Futuremommy1
Mommy to a lil girl
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Futuremommy1 - my goodness you have really been through the mill, I'm so sorry. Straight after too, that must have been horrendous.
This is our 11th month trying. I feel like it's never going to happen! I wish I could fastforward to 10th June so I know one way or the other. When I was pregnant, I felt completely different, there was no mistaking it. I don't feel like that at all so I think I know I'm out this month too.
Acaseofyou I feel the same When I was pg I had every symptom sore boobs metallic taste peeing all the time racing heart. And I haven't felt that way again. So I feel I might be out too I bought some hpts so I'll test. Cause I can't not test but I dunno this is getting to me.
How are you handling it?
Not very well! I literally think about nothing else. Even when I am thinking about other things, TTC is in the back of my mind, I'm obsessed! I try not to talk about it constantly to DH as I don't think men are designed for this kind obsession He just said to me this morning that even if it's not our month we really tried our best and that's all we can do, which i thought was sweet and made me feel better.
What about you, how are you handling it?
Sometimes I wonder if I'm handling it well at all. I try not to talk about it too much to my husband because one I have a hard time putting it all into words and two he's very empathetic and emotional so I need him to be stoic and strong. I do think about it constantly especially since my cycle is all different...
And I don't have any rl friends who've gone through this (at least none close enough to me that talks about it). I've been thinking of finding a therapist. I usually have one that I can bounce things off of. But we just moved here so I hadn't found one here yet.
Your Dh sounds very sweet and supportive and he's right. We'll try again next month and the next until we get our