6 DPO...& ...POAS until positive!

[crazy84]

I woke up this am at 7 and I woke w a terrible headache..boo..

Momma.... I have heard a lot of women get headaches early early on in pregnancy!!!!! Maybe that is a good sign!!

How many dpo r u now? And didnt u say u started bleeding? How long it last? Wat was it like?

I have no idea how many dpo I am... I had what looked like a positive opk on the 12 and 14th... After that Evap I confused myself out of knowing. Hahaha ugh... I just used the restroom and its there again... Af isn't due until 28/29... But I am guessing it is coming early... It has just been tinged cm so far and yesterday it was only in the morning....then again this morning. Booooooooo I am ok with it...kinda lol... Though because this is only my second cycle without mirena... So I am sure it will take a little time... Dang it! I am only on cd22

 

[barbikins]

I've heard extra cm and esp yellow tinged is a preggo sign but who knows!

Just a note: I always have yellow twinged CM in my LP. I dont' think it has to do with being pregnant.

 

[barbikins]

WOW MOMMAPLUS!!!

Look at your test....
So I had a look at it on my new app and look what it did...so it's tweaked...and it's a blue dye but this IS an obvious line....

Have you tested since this test ....can't wait till you post your tests on Friday love....aweeee good luck momma...major fx for you love....

EDIT: you can actually see the line better the further away from it you are...craaaaaazy.
xxx

Gah I see the line too but blue dye tests are very evil & do this. I have an evap line like this with all the blue dye tests I've ever taken.

Crossing fingers momma - hope you get your bfp!!! XO

 

[barbikins]

Ok ok ok I have learned my lesson I am NOT leaving for a long weekend again haha! So much to catch up on but I think I have it covered...

Momma - where are you at in your cycle now? I am pretty sure you are in the 2ww correct?

Nat - I hear everything you are saying about feeling negative about your cycle and how long its been. You have such a positive spirit about you I hate to see you feeling down... I still have FX for you this cycle... I really hope it happens for you, on your own, before August. xoxo

Barb - Weeeeee IUI Today! sounds like things are going fantabulous in your netherregions! And wow a hot doctor to check them out for you what a great week so far LMAO! So glad things are looking so great - and yes I definitely agree with going tomorrow for the added insurance - you have gone this far! haha.. glad you were able to enjoy the awesome weather too this weekend... Toronto was fun.. show was sold out so we went to dinner on King West and then bar hopped for awhile.. Sunday we went to Eaton Centre and then the Esplanade for lunch. And yesterday DH and I spent like hours working outside... I am tanned and sore as hell LOL...

How is everyone else doing?? Ahhhhhh!!!

I am 8DPO today and have not been symptoms spotting WHATSOEVER - distraction is a glorious thing.. now that I am getting closer I am sure the thoughts will creep up on me... havent tested yet or anything. I dont have any symptoms that are noteworthy if I am forcing myself to think about it..... bahhhhh

One nice little bit of news though! DH and I booked a trip in July for my 30th Birthday we are going to Vegas for three days, and then driving to LA for 2 days and San Francisco for 2 days... should be pretty awesome and it makes me feel good to celebrate a milestone rather than dwell on it... esp in this TTC process you know?

XOXO to my ladies

Yay Meg you're back! I was worried you were taking on a hiatus!!! I knew you were out of town for Long weekend & having fun though. Some times I just take little breaks without intending too - and then I have to much to catch up with that I can't even find the time to catch up LOL.

I agree w/Meg, Nat, you are a strong woman & you just need to find a way to stay positive. It's great that you are lining things up to see a specialist if need be. Hang in there! FX

Your weekend in Toronto sounds GREAT! What restaurant did you end up at?
It was fantastic weather, loved it. Spent a lot of Monday out in our back yard on a lounger

Yep IUI went great - great timing he says. I am going back today! I noted my numbers from yesterday (just estrogen & LH) & they dropped slightly indeed. Looking forward to seeing my results from today if I've already ovulated today or not. I would assume so. And having also taken the Ovidrel I wonder if that speeds things along or what.

