mommaplus05
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Oh that would be sooo cool if we did all get our bfp's eh.Ladies, I just did some Maca reading & for some woman it lengthens their LP & some it shortens. Lengthening is OK - it means that if you get pregnant you'll have a good LP support. I wouldn't worry about it. XO
Good luck Momma! Keep us posted w/your tests
Ahhhh this is exellent news...phewwww annnnnnnd breath lol...
I did worry a little but also in the back of my mind I worked it out that longer lp means more progesterone which means ideal conditions for successfull implantation...if it happens.
Will be thinking about you and your iui barbs...I sooo hope it works for you and dh...
I hear you about the not missing this ...it's a loooong journey more so for you tho but it kind of emotionally draining process isn't it...
Re:3 months barbs ....it's still early days -emotionally...it's bound to still suck for you...I'm getting closer to my supposed due date and it STiLL hurts to think about but we got to just carry on love...it's a horrible thought and every so often without warning I burst into tears when I start think about the what ifs and the whys...I suppose it's hard to get on with but needs must .
I hope the pain of it all starts to get easier ASAP for you .
xxx
OH thanks so much for your support!!! YOu know where I'm coming from.
I just want to move on with my life. I want all of us to get our bfps' & be happy Celebrate in our joy. Support eachother through pregnancy. But I am moving on - and I'm not trying to dwell on it at all. So yay me.
I hope this IUI is going to work. I feel much more optimistic & excited doing IUI but I"m also affraid to get to excited.
You know, the second IUI I felt like it worked. I had a hard time totally convincing myself but I felt different. I didn't even drink in the TWW. Maybe 1 glass or smth because I had this feeling I may be pregnant. And I was. The first IUI I didn't feel anything. Maybe there is some intuition?!
Glad your able to consider moving on....in the past I have dwelled on the earlier mcs and it sucked BIG TIME...this time it hurt like mad...I think thee most hurtful mc so far but I seemed to be able to pick myself back up ....
Something told me to be strong...like the intuition I guess lol...but even tho I am being strong when I think about the whole process of it all my heart aches and I get this overwhelming feeling to fill that void inside again...
I am a Christian and I still can't help but wonder WHY?....but my faith keeps me going and I guess it wasn't meant to be...
I hate the thought of the next 9 weeks to come...no baby...I hate it I really do...
Sometimes I feel alittle anger about it too...I did everything right...and I see these people sometimes walking down the street smoking their cigarettes effing and blinding at each other,pregnant...pushing a pram with a 1yr old in it towing 4 other kids behind them yelling at them to hurry the feck up...and my heart sinks....if only they truly knew the pain inside of me...
But I guess that's there life and not mine and ladies like all of us on here would truly appreciate a bundle of joy in our arms...
The lovely Kate Middleton is showing a lovely bump now...she so tiny tho...apparently the media over here as so how managed to find out that she will be staying with her parents when the baby comes....I wonder how that's going to work out then?
Either way I wish her all the best she's lovely.
Well look at me ....my lil fingers have done a flipping marathon essay again lol
Sorry barbs...lol
Anyway....I wish you and dh all the vey best with the iui and I am sending all my thoughts and good wishes to you both...
Bring on Friday eh
xxx
Hang in there nat. I know it has been such a struggle for u ttc..but I have faith that in the end u will have that bfp and a beautiful baby in ur arms. And yes, I dnt think a miscarriage is somethings that u ever forget. I know I lost one of the twins but I can def say the miscarriage I had in 05 was the worse. It was a later miscarriage and I often think of the lil beepin heart on the screen. The whole experience was terrible. My stepdad got me threw it. He said that there was sumthin "physically wrong w that little body and it was gods way of keepin a healthy family. He told me god wld give me my little girl as soon as tge right spirit chose me to b mommy. He believed that "spirits" picked there parents to learn watever lessons in life that needed learned. He said they wld come as god intended. So I was o.k.. I fell pregnant two wks later w a baby girl. It happened quickly that time..rest assured that when u get that perfect bfp u will have everything u expected out of a child. Then u will see that all this was truly worth it and wld be willing to do it all over again...some folks just get theirs quickly and I am truly happy for them as long as they care for there babies and r greatful..my moms mother(my grandma) gave birth(unassisted, naturally) to 4 sets of twins!! All fraternal..one died at age 7..my mother was given up for adoption and that woman was a horrible drug addict...y did god give her so many kids to b neglected?? Lessons is what I was taught. Very sad. Who knows y things happen the way they do..all I know it, there has to b a few woman in the world that choose to put there lil ones up for adoption or there wld b soo many woman that cant have babies, that wld never get the chance to b a mother.. u are a beautiful and intelligent woman and I can see that without really ever meeting u. Just hang in there at trust that everything is for a reason..im looking forward to this cycle w u girls...even if it ends in bfn...))