barbikins
Mom to DD (RIP) & DS
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It's a very tough time, Talia - for your mom. And it can make/break relationships. Apparently it often breaks up relationships. It made hubby & I stronger. We only got into arguments when it came to trying to get pregnant. After my Chemical, he was all scared to try again & was wavering & I told him that if he's not 'in'...I'm out. And he said he doesn't want to loose me so he's 'in'. But, we've had fights...not many but they were bad. I can't be with someone who wants to give up on the prospects of another child b/c I want it. So I need to move on if he doesn't want what I want right? I won't & can't compromise on this.
That's too much for a child, what you went through. And I'm sure it's made you a stronger person too - dealing with situations in life. I went through a therapist & I have a fantastic friend who's been amazing to me. Or else I'm not sure how I would have coped. I cried a lot too...not for a year but probably every day for about 6-7 months...or more? But at some point the time in between became bigger...now I shed tears when some thing comes up randomly about Aida...other wise I try to be strong because it's a very dark place & it's not fun. I feel I'm still a bit depressed...I'm not myself yet. And TTC has made it worse....I think had we gotten pregnant easily, I would be in a better place with my heart & head.
Sorry to hear the BS at work - you'll be on Mat leave before you know it! Are you going to look for a new job when you're back to work? You taking the year off?
Yes, show us the painting!!!
That's too much for a child, what you went through. And I'm sure it's made you a stronger person too - dealing with situations in life. I went through a therapist & I have a fantastic friend who's been amazing to me. Or else I'm not sure how I would have coped. I cried a lot too...not for a year but probably every day for about 6-7 months...or more? But at some point the time in between became bigger...now I shed tears when some thing comes up randomly about Aida...other wise I try to be strong because it's a very dark place & it's not fun. I feel I'm still a bit depressed...I'm not myself yet. And TTC has made it worse....I think had we gotten pregnant easily, I would be in a better place with my heart & head.
Sorry to hear the BS at work - you'll be on Mat leave before you know it! Are you going to look for a new job when you're back to work? You taking the year off?
Yes, show us the painting!!!