5dpo, AF due 5/12, want to wait this out together? :)

[DobbyForever]

Cute! See, I'm selfish. I'm already annoyed slightly that SO's birthday is the day before mine. He was born at 11:59pm, too. So his mom argued with the nurse because she insisted his birthday should be the next day since it just has a nice ring to it. I'd be really excited if we get solids together. Is that weird? Haha. Even if SO doesn't BD today. I shot myself in the foot and told him I wouldn't try to seduce him so it would be one less thing to worry about today. I need to stop opening my big mouth!

Well, SO has no idea when he will be coming home. He said things did not go well, and they are still hashing it out. So. Fml.

 

[Flueky88]

No cause I'm really excited too thinking about us getting our solids haha. Well DH he is wanting to BD tonight so that shouldn't be a problem. Thankfully, he has a pretty high drive, he loves bd daily. Sorry, tmi.

I'm sorry SO didn't have things go well. Maybe he'll want to BD to destress? That's what I'll hope for you. I'll let you know sometime tomorrow if I got my solid. I'll have my fingers crossed for us for solids and bd.

This may be inappropriate if so, don't answer. Have you had sex any with the flashing smileys? We did Thursday, Saturday. Hopefully, today. Again, I'm sorry if I'm overstepping boundaries. Just trying to stay positive for us

 

[DobbyForever]

No such thing as inappropriate here. We haven't BD since I last Oed. Things with his family and work have had him on the verge of breaking down, so our 15x in 3 days marathon last month was the last time we had vaginal sex. We've had the kind of sex that does not lead babies twice this week. But he's so far gone. He told me to back off which is like one more word and he's going to explode. I wouldn't be shocked if he didn't come home tonight, and I'm leaving for work at 6:30am so waiting up for him isn't happening. =/ my plan was to BD every other day starting with the first flashing smile then the solid and day after.

 

[Flueky88]

Oh, Dobby, I'm sorry he is in such a hard place. I hope he ca sort things out so you two can get back to normal. I couldn't imagine DH not coming home. I'd be so crushed. I get mopey if he has to work late. I'll be praying for you both. You are so strong.

 

[DobbyForever]

Well that's what I get for deciding to spend my life with an Aspie. Oh well. Hugs. He can't control it, I can't control him. Just self soothing. Attached are my up and ups I just went to buy. One of my old TAs was there and we're keeping hush that we're trying. Bright side, even though the cat is out she gave me a 50% discount on the opks haha. If i had known wouldn't have bought the cheap ones! Lol jk but anyway just barely negative so wouldn't be shocked to see that stupid solid smile tomorrow. Sigh. I was so sure this was going to be our month.

 

[Flueky88]

True. He is lucky to have you. You must be very patient. Oh, that's great about 50%, your right too bad it wasn't more expensive ones. Yeah it looks very close to positive. So I bet you will not gave to deal with the flashing smiley. I don't have any other opks. Just see what I get tomorrow. I'll let you know, dear, although it may be later in day before I get on tomorrow. Have a good nights. I'll be sending positive waves your way

 

[DobbyForever]

You're so sweet. I'm no saint, he has stuff he has to put up with as well. He is coming home, but he has made it very clear that there is to be no sex tonight. Just beer, our Sunday night lineup, our furrbabies, and cuddling with me. So on the one hand, I'm glad that I'm back in the good enough graces to be a stress relief. On the other, hot yoga pants and a low cut tank top? HAHAH If I can get him to momentarily go primitive, I can get sex. This is so terrible. I just don't want to tell him about the flashing smiles. I swore to myself I wouldn't involve him in any bbts, opks, or hpts unless it came back that I am positively pregnant. I don't want sex to become something we do to make a baby.

Anywho! Night night! Def update tomorrow. I take my clear blue with fmu so I'll update in the am if I wake up early enough. I'll confirm with up and up with fmu and afternoon urine.

 

[Flueky88]

So glad he came home that's a start. We dtd last night, was really optimistic for my solid. Unfortunately, still flashing. Oh well, DH won't be disappointed, hehe. Fingers crossed you get your solid and SO will come around

 

[ms sunshine]

well if the yoga pants fail dobby get him drunk, handcuffs and have your wicked way lol

hope you guys sort it out. tbh i cant even tell hubby when im gong to o as he says the stress of knowing puts him off as its too clinical so know what you mean. plus the amount of money i spend on hpts and opks he can live without knowing lol

was he in a better mood now dobby?

mac and silas are you guys in the tww?

fingers crossed for you flueky how long have you been trying ( you might have said but there 3 pages might have missed it lol)

 

[DobbyForever]

The yoga pants work every time. we dtd twice, but he pulled out so idk. It's a step in the right direction. Cb gave me a flashing smile, and the test line is so light. My up and up looks positive though. Same test just one at 4 m and one at 5. Should I put pos opk on o via and ff? Way too tired to work ugh

 

[mac1979]

I thought so, but I'm not getting crosshairs on my chart confirming I O'd so who knows. I'm just looking forward to seeing my doctor on Wednesday to get this hashed out. I'm wondering if my issues with O'ing have anything to do with the fact I can't shift this weight no matter what I do.

 

[ms sunshine]

Yeah i would dobby looks pos to me. Well sometimes day after you still have a chance so you got today and tomorrow to try i guess.

Have you had any temp rise at all mac? Hopefully iys a case of its not happened yet or maybe its your hormones from 1st pg. Hope you get some answers let us know what they say

 

[Flueky88]

That looks positive to me too, Dobby. Maybe I'll stop by dollar store on way home and get cheap opks. Glad SO was feeling better.

To us all

 

[mac1979]

I had a temp rise for a couple days but it is back to 97.9 this morning. Its aggravating.

 

[DobbyForever]

Yeah. We're going to the gym tonight and when SO takes his pre-workout it's like taking viagra haha so I brb washing my super short spandex shorts and bringing out the low cut krav tank top.

 

[ms sunshine]

Are you in with a chance this month dobby? Ivr got about another week before o after last month but am taking these prenatals so hoping they make any bean sticky this time. And going to try and not drink. Dont drink much anyway cant handle a toddler with a hangover lol just want better lucky this month

 

[DobbyForever]

I don't know tbh. My cb are still flashing smiles, but my up and up had a dark pos yesterday and a lighter positive today. My temp is up slightly, but nothing significant. It's been a bad month for temping. Shrugs. No bd. Dog went to the er and so and I fought at the gym.

CD 11 I took my temp an hour late. CD 12 I only slept 2 hours. The other white circles were heat wave nights. So my chart is essentially useless lol atm

 

[SilasLove]

Still haven't o'ed yet myself, but I was sick the last 2 days with 102F temp and crap so who knows when I will o or not.

Dobby - I hope you caught the egg despite him pulling out. Sorry OH had so much going on and sorry about your mc.
Sunshine - sorry about how things worker out with last cycle GL xx

Flueky - Welcome! GL x

Mac - I'm sorry. I completely understand your frustration.

 

[DobbyForever]

Yikes, sorry Silas! Are you feeling better?

 

[mac1979]

Dobby, sorry your puppy was sick. What happened? We have to take our dog in for another tumor removal.

Silas, I hope you are feeling better.

I'm on day four of elevated temps but FF still isn't confirming ovulation.