38 and TTC first baby, anyone else?

Skweek, Ah nice that you got to come here for a holiday! I paid about R200, I've never seen them anywhere else though, it was unusual to see, I got a few boxes. If you don't come right, let me know, I'll be happy to courier you some :)
 
Hi ladies,

Hope everyone is well. Last two weeks have been thoroughly crazy. We have left our home now and heading to the UK but not until August 18th. We are currently traveling all over-literally- visiting with family. CD 10 today so we are starting the marathon. Kind of weird to have to do it in my partner's childhood room...:wacko:

I haven't had time to follow everyone's post. Welcome to the new ones!

Tui, I am thinking of you and hope you are feeling much much better. Big hug.

Cheers to everyone!
 
Thanks gonimi, I'm good actually. Raring to go at cd6 ! Hope I get a little eggy this month. I've started a journal too so I can blather away.

I hope you manage to stay sane with all the travelling around. You will just have to make bd fun. Has DH got an old tree house you can hide in? lol.
 
Hi Everyone!

Gonimi, so many people conceive while on holiday, this could be your cycle! Being distracted with your travels might just do the trick!

Tui, its nice to see you, you sound good. I hope you catch that eggy!!

AFM, on 12 DPO. Been sleeping lots, don’t know if its something or a bit of depression. Anxious for Saturday to arrive, that’s when AF is due. Had some twinges in my lower abdomen last week, but just about nothing this week, no other signs. I’ve been tracking O by CM and phone app, I think I should get some OPK next week. How does that work? When you get a positive you start BDing? But isn’t it too late by then?

Buckets and buckets of :dust: for everyone!!

xxx
 
Hi ladies!!

I feel like I have been away forever. I have a lot of catching up to do.

Tui - I am glad you are recovering phyiscally and mentally from such a trying time. Bummed you are back in this stupid cycle monitoring with us, though! I hope you have luck again very quickly! :hugs:

OviesSpermies - Welcome to our lovely group! Hopefully, you will have some luck soon. I sincerely hope that AF stays away. Saturday isn't too far away now - although everyday in the TWW seems like an eternity.

Gonimi - Good luck catching the egg on your crazy traveling journey!! fingers crossed that your move goes smoothly and that your travels are enjoyable in the meantime.

Skweek - Maybe AF won't catch you this time around. I'm sorry to hear that you didn't get the house you wanted. That's always such a let down - especially when you get to thinking about how you would arrange your house and what your life would be like in a particular place. Hope you can find something else you like soon and maybe you won't have to rent.

Nikki - Hope this TWW flies by for you. I always hate that time the worst but this past one for me wasn't too bad. Maybe I'm just getting more used to them. :(

Lola - I hear you - TTC has made me wish I could get my 20-something ovaries back (not that time in my life though). It's such a shame that for those of us who waited, got our life in order and then decided to have children that we have such a time getting pregnant. I feel like we are being punished for being responsible. Maybe this cycle will be our lucky one - glad to hear that your doctor's appointment went well and that things look normal for you!

Hattie - DH and I are just one cycle behind you. When we first started, I just assumed it would happen right away. Ugh - I don't know how women deal with this for years and years. Much stronger than I am, I guess. Hopefully, we will have some luck soon!

L.Ann.V - Welcome to our lovely group! IVF does seem awful scary but I guess it all depends on how badly you want a child. Some women seem to sail through it and then it seems like others have a hard time. I guess it is a so very personal. I would guess that once you have a baby in your arms, it would all seem so worth it. But it's the unknown that makes it scary. You will certainly have our support if it's what you decide to do!

As for me - things have been so crazy and hectic. We had family staying with us for just over a week. That certainly impacted our timing this last cycle and the only day we got in was 2 days prior to ovulation (which is a good day to BD) but it certainly wasn't enough. Therefore, AF showed her ugly face today. Oh well - I knew she was coming so I guess it wasn't all that disappointing.

DH and I had quite the scare this past weekend. He is a wildland firefighter (fights wildfires) and was out fighting a fire on Saturday when he came down with severe dehydration. His actual diagnosis was rhabdomyolysis. It's when your muscle tissue starts breaking down. In any case, he ended up in the hospital overnight and had to be treated with 7 liters of IV fluids. If he hadn't come in when he did, it could have gotten very serious and led to serious kidney issues. He is much, much better now but must take it easy for awhile and pay close attention in the future. I was driving home from running a half-marathon when he texted me he was on his way to the hospital - not the kind of thing you want to see! It could have been way worse but it was still a scary experience.

Anyway - I guess we are onto cycle 8. I have an appointment with an OB/GYN tomorrow to see if there is anything going on internally that could be preventing pregnancy. I'll keep you posted how it goes.

Hope everyone is doing well!!
 
Thanks honey.

Glad DH is ok, gosh you must have been so worried. Mine is off skiing next weekend on a work trip-he's never been before! Aaaaargghh.

Good luck at you appointment x
 
YAY YAY its Thursday! Means end of my working week and start of my weekend!! Just 2 working days next week then off for 6 weeks!

Booger - Sorry to hear AF got you. Hope your OH is feeling much better!
How did the doctors appointment go?

AFM - lying here with really bad cramps! I have not missed these cramps! Just waiting for AF to start now. Thinking of temping and using OPK's this month to see what is happening.
Really looking forward to Saturday - my pain injection! Then pain free for (FXed) 6 months! Hopefully get BFP in that time and then pregnancy hormones will keep the pain away for a bit longer!!

Hope everyone has a really good weekend!
 
