2013 losses- rainbow baby making thread...

[LucyLake]

Dang Lucy, peak fertility already!!

Good luck catching that egg!!

Nimyra, I know WTH is all I can say!! Smiley with no blinking!

I love your action plan, the benefits of soy seem to really work! I will move to that next month if needed. I hope this is our month!!

My husband just got home and I cooked a huge dinner for him. Now, if I can get our son to bed on time, I feel so bad that I'm bribing this poor child with going to the Apple and Lego Store tomorrow so mom can have sex!!!

Huge hugs Nimyra, hope today was good to you

 

[karenh]

TTC May/June

Lost my twins earlier this year, one due to miscarriage the other was entopic. I lost my left tube entirely so its been a process to try.

Hoping to get a BFP soon.

I am so sorry for the loss of your two little ones and your tube. I hope you get your rainbow baby soon.

 

[Nimyra]

Bribery is good, Lucy! Now get to work (BD)!

:babydust:

 

[Kezmama]

I feel the same about getting my 2 year old into bed so we can BD lol x good luck all those ladies for this weekend and congrats to those who got their BFP xxxxx

 

[Raggydoll]

Hi Everyone, hope you're all well?

Lucy, Unfortunately there are no scans until 12 weeks on the NHS, unless there is a bleeding/severe pain.

Jack is very sweet, I have a nephew of the same age. He's so much fun.

Cryssie, congratulations on your positive. Wishing you a happy and healthy pregnancy. Are you due February?

KatS, I hope you get a positive Friday. I'm keeping everything crossed for you.

Nimyra, sorry AF arrived. Lots of luck for this cycle.

Utahutesgal, sorry for your loss, welcome to te group.

I had a midwife appointment yesterday, I didn't get to see my midwife as she was sick. I got to see a lovely student (hope to see her again) and a scary stand in midwife. The were very reassuring about remaining positive though. I've got to see my actual midwife in a couple of weeks when she returns.

 

[karenh]

Hi Everyone, hope you're all well?

Lucy, Unfortunately there are no scans until 12 weeks on the NHS, unless there is a bleeding/severe pain.

Jack is very sweet, I have a nephew of the same age. He's so much fun.

Cryssie, congratulations on your positive. Wishing you a happy and healthy pregnancy. Are you due February?

KatS, I hope you get a positive Friday. I'm keeping everything crossed for you.

Nimyra, sorry AF arrived. Lots of luck for this cycle.

Utahutesgal, sorry for your loss, welcome to te group.

I had a midwife appointment yesterday, I didn't get to see my midwife as she was sick. I got to see a lovely student (hope to see her again) and a scary stand in midwife. The were very reassuring about remaining positive though. I've got to see my actual midwife in a couple of weeks when she returns.

I can't believe you have to wait until twelve weeks, I would go insane thinking of all the things that could be wrong. I am so sorry. Hang in there!

 

[PeachDaisy]

We are FINALLY TTC again as of June 1st Eek! Fingers crossed it will go better than last time and we have a healthy pregnancy. to all you other ladies TTC also!!

 

[TS1]

Hello,
It's my first time on any chat forum and I am looking for some advice. I have had two miracle sons and I have now had two miscarriages, the first on 13 August 2012 at 7 weeks, the second on 1 March 2013 at 20 weeks. At my scan at 20 weeks they couldn't find my sons heartbeat and we found out 8 weeks later it was to due to a placenta malfunction. It was devastating having to deliver him as I had got over my previous miscarriage by fortunately getting pregnant again. Now All I want is to get pregnant again however I have no idea when I am ovulating due to such an irregular cycle. I have test kits now but don't even know when to try, I have so many questions and so much pain. Test results show I have NK killer cells which reject emryo's and I am high risk and have to take a concoction of drugs including steroids, which obviously have huge side-effects, to apparently hold on to my next pregnancy. Is anyone else in this position that can share with me? My late miscarriage has left me in free-fall, not a day goes by without thinking about it and I've now given up a successful career and would rather not leave the house. I would welcome your opinions and experiences. I would just like to find another rainbow. Thank you.

 

[EarthMama]

Well everyone, I've done all I can. Now on to the agonizing 2 week wait! Good luck ladies who are ovulating! Get 'er done...lol.

