5dpo, AF due 5/12, want to wait this out together? :)

[DobbyForever]

Oh no! I am glad hubs is coming home tomorrow. Are your looking into worker's comp?

 

[ms sunshine]

Aw flueky hope youre ok why is your week terrible?

Yeah he wasnt looking into comp but now he will be at risk to pnemonia or how ever you spell it and hole in lung which is not reversable and will bring problems as he gets older. Luckily didnt need an op. Hes very lucky if he hadnt have twisted round it could have been a head injury which would be a whole lot worse. So im just trying to loose some weight while im not ttc see if it helps. My bmi has just tipped overweight so plan on loosing about 20lb . Im thinking of not doing bbt as well i have a rough idea when o is and i think bbt is quite stressful so in a month or 2 im just going to try and be really relaxed about it. Bit of me wonders if its really going to happen. A friend who had her 2nd child about a yr after my son is pregnant with her 3rd and shes the same age so i know its do able i just wish my ovaries where 10 yrs younger so it was easier lol

 

[Flueky88]

Sunshine, there was a drowning of a friend's boyfriend and major work changes. Anyhow how is DH??

 

[DobbyForever]

Biggest hugs imaginable to both of you

 

[ms sunshine]

aww gosh flueky thats so sad hope you are ok big hugs.

ahh hes ok aidan hit him by accident in the rib yesterday so it put his recovery back a bit. hes fed up just being in bed but the painkillers make him drowsy and he cant really do much yet tbh. ive finally registered with my new doctors so im going to make an appointment next week to get my bloods done as since we moved we've had loads to sort out and not managed to do it so at least by the time i am able to ttc we should have the results.

how are things with everyone else

 

[DobbyForever]

Yay for bloods! That rib shot sounds painful, and I am so sorry he is starting to get frustrated with recovery.

Having some shadowy lines but nothing to write home about

 

[ms sunshine]

ohhh fingers xd for you hope the lines gets stronger, can you post a pic

 

[DobbyForever]

Turns out they were just more clearblue false positives.

 

[ms sunshine]

Well ur temp is still up so hopefully might turn positive.

 

[DobbyForever]

I'm not holding out hope. What few symptoms made me believe it are gone now. My temp usually doesn't start dropping until 12dpo. Sometimes it likes to taunt me and not drop until 13dpo. So we'll see. But it would have had to be a pullout baby.

 

[ms sunshine]

Just thought id see how you all are. Hope yoi and bump are ok kk

Flueky hope you are feeling better since your friend passed away.

Dobby did you ever find the cause of ur weird af?

Ive not been on for a while ttc has brought me down quite a bit my fb is full of pg anouncments and a lpt of my friends are pg so frustrated with my body. Going to ring he docs and make an appoitment today. I guess i should keep of supplements for the blood test? Just take prenatals i suppose so nothings enhanced. I am hoping we can ttc next cycle. Irony is im late but impossible to be pg. We havnt even dtd but this cycle i had 6dpo cramps and all the cramps i normally think is implantation and sore boobs on the same day so goes to show that i cant use any of it to work.out if i am.or.not as i didnt realise i must get that every month after o anyway even when im.not pg lol doh

 

[DobbyForever]

Sorry love. That's aggravating and I hear you about being down. Hugs

Nope. Had a pap on CD 6. Came back normal, everything looked good, STD panel was neg. I did come back hpv positive again so in for a colposcopy soon.

 

[Flueky88]

Sunshine I'm feeling much better about everything right now. I think it was everything at once and I just freaked out a bit. I'm failing at ntnp. I had a 24 day cycle so I decided I wanted to do bbt to see what's going on. Then I had EWCM CD15 and 17 and did opk that was positive on CD17. I'm sorry ttc is being so difficult for you, it really sucks. I never thought it would take so long.

Dobby having trouble keeping up with general chatter thread. Work is mega busy. Trying not to stress in tww either. I hope So will bring up being ready to ttc. You deserve a nice snugly bean.

 

[DobbyForever]

Haha yeeeeah we talk a lot lol. Some days are so quiet but not this week. My first cycles NTNP were hard. I wanted to chart and so slowly I started chatting less and less until I got one full cycle in no charts! Buaha hang in there habits are hard to break

 

[DobbyForever]

Just to update: SO donated to the cause on the 4th (almost 5th). Got strong/nearly positive opks yesterday and a clear positive this morning so I expect O tonight

 

[ms sunshine]

Any symptoms or test yet dobby?

Hubbys ribs are still really sore he doesnt think we will be trying this cycle. Got 2 weeks roughly but its s#!t i will be so gutted if we dont but what can i do.

 

[DobbyForever]

Some falsey lines on wondfo. I'm too early to be testing, but you know me. Can't help it. My breasts are tender, breasts are bigger and round and I have cleavage in every shirt I wear (super odd), beyond exhausted, moody (crying/yelling a lot), breaking out earlier than usual, bloated from the moment I stand up. BUT those are all pms symptoms too. PLUS I have been eating/ craving chocolate like nobody's business.

Is still up for non-bd bd? I know saliva isn't ideal, but would he be willing to do a handy/mouthy to get his spermy outty? And then go the old syringe, preseed, and soft cup route? Or is it just less involved to wait.

 

[ms sunshine]

hubby wont do it i made a joke last cycle and i got the look lol. he will have been injured 7 weeks so im hoping he can manage it just once. im having my bloods done begining of august so at least i will know one way or the other if im ok. im not taking red clover this cycle and last cycle so it wont interfere with the results. im just glad af is nearly over with ive had 4 heavy days and its lasted 8 days in total so im drained. i imagine its stopping taking red clover as my hormones are whacky boobs super sore and my eczema has been bad all month. at least if he cant this month i know i def am next month. been trying for 1 yr 6 months now seriously sucks. oh and to top it off, hubby changed the sheets and lost my thermometre so dunno if i will get another in time.

well fingers crossed post any interesting tests. your chart looks good, good temp rise

 

[DobbyForever]

My latest test is here
https://babyandbump.momtastic.com/pregnancy-tests/2400768-frer-indent-possible-early-bfp.html

Keep floating between indent or line though

So sorry about the look and lost thermometer. . You can't get a cheap one from a store? I hope hubs feels better enough to try this month. Hoping the red clover has been helping! That 8 day period sounds miserable so I hope you are being good to yourself

 

[ms sunshine]

I can see a clear pink line in 2nd and 5th test so i have fingers crossed for you. Are you going tonget bloods done to make sure?