Am I the only one...

[shonababu]

Shonababu so sorry about the witch - i'm thinking of you and yes i pray clomid works for you too!!! If it helps i got a bfp on my first round of clomid unfortunately it was a chemical but it just goes to show it really works!!!!

Hoping you will stay in touch we should all be pon roughly the same cycle ....would be nice to keep each other company and see when we all O. Isn't it funny we all go from waiting for the ellusive bfp to waiting to O!! oh well i guess itsw just playing the waiting game

Hope you have a lovely day today!!

I'm cleaning the house - its gorgeous weather outside and i would love to be in the garden but a speing clean is well over due!!!

Also would you believe i'm meeting OH father for the first time tonight, they haddn't spoken for a long long time untill beginning of this year so its our first introduction - eek hope it goes well!! I've met his step father who brought him up and he is lovely. I hope i'm up to his standards, its all a little nerve racking.

Shonababu if my af startys on time i will only be 3 days behind you on the clomid!! are you taking it days 2-6? I do and it made me ov cd17 this time, although i was cd22 on first round

wow that's amazing... u must be very exited.. but don't worry he will definitly like u as ur too too too sweet.. good luck.
and yes i will be taking it for cd scan2-6. i will start tomorrow if i get full flow today as i just bleeded for 30 mins and stopped . so don't know whether full flow will start today or tomorrow.!!!!!

 

[shonababu]

why is it so hard..
just saw a cute baby on tv saying dada and i got so emotional that i cried hugging my hubby.
i know m young plus we both don't have any fertility problem and its been only 3 months we are ttc but still everytime i get my af i cry.
can't believe i cried even this time when i was very very sure of af and not atall hopeful....
never ever thought that ttc would be so so so very difficult.
o god please give me strength.
ladies hats off to you all.. you are very very strong... i just hope you'll don't have to wait any more.. and get you bfp's right away coz i know how much it hurts...
sorry for that but it had to come out of my heart.. and couldn't find better place then sharing with you'll...
i just got 30 minutes of af... no sign of it now... don't know when it will start!!!!""!

nimbec is all to meet FIL. once again good luck...
wristwatch how's everything??? any symptoms dear...
brits how's u???

 

[nimbec]

Shonababu thats what we are here for!! It is so difficult with all the emotions and hormones flying around. We have been trying since october last year so i totally know how you feel. It just wasn't meant to be for you this cycle, hopefully next one will be your lucky bfp. Its positive that you don't have any fertility issues hopefully the clomid will just make the eggies super ready for the sperm to find!!!! You are such a lovely and caring person you will make the best mummy ever to one very lucky baby and hopefully we will still be in touch to congratulate you!!

I'm very deflated today too as oh keeps talking about IVF then saying straight after but we arn't at that stage yet....grrrrrrrrr he reads all the statistics saying that its best to do sooner rather than later but then makes silly comments - i get my hopes up and then dashed. my next gynae appt is on 20th june so i will talk to him then.

keep your chin up at least the sooner af gets here the sooner you can O again and get making babies!!

 

[shonababu]

thanks so much for that... i really needed your support... thanks once again.. even my DH made me understand that's its in gods hands and matter of time.. god never says he won't give u but its just that its not our time for it. he told me to think about those people with secondary infertility and LTTTC.. what they must be feeling and going through, we can never understand their pain as they stick a big smile on their face and keep the pain locked inside their heart. after hearing all this i felt that my pain Is not even 1% of it.
we cry on petty issues when people going through major issues stay happy in whatever they have... some people cry and be sad because they don't have good shoes.. but don't think of people who don't have legs for it...
had never thought like that before but my DH made me understand that. m glad to have him he is really very very supportive...
and nimbec i want to congratulate u first as m looking forward for you bfp.this cycle. and if unfortunately u get your af then its better to talk to your doctor regarding ivf. if your oh feels so.
but if u don't mind then i would advise u to go for an iui instead of ivf....
because you don't have major fertility issues to do ivf... my best best friend had pcos she used to be always unhappy because he DH was a shipie so she used to get her DH only for 3 months in a year... she took clomid 100 mg clomid + hcg inj. and iui... and bfp.. in 1st iui... she was so happy we both cried for 30 min hugging each other... i m taking treatment from same specialist. his wife is a pediatrician.. but he don't have his own children he has a adopted girl.. but he is very very famous for his effective treatment. people ttc for 15 years concieved within 3 months after his treatment..
just think about iui... over ivf...

