anyone lost in 2011 and trying again?

[9babiesgone]

I am so tired of waiting. why cant it be the 20th already?

 

[Mel S]

lol, enjoy your lay in! arnt you good going to the gym, i need to get more active, but im def not a gym person.

I'm really not a gym person either but figure that getting active can't be a bad thing to do. Plus my clothes are still tight from where I had begun to expand

 

[Mel S]

I am so tired of waiting. why cant it be the 20th already?

I know its frustrating but it really will come round soon enough.

 

[Eternal]

Well, im feeling more motiavted and know i need to exercise more so hopfully that will keep up.

Today i went to see a friend who specialises in alternative therapies, i had a few different things including refelxology (which i didnt think i would be able to let someone tough my feet but it was fine) and acupressure (uses the same points as the acupunture but applied pressure instead of needles).

I bought and ordered different drugs to try too, so i will be taking;
Maca - Whole cycle
Vitex - whole cycle except menstruation
Evening primrose oil - menstruation to ovulation
Fkaxseed oil - ovulation - menstruation
Royal jelly - everyday


I took loads of things when i conceived sam and ive spent a lot of time reading up on these so fingers crossed.

 

[9babiesgone]

I am so tired of waiting. why cant it be the 20th already?

I know its frustrating but it really will come round soon enough.

thanks!!!
I really hope it does. how are you?

Well, im feeling more motiavted and know i need to exercise more so hopfully that will keep up.

Today i went to see a friend who specialises in alternative therapies, i had a few different things including refelxology (which i didnt think i would be able to let someone tough my feet but it was fine) and acupressure (uses the same points as the acupunture but applied pressure instead of needles).

I bought and ordered different drugs to try too, so i will be taking;
Maca - Whole cycle
Vitex - whole cycle except menstruation
Evening primrose oil - menstruation to ovulation
Fkaxseed oil - ovulation - menstruation
Royal jelly - everyday


I took loads of things when i conceived sam and ive spent a lot of time reading up on these so fingers crossed.

I love maca. it is great for not only reproductive reasons but for overall health. I took evening primrose oil before my ovulation. I have heard vitex is good, do you know anything about it?

 

[spellfairy]

wow brill eternal! your on the ball. Iam either waiting for a BFp or a AF so i can get started also. Feels weird but i feel pregnant... i just want it too bad... postive thought missus...

 

[princess_bump]

could i join you ladies?
we only lost our 'little lamb' on the 6th of feb, but we're going to start trying straight away. i was 5 weeks and 2 days, and we miss him so much
i've been reading lots about ttc after miscarriage and i'm desperately hoping to catch the fertile window, if it exists!
so hi i'm carly
xx

 

[princess_bump]

wow brill eternal! your on the ball. Iam either waiting for a BFp or a AF so i can get started also. Feels weird but i feel pregnant... i just want it too bad... postive thought missus...

wishing you lots of luck for this cycle spellfairy, hope af stays away for you xx

 

[spellfairy]

wow brill eternal! your on the ball. Iam either waiting for a BFp or a AF so i can get started also. Feels weird but i feel pregnant... i just want it too bad... postive thought missus...

wishing you lots of luck for this cycle spellfairy, hope af stays away for you xx

get ur ov tests bought now and start straight off as i started 7 days after. there was a women earlier this week who was told at her mc that her ovary was just about to release an egg.

 

[xSamanthax]

How is everyone doing today??

I don't know if i'm coming down with something or if my AF is finally on the way (my AF if still on track should hopefully show its face tomorrow) as i've been feeling really sick and drained the past couple of days, it's the feeling sick that really makes me feel bad, its constant. I know i'm not BFP as we have been using condoms, we don't want to TTC again until i've had my first AF after the MC. I just feel so rubbish at the moment. Anyway enough of the pity party.....

Hope everyone that is TTC this month get the BFP they want!!

 

[Niamh22]

yeah that was me and i did i obvulated on monday/tuesday and i had my miss carriage last wed confirmed on scan on the thurs. so now waiting the 4/5 weeks he told me to wait before i did a test if AF didn't show up. Welcome Carly sorry for your loss x

 

[princess_bump]

niamh - thank you, wishing you so much luck for your bfp this cycle. sorry for all the questions, should i wait 4/5 weeks following my mc for testing or af to show?

spellfairy, my ov test's arrived this morning and the bleeding has stopped, that's our green light i suppose! nervous and excited about it all at once. thanks for your support hon

samantha rant away, that's what we're here for

 

[spellfairy]

what niamh means is the tried over the ov time but now she has to wait 4-5 weeks to see if she caught that egg hope so !! what a miracle that would be. MOther nature is so harsh to us but sometimes throws us all sorts or miracles .

Princess bump still a bfn (cheapi tests which are crap before dont normally work on me til i am 5 weeks pregnant). If af dont rear her head today i might buy a dear test today and test tonight or tomorrow or maybe valentines day ... jeesh this wait... i promised myself i wouldnt get carried away and here iam the serial tester already... my body cannot cope with being empty. i miss the flutters, i miss the kicks and punches, i would love for a miracle to happen this month, only you girls and my close friend and Oh will know....

