.

 

[Hippielove]

Can you add me May/June please

 

[LucyLake]

Sorry lucy what was the bleeding like?
I'm worried because the cramps feel like they did when I was pregnant. Only being pregnant is impossible I had a short period spotting for one day bleeding for three and spotting another day. I was so convinced I conceived and had a period I took a test after I stopped bleeding. Sounds crazy but I'm not a symptom spotter or pee on a stick addict but I just felt pregnant obviously not and still feel pregnant obvioisly not though.

3 Tiny Drops visible on panties

I feel Like I'll never heal.

Let us know how you do with the doctor, I'm so hopeful that April is your month sweetie