 

[wristwatch24]

Hey ladies,

I've been outside all day gardening with DH and his mom. I started feeling cramps this afternoon so I'm sure AF is on her way. I feel just like you do...I'm deflated and disappointed and wondering why? And when? I just wish I could see into the future and know that I will have children instead of wondering now.

Going to take it easy tonight and have dinner here with my husband, and then we are going to watch a movie and then make a little fire outside and make s'mores.

 

[brittany12]

Sorry haven't been on I'm at the lake with no internet lots of fun and I may have a bfp! Will update if I can!

 

[shonababu]

hi ladies good morning... af is here with full force... so cd 1 is today for me will take clomid tomorrow.2-6.
wow wristwatch u had nice day... hope you enjoyed. so sorry for your cramps but its normal... and don't loose hope till af shows... good luck...

brits did u get a bfp??? please update...

 

[nimbec]

morning all! Well i'm 12dponow and still bfn pretty sure i'm out!

Shonababu thankyou for your advice i really appreciate it, i'm going to have a good chat with gynae on the 20th and start my 3rd round of clomid when af arrives. Its great that you can start your clomid today at least its the beggining of another journey on the ttc rollercoaster!! Its lovely weather here today so i'm going to try and relax in the garden.

Meeting with OH father went well i think!

Wristwatch how are you this morning? I'm feeling just like you - we make a great group lol!! any sign of af?

Brittany - news....oh i really hope so for you please let us know asap!!

 

[wristwatch24]

No sign of AF yet, and my temp was back up this morning. I think it was down yesterday because I was freezing cold when I woke up. So there's still hope, but since I got a BFN yesterday, I still feel I'm probably out!

How are you all today?

 

[hopefulfor1st]

i hasd the flu when i got preg!
i read on here the bodys so busy fighting it that it doesnt fight implantation like it normally does

 

[shonababu]

No sign of AF yet, and my temp was back up this morning. I think it was down yesterday because I was freezing cold when I woke up. So there's still hope, but since I got a BFN yesterday, I still feel I'm probably out!

How are you all today?

hi ... good evening... i know dear how u feel... its really difficult to sit back and relax. just hold on few more days you will get your bfp soon. don't loose hope till af shows. good luck.

 

[nimbec]

Hi all ive had a terrible day today i must have poas about 6 times grrrr so silly of me!!!!



prob going to have an early night! hope your all ok!!

 

[wristwatch24]

Can't wait to hear from Britt

I've been going through lots of nausea and dizziness today. I keep hoping it's bc I'm pregnant, but trying not to get my hopes up.

Sorry you had a bad day bec. :/

 

[shonababu]

good morning... cd2 today so took my first clomid... m so exited... pray that these days fly fast....
wristwatch. your symptoms are on positive side... fx...
nimbec so sorry for that... please dont loose hope....

 

[nimbec]

Wristwatch that sound positive fingers crossed for you keep us informed!!!!

Shonababu thats great whooo hooo i'm praying that this is your time!!

Well im cd13 today and still BFN not a good sign really

 

[shonababu]

nimbec. don't loose hope.. u give strength and support to everyone, how can you think like that.. so please dear.. you are not out yet.. fx for both of you... take care...

 

[nimbec]

Thank you!!! I'm trying to stay positive and we are possibly going on holiday to spain on the 4th for 2 weeks so that would be lovely. I just need to know that i'm not preg before i fly so not booking till last minute. It will be a good way to take my mind off things and if my cycle comes properly i should O when away so maybe make a holiday baby

Just think i'll be taking a suitcase full of both pg and O tests at this rate! lol!! They'll think i'm bonkers when they scan my luggage

hope you all have a lovely day

Brittany hope your ok hun

 

[shonababu]

that's great...wow m so happy for you...fx..

 

[wristwatch24]

Hey girls. Was gonna test this am but decided I couldn't handle seeing a bfn. So I'm going to wait to see if I get 17 high temps and then test.

Bec I am so jealous that yOurw f

 

[wristwatch24]

Stupid iphOne lol. Jealous that you're going to Spain!