Poor kitty!! Will you be taking your temps this time? I found it was very easy and we were successful on our 1st month ttc. You will know for sure when you ovulate then, but also use opks as well, since the temp only shows after you o'd. Me and my dh also got those lil temporary baby dust tattoos, and i put mine on my left ovary side and he put his in the same spot on him. How bout i o'd from that side too lol. Ironic i know, but hey, whatever works lol.. Symptom spotting is the easiest thing to do lol.. I knew something was up, but wasnt quiet sure, when I came down with a cold right after conception (of course i didnt know at the time that I conceived). I felt so bad that I called into work, which I NEVER do.. I told my DH that day, I never get sick so maybe our bd paid off. Good luck and lots of baby dust and prayers your way!!