So I am kind of annoyed.. Every time I go out to see my grandparents my grandpa asks me what the babys name is or asks me if its still Emery Bay. At first he and my grandma kept telling me it was very pretty, in fact my grandpa was the one who told me that my hubby was outnumbered because everyone else liked it (hubby didn't really care for it at first but he's come around) but today, not even 2 minutes after we got there, they told me Emery is ok but Bay sounds stupid (yes, they actually said stupid) and that I should name her something else. I in turn told them its not their kid and their negative opinions don't matter to me, all that matters is that I like the name. I happen to think Bay is a very pretty name, as a middle name anyway, I wouldn't use it as a first. Then they started rambling on about something else, at that point I turned around and told my mom I already wish I had just stayed home. That was just uncalled for and RUDE.
Why would you tell me its pretty and that everyone likes it then change your mind 2 months later? Gah! Her name is set, I love it I actually put some thought into it and we are 100% not going to change her name, especially not to please someone else! I think she'll like the name too, as a whole its rather unique in my opinion.
I hate it when old people (or anyone for that matter) just up and change their mind so bluntly like that. And to think I would change it just to please them? Not happening!