Don't symptoms spot!!!! Both times I got pregnant I didn't feel symptoms until AFTER I knew I was pregnant. So don't bother. Waste of time

Wow - nice 30th birthday! I wanted to do Vegas for my 30th but some people bailed on me & so now I hope for my 40th? Awesome birthday surprise - lucky gal

xoxoxo

 

[barbikins]

Nat I totally get how you could get depressed after all that time. And I can't imagine it. Its been way too long for me & It's been taking a major toll. Less & less these days as it used to be. Not sure why. I think I have little expectations, that's why.

I forget if you answered me before but do you know why it took so long to conceive Harry?

Well I did have bloods done.just to see if I was even ovulating...they came ABSOLUTLEY fine....
There was one issue and Ill never forget how she said it bc it kind of tickled me at the time...she said "Natalie your hormones are up the creak dear" lol....now I find this funny now bc at that pacific time in my life it was when I let myself slip into a dark place and I had got so down....
Her plan of action was to take it easy.go on holiday and DON'T try anymore....ha ha....how right she was....OF COURSE I did not take that advice about stopping ttc....lol...
But later down the line when we eventually (mentally exhausted ourselfs) gave up- low and behold it flaming happend.

Life's little "I told you so's" have thier funny little habits of doing this eh.lol

So technically I suppose I never really been told of any "possible" issues that might be at the forefront just waiting to confirm its ugly head at us....hmmmmm I hope not .

I have had tho been told of why my mc MAY have occurred due to me having hypo thyriodism.... This is apparently an issue with pregnancys but I was fine with my lo and received no extra treatment whilst carrying him...soooo I dunno.

Sorry I didn't answer that before barbs lol I must got lost in translation somwhere ha haa...
Fx for tmr ...


xxx

Wow that's a story! Life just happens some times & you don't know why. And it's hard to know why it doesn't happen too. There are corrections that can be made hormonally & yes with your thyroid, it would probably affect things as well. It would be best for you to see a Reproductive Specialist & if you need to take meds to regulate things, that you do. I would hate to see you get depressed again & go to that dark place. It's a difficult process. We all know that way too well.

I have a friend who has overactive thyroid & she told me that woman usually go into remission when they're pregnant. So who knows why you had that Miscarriage. BUt guess what, you got pregnant. You need special care for the next time & be watching you extra careful. Do you guys have high risk pregnancy care in the UK? We have it here. I'll be on that list, unfortunately

 

[natjenson]

Nat I totally get how you could get depressed after all that time. And I can't imagine it. Its been way too long for me & It's been taking a major toll. Less & less these days as it used to be. Not sure why. I think I have little expectations, that's why.

I forget if you answered me before but do you know why it took so long to conceive Harry?

Well I did have bloods done.just to see if I was even ovulating...they came ABSOLUTLEY fine....
There was one issue and Ill never forget how she said it bc it kind of tickled me at the time...she said "Natalie your hormones are up the creak dear" lol....now I find this funny now bc at that pacific time in my life it was when I let myself slip into a dark place and I had got so down....
Her plan of action was to take it easy.go on holiday and DON'T try anymore....ha ha....how right she was....OF COURSE I did not take that advice about stopping ttc....lol...
But later down the line when we eventually (mentally exhausted ourselfs) gave up- low and behold it flaming happend.

Life's little "I told you so's" have thier funny little habits of doing this eh.lol

So technically I suppose I never really been told of any "possible" issues that might be at the forefront just waiting to confirm its ugly head at us....hmmmmm I hope not .

I have had tho been told of why my mc MAY have occurred due to me having hypo thyriodism.... This is apparently an issue with pregnancys but I was fine with my lo and received no extra treatment whilst carrying him...soooo I dunno.

Sorry I didn't answer that before barbs lol I must got lost in translation somwhere ha haa...
Fx for tmr ...


xxx

Wow that's a story! Life just happens some times & you don't know why. And it's hard to know why it doesn't happen too. There are corrections that can be made hormonally & yes with your thyroid, it would probably affect things as well. It would be best for you to see a Reproductive Specialist & if you need to take meds to regulate things, that you do. I would hate to see you get depressed again & go to that dark place. It's a difficult process. We all know that way too well.