AF has well and truely hit me today! Cramps only eased earlier this afternoon.
 
Sorry Af got you girls.. when will we get a nice BFP in this thread??
Booger, glad your dh is ok ! That's scary..
Not much to report here, still waiting for the doctor to talk to me about the results I sent him.. probably monday..
I'm o'ing like now, so yay for naked time LOL
we all come from cool places, we should do a post card crossing, or better : CANDIES ;)
 
Hi ladies!

Skweek - Sorry to hear your cramps are so bad. That stinks. Glad to hear that your shot is this weekend so you guys can get into the TTC all the way. Exciting to have things moving in the right direction!

Lola33 - Naked time! That made me laugh. Good luck catching the egg this cycle. Can't wait to hear what your doctor has to say.

Tui - Oh man. We had an awesome winter here for skiing but that seems so long ago now that we are sitting here sweating in the hot, hot summer sun. I hope your husband has a grand time. I did a little happy hour river float with some of my lady friends last night - that was super fun. Think we might do it again next week. Anything to escape the heat. How are you doing?

How is everyone else doing??

Well, my doctor's appointment went well, I suppose. I really liked the doctor and that's always helpful.

She did a pelvic exam and a vaginal ultrasound. My uterus and cervix look good. My ovaries, well, there were only 5-6 follicles on each side. She had a hard time seeing what was going on on my right ovary as I apparently have a small cyst(s). She is not too concerned about them right now as they are pretty small. We are going to do another ultrasound next month to see if anything has changed. She didn't seem to think that they were interfering with ovulation.

We scheduled an HSG for Monday. I'll know then if there is something going on with my tubes.

DH semen analysis was good. There was one number she was going to follow up with a urologist about to make sure it was okay but other than that, things are good on his end - which is a relief!

Basically, I think we are going to try a couple cycles of Clomid and then it seems like we need to decide on IVF. She didn't think messing around with IUIs was going to do a whole lot for me based on my ovarian reserve.

So now DH and I have to decide what to do. Originally we said that if we couldn't conceive naturally then we wouldn't do anything else. However, in the last year, I've decided I really, really want to be a mother. Our main issue is that the closest IVF clinic is between 4-6 hours away from where we live so this is not going to be easy (not that it ever is). The distance is just going to complicate things a little more. DH and I are going to have some deep conversations over the next few days.

Honestly, I feel okay about it all. It's nice to know what's going on and to have a pseudo-plan moving forward.

Sorry for the book!! Hope everyone has a lovely weekend?
 
Boogers, that sound good. Maybe it will work by itself.. otherwise, talking is good, and you can use the distance to spend two days away.
OS, I hope AF stayed away today. fingers are crossed !
Tui and gomini, it's almost your time for all the bding, good luck for this month !
 
Thanks lola. Hi everyone.

No sign of O yet, opks are not showing anything remotely positive. Bet it waits till next weekend when DH is away! Hard predicting what will happen after miscarriage. May not ovulate at all!
 
Hi ladies

Lola - LOL to naked time! postcard/candie swop! fab idea!!

Booger - so glad to hear your OH's results were so good. Keeping FXed the HSG scan goes well and does the trick it did for me! (6 weeks later I got my BFP!) Hopefully you wont need the IVF.

Tui - FXed you get your +'ve OPK before the weekend.

How is everyone else doing?

AFM - Had my injection yesterday morning - all went well. Hopefully seeing my specialist in 3 months to review treatment.
Managed to see 3 properties yesterday afternoon - none of which a viable for us. 1 was just too much work for us to take on, another although perfect for us will not be available till January next year, then other was just too small.
A few more properties came on the market this weekend so will be calling to get appointments to see them soon.
Feeling more positive about this cycle. Have OPK's and BBT thermometer ready. FXed we catch the egg soon.
 
Good luck skweek, with the house (and egg) hunting. Hang in there. Just as we were about to give up our dream house appeared. Just keep glued to the websites, lol.
 
Hey guys sorry havent been on for a while. Decided to just ignore the trying to get pregnant thing. Dont get me wrong we have been trying but I thought i would just try and not think about it.

But its 3 days until AF due and yip guess what thoughts keep creeping in!!
No major implantation signs like last month, just a little bit of brown discharge around ovulation dates but nothing like last month.

Also not a total space cadet like last month - when DH kept asking what was wrong with me!

So not feeling overly confident. Have decided if no luck this month we will pop into the doctor and see if there is any advice he can give.

Next month i am away for 2 of my fertile days so prob no luck then.

Have read a few stories about people taking years so i wont complain..

Good luck everyone who is trying this month. Got my fingers and toes crossed for you!
 
Hi hattie, welcome back. Sometimes you just need a break, we understand, lol.

Good luck, hope AF stays away x
 
Thanks Tui, am fighting to do urge to do a test.
But as I have had no early pregnancy signs I think I should hold off.

Sorry to hear about your lost. Fingers and toes crossed that your cycle gets back in gear and you get a positive result soon.
 
Thanks hon. Getting frustrated with my opks as they refuse to show anything remotely positive, lol. Wish O would hurry up. I tested negative (hpts) 3 days after my d&c so it shouldn't take too long, I hope!
 
Feel for you, the hardest part is waiting! Maybe all this science/tools we have doesnt help at all as it now gives you another thing to focus on. Did the doctor say how long it takes before the body gets back in sync?
 
No they just said I can try again without delay, no physical issues. Everyone seems different from what I can tell. Just have to wait. I hate waiting, I'm crap at it, lol.
 

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