April bfp....please!

[jzgrace]

When is AF due?

 

[Claire92]

Today according to calendar

 

[jzgrace]

How many dpo? I heard some girls don't have enough hcg til 6 weeks along to show positive.

 

[Claire92]

I'm new to all this so I think I'm 12dpo I'm not sure I recalculated my cycle there on the boots web md and it says according to latest period history I have a 26 day cycle and af isn't due until tommorow so if that's true then I'll wait till tommorow arrives and if no af I will test again first morning urine I'll try but still no usual symptoms of af arriving I usually have cramping and very sore bbs and sensitive nipples sorry if tmi lol x

 

[jzgrace]

Its not tmi... Lol don't worry about that. No signs of AF is a good thing! I'm only 2dpo and the waiting is making me want to scream! Is ur AF pretty regular? And do you use any methods for O prediction?

 

[Claire92]

Well the thing is my mirena just fell out in January this year and I waited maybe 4-5 weeks for a period as I never had a period while on mirena I was on mirena for exactly one year I had it placed after a blighted ovum and 12 weeks before that blighted ovum I had an ectopic and had to have my right tube removed so this is my first time ttc after over a year I want it so bad this is my second cycle since mirena and it's been regular since 26-27 days cycle I usally have symptoms of af but none this month fingers crossed she doesn't show tommorow I haven't been using anything to predict the big o so just kinda going with it x

 

[jzgrace]

Mirena is BC right? I've heard of lots of girls getting pregnant SOON after stopping BC. I prayed for you. I know how bad you want this, and its so hard to not be anxious about conception and things working out right. Hang in there and I pray that AF stays away! I use the cm/cp self exam method. It not that stressful checking things that way because your learning about your body, and your cycle at the same time. So if AF shows(which we hope it won't) maybe try checking cervical mucus at end of af and through out ur cycle . I read that checking cm is one of the best ways of tracking O. Fx for you hun! Let me know what happens?

 

[Claire92]

Well last week my cm was watery milky like , I checked my cervix position tonight and it's low and hard I've heard lots of different results regarding cervix position and stuff so don't know what to think fingers crossed af doesn't show tommorow I will be testing first thing anyway so I'll keep you posted thanks for the replys xxxx

 

[jzgrace]

Watery is the cm that should come before the ewcm, and is also considered fertile cm. Looking forward to the results!

 

[Claire92]

Well I'm sure when I ovulated because my cm was thick and stretchy like boogers lol .. Then last week it was egg white like cream but not too thick just thick enough for me to notice it kinda dried up now tho when I checked my cp it was just watery/wet no colour or thickness ohhh am so eager to test in the morning praying af doesn't even show her face xx

 

[jzgrace]

Also, the postion can change within hours. I check my cp morning and night. The day before and day of ovulation it is soft (nearly blending with the walls of the vagina) and slightly open. The morning after O it was soft, then in the evening it was more firm almost back to hard(and when they say like a nose it means it kinda sticks out from the walls ) it took me a while to figure out the different positions and textures.

 

[Claire92]

I can't tell if it's open or closed just know that it's low as I don't have to go far till I can fell it and it's hard like the tip of your nose only checked this about half hour ago xx

 

[Claire92]

I've been so selfish in this chat what's your plans are you ttc at the moment and if so how are you getting on xx

 

[jzgrace]

Oh yeah, the thick kinda boogery cm is the ewcm and is the MOST fertile cm. So as soon as you see that, DTD! You may not need to cause AF better not show her face!

 

[Claire92]

Well I'm sure I dtd few days before the ewcm so hoping those little swimmers stayed away and caught on and if af arrives tommorow or the next day there's always this month to try again but if she doesn't show tommorow and I get another bfn I seriously won't know what to think xx

 

[jzgrace]

If you did DTD around the time ewcm it is a great thing. Ewcm is a perfect living condition for swimmers. It provides them with a safe place to survive while waiting for your egg. Some girls will get bfp early and some later that others. I've heard of some girls not getting a bfp til 6weeks or longer.

 

[Claire92]

I'm sure it was a few days before ewcm we did the deed but sperm can live upto 5 days down there so here's hoping are you ttc too x

 

[emmielou222]

Hi everyone This is our first month ttc for our first baby. I had my implant removed 7th of feb and had my first AF in six years on march the 8th. AF is due around the 5th of april. I suffer from very bad anxiety so hopefully Idon't get too stressed with it all. Hope you all get BFP this month!!

 

[jzgrace]

Hi there! Thank you! And fx for you too! I suffer from anxiety as well. Its driving me nuts! If you have any questions I will try my best to answer them.

 

[Claire92]

Seriously can't stop thinking about testing in the morning or thinking knowing my luck af will come through the night arggggg stressed x