I have a friend who has overactive thyroid & she told me that woman usually go into remission when they're pregnant. So who knows why you had that Miscarriage. BUt guess what, you got pregnant. You need special care for the next time & be watching you extra careful. Do you guys have high risk pregnancy care in the UK? We have it here. I'll be on that list, unfortunately

Yeah we got high risk and I guess i too will be in that category now...but that may be due to recent mc...
I forgot to add that they found that I have a tilted uterus too...backwards tilting...it's not good for trying to concieve as sperm has to work extra hard to get from a to b but Going by the fact that it's managed it in the past it can still work...
I recently had my thyroid check(again) lol....and it came back OK... Not too under if you know what I mean...I'm still hypo but gp says NFA for the minute...
But as I'm taking the vit b6 that should boost me alittle..fx.

You know I woke up feeling "different" today...very hopefull.

My ff say I am 3 dpo...when I took a closer look it looks like it's going by my temps and not opk...which should I go with barbs...temp or opk?

Hope it all goes as well as it can at the clinic for you today barbs...

And thankyou for your kind words...I never want to feel like I used to again...it frightens me to even think I let myself get so low then...it's enough to keep me grounded.


xxx

 

[mommaplus05]

Nat I totally get how you could get depressed after all that time. And I can't imagine it. Its been way too long for me & It's been taking a major toll. Less & less these days as it used to be. Not sure why. I think I have little expectations, that's why.

I forget if you answered me before but do you know why it took so long to conceive Harry?

Well I did have bloods done.just to see if I was even ovulating...they came ABSOLUTLEY fine....
There was one issue and Ill never forget how she said it bc it kind of tickled me at the time...she said "Natalie your hormones are up the creak dear" lol....now I find this funny now bc at that pacific time in my life it was when I let myself slip into a dark place and I had got so down....
Her plan of action was to take it easy.go on holiday and DON'T try anymore....ha ha....how right she was....OF COURSE I did not take that advice about stopping ttc....lol...
But later down the line when we eventually (mentally exhausted ourselfs) gave up- low and behold it flaming happend.

Life's little "I told you so's" have thier funny little habits of doing this eh.lol

So technically I suppose I never really been told of any "possible" issues that might be at the forefront just waiting to confirm its ugly head at us....hmmmmm I hope not .

I have had tho been told of why my mc MAY have occurred due to me having hypo thyriodism.... This is apparently an issue with pregnancys but I was fine with my lo and received no extra treatment whilst carrying him...soooo I dunno.

Sorry I didn't answer that before barbs lol I must got lost in translation somwhere ha haa...
Fx for tmr ...


xxx

Wow that's a story! Life just happens some times & you don't know why. And it's hard to know why it doesn't happen too. There are corrections that can be made hormonally & yes with your thyroid, it would probably affect things as well. It would be best for you to see a Reproductive Specialist & if you need to take meds to regulate things, that you do. I would hate to see you get depressed again & go to that dark place. It's a difficult process. We all know that way too well.

I have a friend who has overactive thyroid & she told me that woman usually go into remission when they're pregnant. So who knows why you had that Miscarriage. BUt guess what, you got pregnant. You need special care for the next time & be watching you extra careful. Do you guys have high risk pregnancy care in the UK? We have it here. I'll be on that list, unfortunately

Yeah we got high risk and I guess i too will be in that category now...but that may be due to recent mc...
I forgot to add that they found that I have a tilted uterus too...backwards tilting...it's not good for trying to concieve as sperm has to work extra hard to get from a to b but Going by the fact that it's managed it in the past it can still work...
I recently had my thyroid check(again) lol....and it came back OK... Not too under if you know what I mean...I'm still hypo but gp says NFA for the minute...
But as I'm taking the vit b6 that should boost me alittle..fx.

You know I woke up feeling "different" today...very hopefull.

My ff say I am 3 dpo...when I took a closer look it looks like it's going by my temps and not opk...which should I go with barbs...temp or opk?

