Hi ladies,
My husband is definitely getting a vasectomy after this baby. We had planned on having two so, when I found out my daughter was breech and would need a C-section, I brought up the idea of tubal ligation at the same time. DH suggested that, even ththe was also sure we would be done, it might not be best to make a permanent decision at the end of a really rough pregnancy (the hg, and some other chaos and complications). He agreed that we definitely didn't want a future surprise, and volunteered that he would get the snip within a year after that birth. Funny enough, when the time to actually talk about it came up, one or the other of us "joked" about maybe having another baby instead. Then it became less of a joke. We agreed to both think on the issue for 6 months and talk again. We were both surprised that we were both thinking it was a good idea, and...well...here we are. But, we are DONE after this.
I have been having more good days than in previous pregnancies, but the bad days are still brutal. I had my first official appt yesterday, and the doctor was really Keen on medications even though I explained that I had minimal improvement with them in the past. She did seem satisfied that I am staying hydrated and my weight has.stabilized.