 

[Eternal]

9babiesgone - thanks yeah, this will be my first time using maca, its not come yet, I ordered it online but I have spent a lot of time reading up on it and it sounds fab! So im very excited. Vitex I used when I conceived my son, so im fairly confident it works, its also what is contained in the ferti-aid and fertility blend products which so many people are successful with. I prefer it being separate though so I can control when I take it and how much.
The thing I like about maca is that you can still take it during pregnancy and it supposed to be good at maintain progesterone levels so helps prevent miscarriage and because its just a food its safe.

Spellfairy - im convinced your already pregnant, so don’t take anything. I really really hope you are. If not then when AF arrives you can look into what you could take, but for now, im convinced your pregnant so just let me know when you test. I really want this month to happen for you xxx

Princess_bump - hello and welcome, I am so sorry for your loss. I have read up on the fertile window too and there are enough ladies on here who get pregnant before their AF and on their first cycle to support that. I also read that doing the SMEP really increases your chances on your first cycle trying (after AF) so ill be trying that this month, def cant hurt. Wishing you loads of luck.
Everyone is different to if they ovulate the first cycle, how long you will still show positive and when your Af will show up. I would probably just wait for AF to show, you wouldn’t want to get a positive at 5 weeks which was because of the MC and not a new pregnancy.
For me I bled for 2 and a half weeks, I ovulated a week later and Af turned up a week later. So a bit of a weird cycle. Good luck.

xSamanthax - Sorry your feeling rubbish, hopfully it will show up on time and you can start TTC again and get your BFP on your first cycle. Glad to hear you have convinced your OH to dtd again. Good luck

 

[Niamh22]

getting excited for you spell fairy, you having any pregnancy symptoms, think that is my sickness i am all trying to spot symptoms lol.

Eternal i'm interested in everything you are going to take i only take folic acid should i be taking more how do they help? or where is best for me to read up on them?

 

[Eternal]

you dont need to take more folic acid unless you are advised to but can safely take up to 800mg, which is what you should take when pregnant.

the one you could read up on to start with is maca, its a food so its safe, just google things like maca and fetility and you will read loads. im a big fan of this site
https://natural-fertility-info.com/maca

i know my problem is hormone balencing, i actually think im pritty fertile when my hormones are hehaving as each time they are ive gotten pregnant on my second cycle.

that site also talks about vetix here we call it angus cactus. i used that with my son so i think it works for me, plus a lot of the "miricle drugs" such as fertili-aid contain that, which obviously speaks for itself.

i would safe to read up youself, dont just read the forums, do your own study as there are two sides to each story, there are just as many sites saying not to take them. if you dont think your going to have problems conceiving then dont take them as they could mess you up.

As i say i know i have a hormorne inbalence, and my cycle was warped last month (although it could have just been because of the MC). i want to try these natural appreaches first before ended up on medication and articial hormones to regularate me.

hope that helps, PM me if you have any questions and ill try my best to help

 

[9babiesgone]

9babiesgone - thanks yeah, this will be my first time using maca, its not come yet, I ordered it online but I have spent a lot of time reading up on it and it sounds fab! So im very excited. Vitex I used when I conceived my son, so im fairly confident it works, its also what is contained in the ferti-aid and fertility blend products which so many people are successful with. I prefer it being separate though so I can control when I take it and how much.
The thing I like about maca is that you can still take it during pregnancy and it supposed to be good at maintain progesterone levels so helps prevent miscarriage and because its just a food its safe.

I Love maca!! we can be maca junkies together!! LOL

I am having a really hard day, some times I think my support isnt wanted, not here on this thread, but other places. : (

I need some good news. some good happy place to think of

 

[spellfairy]

prenatal for the chemist is only 5.25 i started taking this 2 weeks after mc when i found it. app its one tab with everything in it including folic acid.

yeah i have had headaches, stomach cramps, ib, right hand pain, peein a lot. but feels like af coming, you know that feeling. ive temps of 36.4 and still loadsa cm. iam on day 30 now and long not to feel empty. in sept we started trying after my period started start of sept. i found out 4th oct exactly 30 days later with a bfp. this time im messed up cos mc , fingers crossed. i think im going to test again today ! jeeshhh £££ but either that or hundred s if this cost me a shrink lol joking!

 

[Eternal]

9babiesgone - you ok? someone say anything? your so lovely, your support is always wanted.

spellfairy - sounds promising ... let us know what the test says. fingers and toes crossed hun xxx

 

[princess_bump]

9babiesgone - so sorry to hear your having a rough day
spell fairy - lots of positive symptoms there! i really hope this is your bfp for you.

like eternal i've been taking vitex (agnus castus) again, since our loss. i took it for our 'lucky month' of ttc, so thought i was worth trying again. i'd read a lot about it's properties in relation to pcos, which i've had for a long time, so thought i was worth a try again. especially as prior to our loss, af had began to be terribly heavy and longer again.
tomorrow willl be a week since we first got our bfn and our loss began, although i'm hoping af wont show, i shall be bitter-sweat 'pleased' when/if she does after this, hope that makes sense!