Hope it all goes as well as it can at the clinic for you today barbs...

And thankyou for your kind words...I never want to feel like I used to again...it frightens me to even think I let myself get so low then...it's enough to keep me grounded.


xxx

If it makes ya feel any better I have a tilted uterus and if never kept me from conceieving at all and it seems to make for an easier delivery as well..) just butt in the air wen ya dtd..

 

[Petzy]

Crazy84 - Im sorry you think AF is comin early ugh she can be such a bitch sometimes!

Nat - Glad to see your chart looks good! Doesn't FF take into account both the temps and the OPK thouh? I am not sure how it works but you would think it would be both - but if I had to rely on one it would be temps wouldnt it?

Barb - Wahoooo second IUI day! Get pumped full of semen if you know what I mean! LOL and you really should have gone for your 30th to Vegas... we went for DH's 30th 2 years ago and it was unreal - i absolutely love it there. You deserve it! You should plan a trip with DH if you can squeeze one in... even for a long weekend. I really do find something to look forward to distracts me a lot. I spent all night booking hotels for our trip and keeping busy.

Momma - I saw the second line on the blue test too , but if you are getting BFN on pink dye I would assume it is negative... are you 9DPO today or am I wrong?

I am 9DPO today and tested for shits and giggles since I never have a test in the house lol - BFN of course. I am going to wait for AF to be due now I think. Or at least till Sat morning when I am 12DPO. I dont have a good feeling at all about this month.

 

[natjenson]

Crazy84 - Im sorry you think AF is comin early ugh she can be such a bitch sometimes!

Nat - Glad to see your chart looks good! Doesn't FF take into account both the temps and the OPK thouh? I am not sure how it works but you would think it would be both - but if I had to rely on one it would be temps wouldnt it?

Barb - Wahoooo second IUI day! Get pumped full of semen if you know what I mean! LOL and you really should have gone for your 30th to Vegas... we went for DH's 30th 2 years ago and it was unreal - i absolutely love it there. You deserve it! You should plan a trip with DH if you can squeeze one in... even for a long weekend. I really do find something to look forward to distracts me a lot. I spent all night booking hotels for our trip and keeping busy.

Momma - I saw the second line on the blue test too , but if you are getting BFN on pink dye I would assume it is negative... are you 9DPO today or am I wrong?

I am 9DPO today and tested for shits and giggles since I never have a test in the house lol - BFN of course. I am going to wait for AF to be due now I think. Or at least till Sat morning when I am 12DPO. I dont have a good feeling at all about this month.

Thankyou meg.

Sorry to hear your not feeling great about your cycle...and really sorry to hear about your bfn...but there loads of time yet love..,
Remember stay positive

My ff is confusing me.lol...I'm thinking surely the LH surge should say it all but if body temp is also conflicting this info I shal just call it a half lol...so I'm 2 and a half dpo lol...it's not 2 and it's not 3 lol...


xxx

 

[mommaplus05]

Ohh boo...thinkin maybe I really did o on cd 10-11.. cuz I am four days from af but feelin like its comin today which wld b excactly like 14 days since o... no bleeding yet but bad af cramps and lower back ache..((

 

[mommaplus05]

And that wld explain the yellow glob of cm I had yesterday that I always have before af..cant believe its comin 4 days early..that makes my whole cycle like 20 days!! Thats sooo not long enuf wen ttc..wat the heck

 

[mommaplus05]

And that wld explain the yellow glob of cm I had yesterday that I always have before af..cant believe its comin 4 days early..that makes my whole cycle like 20 days!! Thats sooo not long enuf wen ttc..wat the heck

Oops typo..that wld make my cycle 24 days..lol meanin I oed on cd 10...which is what I though...idk. maybe cramps will go away...(one can hope) lol..now I dnt know my cycle range from 24-28 days but seem to b o ing on cd 10-11 for past 3 cycle so my lp is a lil screwy

 

[mommaplus05]

Well af is here...only good thing is now I can b certain that I o on cd 10-11 each month..just dnt know for sure wen I will get af since lp is random..bright pink new blood too..so far not super heavy but definately there and will bad cramps..booooo im sad but new it was coming this whole cycle..

