Hi Ladies! I had a really busy day at work yesterday & so I didn't have so much time. Plus I went for some retail therapy with a good friend of mine. And yeah in a way I need a bit of a break taking about trying & tests & blady-blah.
I had a really shitting day myself yesterday, Nat. I'm so sorry for your loss. I am sure I'll be counting the months I would have been too. So cruel, isn't it? And I realized that I'll be having no baby this year now. I had my due date for December 5th & now it will be next year. If I ever damn well get pregnant & keep the damn baby!!!!
Hubby & I are in the middle of trying to find a new house too so it's been just NUTS. And we're in disagreement on a house that I really like & he only sort of likes so yesterday I was mostly aggravated & angry. And I was having a very hard time processing this miscarriage. I booked a session with a therapist next Tuesday who specializes in infertility. I really need to talk to someone who can help me cope better. And cope with the fact that a lot of our good friends are expecting & how I don't want to be around them.
I went in for my bloods yesterday morning & it went down to 37 from 44. And then last night, full blown period. Which is a good sign b/c then the fertilized egg will be one & my HCG levels should drop right now. I hope Monday when I go back for bloods, it'll be O. I took a pregnancy test this morning & it was still positive. So I don't know how long this should take. She also said my ovulation will largely depend on how long the HCG stays in my system. So we have a chance & we may not have a chance this month. And the later makes me super sad. I've read how many woman are very fertile after a miscarriage so I'm crossing my fingers. I'd love to bypass the IUI & just do it on our own & get back on track soon. Some how I doubt it'll be this easy because we had so much of a hard time conceiving on our own as it was.
I've asked also if I could cycle monitor & I'll find out next week if my doctor says OK. I need the HCG levels gone before I can do it. GRRR.
I've booked myself into a spa for the afternoon tomorrow so I can be pampered & feel relaxed. I hope it works. Sunday we're looking at more houses. We have my SD again this weekend & I really dont feel like having her company at all. The day we found out I was going to miscarry, my step father in law came to town & stayed at our home too & he's not gone until Saturday afternoon. I just want to be alone. With my husband. Thanks.
Meg, I hope your DH feels better soon & you can get on your BD ways!!!! FX