 

[Nimyra]

Hello,
It's my first time on any chat forum and I am looking for some advice. I have had two miracle sons and I have now had two miscarriages, the first on 13 August 2012 at 7 weeks, the second on 1 March 2013 at 20 weeks. At my scan at 20 weeks they couldn't find my sons heartbeat and we found out 8 weeks later it was to due to a placenta malfunction. It was devastating having to deliver him as I had got over my previous miscarriage by fortunately getting pregnant again. Now All I want is to get pregnant again however I have no idea when I am ovulating due to such an irregular cycle. I have test kits now but don't even know when to try, I have so many questions and so much pain. Test results show I have NK killer cells which reject emryo's and I am high risk and have to take a concoction of drugs including steroids, which obviously have huge side-effects, to apparently hold on to my next pregnancy. Is anyone else in this position that can share with me? My late miscarriage has left me in free-fall, not a day goes by without thinking about it and I've now given up a successful career and would rather not leave the house. I would welcome your opinions and experiences. I would just like to find another rainbow. Thank you.

Sweetie, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss and health challenges. What are your doctors advising at this point?

I can understand feeling like you are free-falling and also having sacrificed a career for hoping to have a larger family. It all comes together with with the grief. And having health challenges in addition... that's heart-breaking.

Are you getting any emotional support from family, friends, or a grief counselor to help you through this time?

For me, I'm just chugging along at this point. If I have another loss I will probably stop trying though and move on to adoption. The loss was so hard to handle.

Sending my thoughts and prayers your way.

 

[karenh]

PeachDaisy: Yay! I am excited for you to be able to ttc again. I hope this month is your month!

TS1: I am so sorry for your loss. Words can’t describe the pain you must be feeling. Take time to grieve and take care of yourself. We are here for you.

Earthmama: Good luck!

AFM: I started a second job yesterday because we could really use the extra cash. Now I am exhausted and will probably be all summer. Oh well, I can make it.

 

[bluestars]

Hoping for a May/June ,
Good luck Ladies

 

[george83]

Hoping for a May/June ,
Good luck Ladies

Fingers crossed for you! Hope you don't have a long wait x x

 

[george83]

AFM: I started a second job yesterday because we could really use the extra cash. Now I am exhausted and will probably be all summer. Oh well, I can make it.

Bless you Karen, my oh had 2 jobs a while back and it really did exhaust him, make sure you take it easy, you need all the rest you can get to catch your baby! x x

 

[george83]

I had a midwife appointment yesterday, I didn't get to see my midwife as she was sick. I got to see a lovely student (hope to see her again) and a scary stand in midwife. The were very reassuring about remaining positive though. I've got to see my actual midwife in a couple of weeks when she returns.

I'm glad you had a good first appointment even if it wasn't with your actual midwife, it certainly makes it seem much more real x x

 

[george83]

We are FINALLY TTC again as of June 1st Eek! Fingers crossed it will go better than last time and we have a healthy pregnancy. to all you other ladies TTC also!!

Good luck! I hope everything goes well for you! x x

 

[george83]

Hello,
It's my first time on any chat forum and I am looking for some advice. I have had two miracle sons and I have now had two miscarriages, the first on 13 August 2012 at 7 weeks, the second on 1 March 2013 at 20 weeks. At my scan at 20 weeks they couldn't find my sons heartbeat and we found out 8 weeks later it was to due to a placenta malfunction. It was devastating having to deliver him as I had got over my previous miscarriage by fortunately getting pregnant again. Now All I want is to get pregnant again however I have no idea when I am ovulating due to such an irregular cycle. I have test kits now but don't even know when to try, I have so many questions and so much pain. Test results show I have NK killer cells which reject emryo's and I am high risk and have to take a concoction of drugs including steroids, which obviously have huge side-effects, to apparently hold on to my next pregnancy. Is anyone else in this position that can share with me? My late miscarriage has left me in free-fall, not a day goes by without thinking about it and I've now given up a successful career and would rather not leave the house. I would welcome your opinions and experiences. I would just like to find another rainbow. Thank you.

Sweetie, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss and health challenges. What are your doctors advising at this point?

I can understand feeling like you are free-falling and also having sacrificed a career for hoping to have a larger family. It all comes together with with the grief. And having health challenges in addition... that's heart-breaking.

Are you getting any emotional support from family, friends, or a grief counselor to help you through this time?

For me, I'm just chugging along at this point. If I have another loss I will probably stop trying though and move on to adoption. The loss was so hard to handle.

Sending my thoughts and prayers your way.

I was going to write a reply but nimyra summed it up beautifully, I hope your doing ok, I can not imagine the pain of a late loss, I hope you have people around you to look after you

 

[george83]

Hello to everybody else that I've missed, I haven't been on for a while and so much has happened I can't believe how quick everything moves on! I hope your all doing ok and sending lots of baby dust and good luck over everybody x x x

 

[bluestars]

came today! hopefully June will be the lucky month now! xxx

 

[Raggydoll]

Hoping for a May/June ,
Good luck Ladies

sending you lots of luck TTC. I hope you get your bfp soon.