 

[barbikins]

Nat I totally get how you could get depressed after all that time. And I can't imagine it. Its been way too long for me & It's been taking a major toll. Less & less these days as it used to be. Not sure why. I think I have little expectations, that's why.

I forget if you answered me before but do you know why it took so long to conceive Harry?

Well I did have bloods done.just to see if I was even ovulating...they came ABSOLUTLEY fine....
There was one issue and Ill never forget how she said it bc it kind of tickled me at the time...she said "Natalie your hormones are up the creak dear" lol....now I find this funny now bc at that pacific time in my life it was when I let myself slip into a dark place and I had got so down....
Her plan of action was to take it easy.go on holiday and DON'T try anymore....ha ha....how right she was....OF COURSE I did not take that advice about stopping ttc....lol...
But later down the line when we eventually (mentally exhausted ourselfs) gave up- low and behold it flaming happend.

Life's little "I told you so's" have thier funny little habits of doing this eh.lol

So technically I suppose I never really been told of any "possible" issues that might be at the forefront just waiting to confirm its ugly head at us....hmmmmm I hope not .

I have had tho been told of why my mc MAY have occurred due to me having hypo thyriodism.... This is apparently an issue with pregnancys but I was fine with my lo and received no extra treatment whilst carrying him...soooo I dunno.

Sorry I didn't answer that before barbs lol I must got lost in translation somwhere ha haa...
Fx for tmr ...


xxx

Wow that's a story! Life just happens some times & you don't know why. And it's hard to know why it doesn't happen too. There are corrections that can be made hormonally & yes with your thyroid, it would probably affect things as well. It would be best for you to see a Reproductive Specialist & if you need to take meds to regulate things, that you do. I would hate to see you get depressed again & go to that dark place. It's a difficult process. We all know that way too well.

I have a friend who has overactive thyroid & she told me that woman usually go into remission when they're pregnant. So who knows why you had that Miscarriage. BUt guess what, you got pregnant. You need special care for the next time & be watching you extra careful. Do you guys have high risk pregnancy care in the UK? We have it here. I'll be on that list, unfortunately

Yeah we got high risk and I guess i too will be in that category now...but that may be due to recent mc...
I forgot to add that they found that I have a tilted uterus too...backwards tilting...it's not good for trying to concieve as sperm has to work extra hard to get from a to b but Going by the fact that it's managed it in the past it can still work...
I recently had my thyroid check(again) lol....and it came back OK... Not too under if you know what I mean...I'm still hypo but gp says NFA for the minute...
But as I'm taking the vit b6 that should boost me alittle..fx.

You know I woke up feeling "different" today...very hopefull.

My ff say I am 3 dpo...when I took a closer look it looks like it's going by my temps and not opk...which should I go with barbs...temp or opk?

Hope it all goes as well as it can at the clinic for you today barbs...

And thankyou for your kind words...I never want to feel like I used to again...it frightens me to even think I let myself get so low then...it's enough to keep me grounded.


xxx

The good thing is you know what your obstacles are. I think you would be well suited for IUI. And possibly some hormonal support. But you just do what ever you feel is right for you of course. I'm not patient to wait too long LOL.

We have to keep each other grounded & bring reality back when we go to that dark place. We've all been there. Me included. But we also deserve to mope & hate the world some days. It's not always smelling like roses.

I am really glad you're feeling hopeful. That's a great place to be. I've had my moments too. I don't feel anything this cycle to be honest. I am just hoping for the best.

As for FF - temping is the best way to go. It would be the most accurate way to gauge when you've ovulated. OPK will tell you when you have a surge but it doesn't tell you when you ovulate & if you ovulated. It can be 12 hours to 36 or 48 hours after a positive OPK. So I would defo go with your temping.

Good luck ! BTW I'm 1dpo today weeee!

 

[barbikins]

Well af is here...only good thing is now I can b certain that I o on cd 10-11 each month..just dnt know for sure wen I will get af since lp is random..bright pink new blood too..so far not super heavy but definately there and will bad cramps..booooo im sad but new it was coming this whole cycle..

