nice to finally be in the tww. You should try to count the days til af though (IF she shows) so you will know your lp for future. I have to know all that crap though lol! WOW i think you covered your bases with the bd'ing! i so hope we did. we got cd 15 16 18 19 20Twinkle, yes! It's a relief that baby is healthy, wiggling away in there, waving its little arms & legs around! And yes, we will find out the sex, reluctantly though. DD was a surprise & although I wasn't 100% on board with team yellow at first, I loved it in the end! The reason we're not team yellow this time (& it was a tough decision for me) was because of the stress of being prepared for the baby. I was really stressed the first time around because nothing was ready. I was waiting to know the gender. So, knowing the gender = less stress. So we're going with that route. Although I totally see myself sobbing when I find out, being like "but I really wanted a surprise!"Oh hormones...
welll honestly, if you still want a surprise, get a couple of neutral onesies. if it's a girl you're fine, if not, you have somethin gto take baby home in. not like we dress them all up in their finest when they first come home anyway right?
Yes! You can do a nursery in grey and white and add pink or blue when baby is here. If a girl you'll have plenty of clothes!
Thanks mommy & Powell. Thats sort of the way I did it with DD. we bought both girl stuff & boy stuff (nursery decor & outfits). We painted the nursery a gender neutral color (cream). My parents did girl laundry once we found out it was a girl & brought clothing to the hospital for her. But then when I got home I still had to make her name for over the crib, decorate her room with the girl stuff we bought & return all the boy stuff. While I had a really tough PP recovery, & a rough start to breastfeeding. I just don't think I can handle the stress of all that while trying to take care of a newborn & my toddler. But thanks for the suggestions!
No news here. I am CD 26 still no positive opk or temp change. I had a ton of ewcm on Friday but it's all but gone now. I'm pretty sure the clomid gave me a cyst based on the pain I'm feeling. I need to call my doctor next week. I think we are going to go on birth control for at least a cycle. I'm not sure if we will be ttc again until the new year. Just feeling drained and I'd like to get the clomid out and try femara.
Sorry for such a down post. I just don't think I'm ready quite yet.
I also got a lot of cm after O'ing (quite a bit more than I did leading up to O, which was frustrating) so I wondered if after O the cm we see could be what was actually in the cervix during O? Or that could be totally dumb speculation I have no idea really. I never have been that good with the cm checking and whatnot. Either way hopefully your body already O'd and it's a good sign for you!!! When will you start testing?
I don't think I will test until next weekend if af is still mia. I'm fairly confident I had an implantation dip on my chart but definitely don't want to see a chemical or anything by testing anytime soon. Or realize that I'm totally wrong and the vitamins have just successfully lengthened lp some and that's all that I'm seeing in my chart.
Lots of ladies seem to have good luck when they've had lots of cm after O! Idk if that is ewcm necessarily though
