2013 losses- rainbow baby making thread...

[twinmummy06]

Mine told me to wait 3 months - but we didnt/won't be. We have stopped TTC as of a almost 2 weeks ago though, because then we found out about the small risk of partial molar, but hopefully will get the all clear from that in a week or so and continue TTC.

 

[AwesomeSauce]

How long did you bleed or spot after mc?

After how long did you get a neg pregnancy test?

 

[Nimyra]

Mowat, I waited one cycle.

 

[Hippielove]

How long did you bleed or spot after mc?

After how long did you get a neg pregnancy test?

5 days of bleeding and 4 days of spotting for me.

And since I did not want to see a second line, have one more hcg level check Friday.

 

[Cryssie]

My doctor said to wait six months but that's not happening. We waited until after i got my first period.

 

[LucyLake]

How long did you bleed or spot after mc?

After how long did you get a neg pregnancy test?

Awesome Sauce, I miscarried via misoprostol on Feb 28...

My HGC Levels were 11 on March 21

I had my first AF on March 31.

I had slight spotting during Ovulation in March AND April.

We are going to try after my second AF...long story but my husband and I finally agreed on things. We're starting May 1--or right after the bleeding stops on the next period.

I'm sorry for your loss

 

[AwesomeSauce]

Ok. Good to know. A frer is still bfp and I am still spotting at 20 days. It should have been an "easy" miscarriage if such a thing exists. 6 weeks 3 days blighted ovum that started naturally. I did not expect this.

 

[LucyLake]

Ok. Good to know. A frer is still bfp and I am still spotting at 20 days. It should have been an "easy" miscarriage if such a thing exists. 6 weeks 3 days blighted ovum that started naturally. I did not expect this.

I know exactly how you feel. I didn't expect the physical process to be so long and drawn out as I was only 8 weeks and 10 weeks when I had the miscarriage induced with misoprostol. I still don't feel 100% and am luckily off today. I'm sore at times down there.

 

[karenh]

Twinmummy: I am sorry your HCG is taking so long to go down. Mine too two and a half months. I hope you are done soon. Good luck.

Cryssie: I hope you caught it and this is it for you!

Nowat: I have been battling infertility so I am a little different than most people here. I am under the care of an RE. I had methotrexate do to my ectopic in January. My RE isn’t letting my try again until May. My 5th IUI will be May 4th. I am pretty sure the only reason that I have to wait that long though is because of the medication. Before it was determined I had to have the methotrexate he was going to let me try as soon as I got my cycle. I hope that helps a little.

AwesomeSauce: I agree… I can’t believe how long it takes to recover and get through the loss. I hope you are negative soon, it is so draining.

 

[AwesomeSauce]

You would think that I am a pro at this after two previous losses, but I still held out hope that it would be easier this time. I just hope there isn't any other bad reason I am still spotting, but it sounds like others experience this and it is normal even after very early loss.

 

[tlk71411]

Hi ladies. Just recovering from my second miscarriage so I thought I'd join this super positive thread. So sorry there are so many of us in the same position.

I noticed there are a few ladies trying right away---has anyone been told that's okay by there doctor? Just curious as mine said to wait one cycle. Don't know if I can wait though!

My Dr told me I could try as soon as I stopped bleeding. I miscarried at 6weeks 2days. baby measured at 5 weeks 4 days. I had a natural miscarriage, and from what I understand it depends on if you have a natural/d&c or the pills they give you to help expel everything-not positive what those are called. My husband and I did not wait but I dont know if I'm prego or not

How long did you bleed or spot after mc?

After how long did you get a neg pregnancy test?

I only bled for 8 days. I passed the actual baby 6 days after mc started, and bled for 2 days after. I tested every 3 days for a negative, and my tests finally went negative at 3 weeks post mc.

Welcome to the new ladies and I'm so sorry for your losses

 

[mumofone25]

How long did you bleed or spot after mc?

After how long did you get a neg pregnancy test?

i started bleeding the 23rd march, passed the pregnancy the 24th and had stopped bleeding defiantly by the 30th (cant remember the exact date now) tested neg on the 2nd or 3rd april xxx

 

[Cryssie]

Ok. Good to know. A frer is still bfp and I am still spotting at 20 days. It should have been an "easy" miscarriage if such a thing exists. 6 weeks 3 days blighted ovum that started naturally. I did not expect this.

I had a bo. Had to have a d&c February 20th. I bled for 2.5 days then spotted off and on for two more days. I was almost 10 weeks when i had it done.

 

[mumofone25]

Hi ladies. Just recovering from my second miscarriage so I thought I'd join this super positive thread. So sorry there are so many of us in the same position.