Oh no...I'm so sorry hun! Hang in there - you only just started. This, coming from a veteran LOL!!!
Have a glass or bottle of wine tonight

 

[barbikins]

Crazy84 - Im sorry you think AF is comin early ugh she can be such a bitch sometimes!

Nat - Glad to see your chart looks good! Doesn't FF take into account both the temps and the OPK thouh? I am not sure how it works but you would think it would be both - but if I had to rely on one it would be temps wouldnt it?

Barb - Wahoooo second IUI day! Get pumped full of semen if you know what I mean! LOL and you really should have gone for your 30th to Vegas... we went for DH's 30th 2 years ago and it was unreal - i absolutely love it there. You deserve it! You should plan a trip with DH if you can squeeze one in... even for a long weekend. I really do find something to look forward to distracts me a lot. I spent all night booking hotels for our trip and keeping busy.

Momma - I saw the second line on the blue test too , but if you are getting BFN on pink dye I would assume it is negative... are you 9DPO today or am I wrong?

I am 9DPO today and tested for shits and giggles since I never have a test in the house lol - BFN of course. I am going to wait for AF to be due now I think. Or at least till Sat morning when I am 12DPO. I dont have a good feeling at all about this month.

Hi Hun!

It wasn't the cute doc today But in a way I was also relieved LOL
It was great! Hubby had 56 Million sperm AFTER the wash. He only had 10million yesterday. There were a few very surprised people & even the doc said "holy crap!" So this BETTER faking work!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I'm 1dpo today too WAHOOO!!!!

 

[natjenson]

Nat I totally get how you could get depressed after all that time. And I can't imagine it. Its been way too long for me & It's been taking a major toll. Less & less these days as it used to be. Not sure why. I think I have little expectations, that's why.

I forget if you answered me before but do you know why it took so long to conceive Harry?

Well I did have bloods done.just to see if I was even ovulating...they came ABSOLUTLEY fine....
There was one issue and Ill never forget how she said it bc it kind of tickled me at the time...she said "Natalie your hormones are up the creak dear" lol....now I find this funny now bc at that pacific time in my life it was when I let myself slip into a dark place and I had got so down....
Her plan of action was to take it easy.go on holiday and DON'T try anymore....ha ha....how right she was....OF COURSE I did not take that advice about stopping ttc....lol...
But later down the line when we eventually (mentally exhausted ourselfs) gave up- low and behold it flaming happend.

Life's little "I told you so's" have thier funny little habits of doing this eh.lol

So technically I suppose I never really been told of any "possible" issues that might be at the forefront just waiting to confirm its ugly head at us....hmmmmm I hope not .

I have had tho been told of why my mc MAY have occurred due to me having hypo thyriodism.... This is apparently an issue with pregnancys but I was fine with my lo and received no extra treatment whilst carrying him...soooo I dunno.

Sorry I didn't answer that before barbs lol I must got lost in translation somwhere ha haa...
Fx for tmr ...


xxx

Wow that's a story! Life just happens some times & you don't know why. And it's hard to know why it doesn't happen too. There are corrections that can be made hormonally & yes with your thyroid, it would probably affect things as well. It would be best for you to see a Reproductive Specialist & if you need to take meds to regulate things, that you do. I would hate to see you get depressed again & go to that dark place. It's a difficult process. We all know that way too well.

I have a friend who has overactive thyroid & she told me that woman usually go into remission when they're pregnant. So who knows why you had that Miscarriage. BUt guess what, you got pregnant. You need special care for the next time & be watching you extra careful. Do you guys have high risk pregnancy care in the UK? We have it here. I'll be on that list, unfortunately

Yeah we got high risk and I guess i too will be in that category now...but that may be due to recent mc...
I forgot to add that they found that I have a tilted uterus too...backwards tilting...it's not good for trying to concieve as sperm has to work extra hard to get from a to b but Going by the fact that it's managed it in the past it can still work...
I recently had my thyroid check(again) lol....and it came back OK... Not too under if you know what I mean...I'm still hypo but gp says NFA for the minute...
But as I'm taking the vit b6 that should boost me alittle..fx.

