They're doing pretty well. Harriet has been congested for over a week now so I'm going to go to emergency shortly. Also think I might have a uti---super painful! Hoping they can find a reason for her congestion and they don't just tell me to start cutting stuff out of my diet to see if she's allergic to something.
Wilf is still not breastfeeding very well, although on a good day I've managed to get him to latch a couple of times (and zero on a bad day). Pumping as much as I can and then he gets formula at night. Can't help feeling guilty about the formula, but there's not much I can do. Some days it feels like I hardly see him because he's always being bottle fed by someone else and demanding Harriet takes all my time. Oh well, doing the best I can.
DS who is 5 is reacting like crazy to the babies and we're constantly hearing about his behaviour at school. I think things are starting to get a bit better, but it's really painful when you're so over tired and he comes home and wants attention and you're just not able to give it to him. I know it'll get better with time, but I feel horrible some days. Never realized how good we had it when it was just a single newborn and no older children. Still, even though I cry several times a week, I couldn't be happier on this Mother's Day. Happy Mother's Day to everyone!