I noticed there are a few ladies trying right away---has anyone been told that's okay by there doctor? Just curious as mine said to wait one cycle. Don't know if I can wait though!

sorry for your loss... i asked the dr and she said i could start straight away but they recommend one cycle as after the mc you may o late making it harder to date the pregnancy. my mc was natural and pretty quick. xx

 

[mowat]

Thanks for the opinions guys---I think we're going to go for it right away (although I told the doctor today we wouldn't try too hard!). It's been a week and the bleeding seems to be tapering a bit so I'm hopeful this will be over soon.

Have you had a follow up ultrasound Awesome?

 

[AwesomeSauce]

I haven't.
I am planning to test with frer again in the morning and if it is bfp I will go in.

 

[MissyMo120]

Hello ladies!
I haven't been on here a lot lately. A lot has happened over the past month. As I mentioned before my daughter was born sleeping Jan 20 at 38 weeks. 6 weeks later my kids grandfather passed away. March 30th my sister who was only 38 lost her battle with cancer. So it has been a crazy few months to say the least!
Dh and I decided to keep track of my cycle to see IF I am Oing. I got a +OPK on CD19 which I thought was late, but never had the signs of O. Well yesterday I would have been 9DPO according the the OPK, so thought, what the heck, lets test, even tho I know it will come up -. Well there was a faint line. So took another one, another faint line, I show DH and he doesn't believe it as we have never used internet cheapies. So I head to work, buy FRER and Clearblue digital. Take both tests at work, and got 2 BFPs!!! I am so excited, but not scared, which I thought I would be! I went yesterday and did my blood work so hoping for all good results!!
We did the SMEP even tho I hadn't thought I had O'd. I guess it really does work!! Now to try to catch up on everyone else!

 

[karenh]

Hello ladies!
I haven't been on here a lot lately. A lot has happened over the past month. As I mentioned before my daughter was born sleeping Jan 20 at 38 weeks. 6 weeks later my kids grandfather passed away. March 30th my sister who was only 38 lost her battle with cancer. So it has been a crazy few months to say the least!
Dh and I decided to keep track of my cycle to see IF I am Oing. I got a +OPK on CD19 which I thought was late, but never had the signs of O. Well yesterday I would have been 9DPO according the the OPK, so thought, what the heck, lets test, even tho I know it will come up -. Well there was a faint line. So took another one, another faint line, I show DH and he doesn't believe it as we have never used internet cheapies. So I head to work, buy FRER and Clearblue digital. Take both tests at work, and got 2 BFPs!!! I am so excited, but not scared, which I thought I would be! I went yesterday and did my blood work so hoping for all good results!!
We did the SMEP even tho I hadn't thought I had O'd. I guess it really does work!! Now to try to catch up on everyone else!

Wow, I am so sorry for the year you have had. I can't even imagine all the loss and sorrow. Congrats on your BFP! This is just what you need! I pray this one sticks and you have a happy and health 9 months!

 

[AwesomeSauce]

CONGRATS Missimo!!

WeLl, I tested again, and it was still faintly bfp...even more faint than Monday's test. I called my midwife and she said she would give me a scan if I want for peace of mind, but she thinks my body is just taking its sweet time to regulate. She isn't concerned about the prolonged spotting either. She said after a miscarriage the cervix is tender and prone to spotting. I am going to give it until Monday and test again for bfn. Thos life of forever limbo SUCKS.

 

[LucyLake]

Hello ladies!
I haven't been on here a lot lately. A lot has happened over the past month. As I mentioned before my daughter was born sleeping Jan 20 at 38 weeks. 6 weeks later my kids grandfather passed away. March 30th my sister who was only 38 lost her battle with cancer. So it has been a crazy few months to say the least!
Dh and I decided to keep track of my cycle to see IF I am Oing. I got a +OPK on CD19 which I thought was late, but never had the signs of O. Well yesterday I would have been 9DPO according the the OPK, so thought, what the heck, lets test, even tho I know it will come up -. Well there was a faint line. So took another one, another faint line, I show DH and he doesn't believe it as we have never used internet cheapies. So I head to work, buy FRER and Clearblue digital. Take both tests at work, and got 2 BFPs!!! I am so excited, but not scared, which I thought I would be! I went yesterday and did my blood work so hoping for all good results!!
We did the SMEP even tho I hadn't thought I had O'd. I guess it really does work!! Now to try to catch up on everyone else!

I'm smiling ear to ear!! Knowing you got a Clearblue makes it so much more real! You deserve this so much and I just also wanted to say sorry for your losses recently. I also love that you aren't scared and pray that all of us have the same experience. Huge hugs and enormous congrats!

AwesomeSauce, hope you get a soon