You know I woke up feeling "different" today...very hopefull.

My ff say I am 3 dpo...when I took a closer look it looks like it's going by my temps and not opk...which should I go with barbs...temp or opk?

Hope it all goes as well as it can at the clinic for you today barbs...

And thankyou for your kind words...I never want to feel like I used to again...it frightens me to even think I let myself get so low then...it's enough to keep me grounded.


xxx

The good thing is you know what your obstacles are. I think you would be well suited for IUI. And possibly some hormonal support. But you just do what ever you feel is right for you of course. I'm not patient to wait too long LOL.

We have to keep each other grounded & bring reality back when we go to that dark place. We've all been there. Me included. But we also deserve to mope & hate the world some days. It's not always smelling like roses.

I am really glad you're feeling hopeful. That's a great place to be. I've had my moments too. I don't feel anything this cycle to be honest. I am just hoping for the best.

As for FF - temping is the best way to go. It would be the most accurate way to gauge when you've ovulated. OPK will tell you when you have a surge but it doesn't tell you when you ovulate & if you ovulated. It can be 12 hours to 36 or 48 hours after a positive OPK. So I would defo go with your temping.

Good luck ! BTW I'm 1dpo today weeee!

Yaye! 1 dpo....

So I see your dh's sperm wash was super duper crazy barbs...lol...
Them are some elites eh.
He must be a very proud man .

So we're 2 days apart this cycle...sort of cycle buddies again.

Thankyou for your advice I was a little unsure what info to go on as ff has given me the cover line today and it's a solid one too yippeee...
My temp is slowly rising and steady...I cross referenced it this afternoon and my temps this cycle are much lower...in the "normal" category this time.lol
I just looking for that implantation dip now . fx.

Bah no cute doctor this time..ah shocks....plus side- no red face eh lol...
Very glad its gone well for you barbs...now you make sure you takes it easy now love...get them feet up and chill ...let them spermys have there egg fest...

Oooooh did you have the trigger shot this time ?

xxx

 

[natjenson]

Well af is here...only good thing is now I can b certain that I o on cd 10-11 each month..just dnt know for sure wen I will get af since lp is random..bright pink new blood too..so far not super heavy but definately there and will bad cramps..booooo im sad but new it was coming this whole cycle..

OHHHHH BIG FAT BOOOOOOOO!
In the words of meg/petz....af the slut is a right bitch!
Pardon my language.

I'm gutted for you momma...don't worry too much about the short lp...see what happens next cycle and then if it happens again I would go and see md...just incase...I think it's your birth control playing with you....
Some good news for you tho....I read earlier today that the first 6 months of coming off it is when you are supper fertile so you got loads of time yet Hun.

Hope your well and ok...are you going to start temping next cycle? Opks?


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Nat I totally get how you could get depressed after all that time. And I can't imagine it. Its been way too long for me & It's been taking a major toll. Less & less these days as it used to be. Not sure why. I think I have little expectations, that's why.

I forget if you answered me before but do you know why it took so long to conceive Harry?

Well I did have bloods done.just to see if I was even ovulating...they came ABSOLUTLEY fine....
There was one issue and Ill never forget how she said it bc it kind of tickled me at the time...she said "Natalie your hormones are up the creak dear" lol....now I find this funny now bc at that pacific time in my life it was when I let myself slip into a dark place and I had got so down....
Her plan of action was to take it easy.go on holiday and DON'T try anymore....ha ha....how right she was....OF COURSE I did not take that advice about stopping ttc....lol...
But later down the line when we eventually (mentally exhausted ourselfs) gave up- low and behold it flaming happend.

Life's little "I told you so's" have thier funny little habits of doing this eh.lol

So technically I suppose I never really been told of any "possible" issues that might be at the forefront just waiting to confirm its ugly head at us....hmmmmm I hope not .

I have had tho been told of why my mc MAY have occurred due to me having hypo thyriodism.... This is apparently an issue with pregnancys but I was fine with my lo and received no extra treatment whilst carrying him...soooo I dunno.

Sorry I didn't answer that before barbs lol I must got lost in translation somwhere ha haa...
Fx for tmr ...


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Wow that's a story! Life just happens some times & you don't know why. And it's hard to know why it doesn't happen too. There are corrections that can be made hormonally & yes with your thyroid, it would probably affect things as well. It would be best for you to see a Reproductive Specialist & if you need to take meds to regulate things, that you do. I would hate to see you get depressed again & go to that dark place. It's a difficult process. We all know that way too well.

I have a friend who has overactive thyroid & she told me that woman usually go into remission when they're pregnant. So who knows why you had that Miscarriage. BUt guess what, you got pregnant. You need special care for the next time & be watching you extra careful. Do you guys have high risk pregnancy care in the UK? We have it here. I'll be on that list, unfortunately

Yeah we got high risk and I guess i too will be in that category now...but that may be due to recent mc...
I forgot to add that they found that I have a tilted uterus too...backwards tilting...it's not good for trying to concieve as sperm has to work extra hard to get from a to b but Going by the fact that it's managed it in the past it can still work...
I recently had my thyroid check(again) lol....and it came back OK... Not too under if you know what I mean...I'm still hypo but gp says NFA for the minute...
But as I'm taking the vit b6 that should boost me alittle..fx.

You know I woke up feeling "different" today...very hopefull.

My ff say I am 3 dpo...when I took a closer look it looks like it's going by my temps and not opk...which should I go with barbs...temp or opk?

Hope it all goes as well as it can at the clinic for you today barbs...

And thankyou for your kind words...I never want to feel like I used to again...it frightens me to even think I let myself get so low then...it's enough to keep me grounded.


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The good thing is you know what your obstacles are. I think you would be well suited for IUI. And possibly some hormonal support. But you just do what ever you feel is right for you of course. I'm not patient to wait too long LOL.

We have to keep each other grounded & bring reality back when we go to that dark place. We've all been there. Me included. But we also deserve to mope & hate the world some days. It's not always smelling like roses.

I am really glad you're feeling hopeful. That's a great place to be. I've had my moments too. I don't feel anything this cycle to be honest. I am just hoping for the best.

As for FF - temping is the best way to go. It would be the most accurate way to gauge when you've ovulated. OPK will tell you when you have a surge but it doesn't tell you when you ovulate & if you ovulated. It can be 12 hours to 36 or 48 hours after a positive OPK. So I would defo go with your temping.

Good luck ! BTW I'm 1dpo today weeee!

Yaye! 1 dpo....

So I see your dh's sperm wash was super duper crazy barbs...lol...
Them are some elites eh.
He must be a very proud man .

So we're 2 days apart this cycle...sort of cycle buddies again.

Thankyou for your advice I was a little unsure what info to go on as ff has given me the cover line today and it's a solid one too yippeee...
My temp is slowly rising and steady...I cross referenced it this afternoon and my temps this cycle are much lower...in the "normal" category this time.lol
I just looking for that implantation dip now . fx.

Bah no cute doctor this time..ah shocks....plus side- no red face eh lol...
Very glad its gone well for you barbs...now you make sure you takes it easy now love...get them feet up and chill ...let them spermys have there egg fest...

Oooooh did you have the trigger shot this time ?

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Yeah my husband does well. Conceived two children accidentally. HAH! So wtf why are we having trouble this time around?! GAH.
Thanks so much hun, I really hope this is it for us. Please let this be it!!!
No trigger today - that's just once for Ovulation

I have slow climb too. I never had that dip & sudden spike up when I was temping. It's no worries at all. So you are 3dpo today for sure??
No symptom spotting lady! Just stay calm & carry on

 

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Well no more bleeding yet but the cramps r horrible. Like bent over bad. Booooo...I am sooo suprised though..I have never in my life that this short of cycle..my others kids were concieved like cycle 1 or 2 comin off bc and theyve never messed w me. Guess I gettin older though and it messin w me